libras

Dont get upset its just a question. I know a few libras i love you guys. My ex was a libra and im currently dating one, but reading the forums of others who dated libras too it seems as though they can be stubborn and never admit when they are wrong? Atleast right away. They can be onesided with their opinion and very fixed. Sometimes may not even see your side or atleast admit it right away? For me ive always had to be the bigger person apologize even when i wasnt wrong and just be emphatic to my partner. I dont like arguing or fights so i diffuse it quickly but sometimes it can hurt because it seems as though your feelings get pushed to the side just to make the relationship work and be peaceful......thats not fair. Maybe advice or tips? Communciating with some libras isnt easy at times...im a very striaght forward communicative person. Anything i post here ive already tried to communicate that with my current lover its always an argument so i let them have it...my ex was this way too

I guess how to understand or just communicate with you. Sometimes it seems like you dont care but you do. How does one communicate without it seeming like your telling them what to do...for example friday night me my current libra didnt talk for a whole day inlet them calm down they called me late sat...the stem of the argument came from something I knew they lied about...i told them hey babe in order for us to get along its best we communicate and this could have ridded confusion....then they said f love....i asked them why whats wrong? I said dont let whatever going on change your heart or effect our current situation...they got mad said stop telling them how to say stuff? Im like ok i was just trying uplift an encourage you.....smh sometimes its hard to communciate because they take things the wrong way and never admit or apologize for that matter of their wrong doing thats not fair for the partners but i guess that's something u have to deal with when dating libra....even my abusive ex will never admit what they did....never admit their jealous possessive side never admit when they hurted me but they made up in other ways i cant explain it. Its like dont talk about the negative just overlook it

I agree i like that tell me truth i love honest please just communicate even if your scared to just tell me...@libralula

Im going to look uo their mercury

Posted by lovely77
I guess how to understand or just communicate with you. Sometimes it seems like you dont care but you do. How does one communicate without it seeming like your telling them what to do...for example friday night me my current libra didnt talk for a whole day inlet them calm down they called me late sat...the stem of the argument came from something I knew they lied about...i told them hey babe in order for us to get along its best we communicate and this could have ridded confusion....then they said f love....i asked them why whats wrong? I said dont let whatever going on change your heart or effect our current situation...they got mad said stop telling them how to say stuff? Im like ok i was just trying uplift an encourage you.....smh sometimes its hard to communciate because they take things the wrong way and never admit or apologize for that matter of their wrong doing thats not fair for the partners but i guess that's something u have to deal with when dating libra....even my abusive ex will never admit what they did....never admit their jealous possessive side never admit when they hurted me but they made up in other ways i cant explain it. Its like dont talk about the negative just overlook it

It seems like he has other issues going on, but AGAIN, apparently Libra men are a little different than Libra women. Yes, we can be stubborn, and I'll admit, I don't like apologizing, but it's mainly because I do everything in my power to avoid making emotional mistake in the first place...lol, but it happens and as I've grown older and matured, I will apologize if I do something wrong. However, I am opinionated and I definitely speak my mind and that has come across to some people as being nasty, but it's only when I'm pushed. For the most part, I try to be tactful when speaking to anyone. Libra's have be known to be called nonchalant, non-caring or just have that aloofness aire about them, but it's not true. Strange creatures we can be as with any sign, but a lot of times, we're in our head and some crazy stuff can go on in a Libra's head that may not have anything to do with you, but at the same time, of course it affects the person we're in a relationship with. It's just one of those loopy Libran characteristics that we're born with. Still, there's no reason to excuse his lie if you caught him in one, and if he got angry because you confronted him about it, then that's something you may want to decide if you really want to continue on with someone who can't be open and honest with you...regardless of love. Never compromise your values, integrity and belief too much and you're not getting anything in return. At some point if he continues to act childish, then give his azz that boot. You're not his mother, you're his lover and he should treat you as such.

My friend has libra sun, moon, mercury, but scoprio mars, and this is pretty much him..
He likes to over look the bad things that have happened or that have been said. He also NEVER likes to bring up arguments or misunderstandings for clarification, he'll just move passed them, misunderstandings, resentment and all. He also never likes to take responsibility for his actions, more specifically the messed up actions. He hates talking about it. The only time he will ever openly discuss his mistakes, is when I make it clear that I was hurt and I would like him to be more sensitive and/or considerate to other people's feelings. Sounds corny, but that's life, we are all human and have emotions.
When I tell him these things, he surprisingly listens and makes the effort to accommodate his friends' needs, it would be nice if he did it on his own though, oh well.

Posted by lovely77
Im going to look uo their mercury

yes, let us know his mercury, what decan is he?

Their mercury is libra moon us cancer they have alot water and air placements

My ex thiugh had a scorpio mercury and virgo moon @mysterioustaurus my current libra is way my calmer though than my ex but both still were one sided when wrong

what decan is he though

First decan libra @mysterioustaurus

Posted by lovely77
First decan libra @mysterioustaurus

lol mine too, which decan are you? im second decan taurus.

This os true dont allow it and walk away etc i was just pointing out that i feel libras r one sided but give them time to think and they have a weird way of apologizing and not admitting fault take ownership of responsibility. I hear what your saying about maturity but why so many libras have these qualities? Women too i was just wondering from a libra perspective why this could be also ive dated women libra so....seems like the men do it too @sugarfoot i always approach mt partner with sincerity. I feel some topics they get real defensive. My ex was this way abd a few others.

i don't like to apologise but if it is in my relationship, i seem to have zero reluctance in admitting i am wrong. i think that is more his effect than any sort of personal growth on my part.

Posted by Sugarfoot
Idk. I can't really explain that. I don't like the nagging feeling of unresolved issues between me and people I'm close to. It makes me feel insecure in my relationship (which is a feeling I really hate). I feel at any moment the person would say, I'm sick of your shyt and I'm leaving. I like to root out problems and get them solved as quick as possible.

The only thing I can say is maybe it's procrastination on their part? They basically put off handling something they feel will be unpleasant until it absolutely must be dealt with. Otherwise they just don't wanna be bothered. Like they won't want to handle it until the shyt hits the fan.

i agree with this. i won't apologise if my heart is in it. if i don't care, i'll apologise for a rainy day.

we're a stubborn bunch as well. once we dig our heels in, it's hard to do an about face and admit we were wrong.

i think you're right with the insecurity that people will just up and go but i think that is projection on our part. we know, we would up and go for certain people in our live, so we assume others would be the same. which is probably why i have no hesitation in apologising to my so but almost everyone else can suck it.

procrastinators? we are expert rug sweepers.