My Birthday is September 30th ... Why is it that I can be so happy,giggly and social one moment, but if something happens that doesn't go how i planned for it to go, I become the total opposite from happy and social... I become ruthless self centered,cold and just willing to hurt anybody to make them feel how I feel. It never lasts more than a day, but when I get upset and stressed I really become emotionally detached.
Libras when stressed
Because September Libras = cray cray.
I can relate. I can be nice, smiley and outgoing with people (being "on"), but after a while I will get instantly drained and have had enough. I don't slowly lose energy like a phone battery, it's more like god yanking the plug lol.
at that point i literally cannot summon the happy social face, so i will call it a day. if I'm forced to still be around them, I will only be quiet and not give a f about entertaining them any longer, and if they're oblivious enough to get in my face and keep trying to engage me, i will eventually get snippy with them.
at that point i literally cannot summon the happy social face, so i will call it a day. if I'm forced to still be around them, I will only be quiet and not give a f about entertaining them any longer, and if they're oblivious enough to get in my face and keep trying to engage me, i will eventually get snippy with them.
Posted by LuckyLibra979
We are idealistic, meaning we act the way we think we should. But as a cardinal sign you still have a strong sense of self. All Libras do. Some Libras think they have to be assholes some think they have to be nice,. From an astrological stand Point Libras force(cardinal)ourselves to be what we think we should be(air)based on our values and morals(Venus)
Yes omg I always have to play along my image. Im all about appearance, so i feel like if i do act out of character that will hurt my image rather than help it.
Posted by socrunchy
I can relate. I can be nice, smiley and outgoing with people (being "on"), but after a while I will get instantly drained and have had enough. I don't slowly lose energy like a phone battery, it's more like god yanking the plug lol.
at that point i literally cannot summon the happy social face, so i will call it a day. if I'm forced to still be around them, I will only be quiet and not give a f about entertaining them any longer, and if they're oblivious enough to get in my face and keep trying to engage me, i will eventually get snippy with them.
OMGGGGGG WE ARE THE SAME PERSON. Lol, I literally laughed so hard at this. Thats so true, theres nothing gradual about me. Every mood swing, i have it always happens rapidly. Wtf is wrong with us.
My boyfriends birthday is in October and he's the sweetest most loveliest person I know but I know.....but sometimes if I do something wrong that he doesn't approve of hell shoot me a glance that's really serious and scary, the reason it's scary is because he doesn't mean to do it and it comes naturally,
Posted by luckiedollsmiththat's how we roll. that's why friends and family know they don't want to be on my bad side. we're libra, our symbol is scales but it takes a while to master balance so our personality are extreme good or extreme evil.
My Birthday is September 30th ... Why is it that I can be so happy,giggly and social one moment, but if something happens that doesn't go how i planned for it to go, I become the total opposite from happy and social... I become ruthless self centered,cold and just willing to hurt anybody to make them feel how I feel. It never lasts more than a day, but when I get upset and stressed I really become emotionally detached.
Feed them sweets.
Im so happy I'm not the only person who deals with this issue. I thought it was just me
My ex was oct libra lol when them scales our in balance watch out. But just love them and let tbem6have their rant they will get over it soon. Sadly tbis was reason for our breakup...my ex mood swings were all day everyday feom one scale to the next it got out of control lead to violence and abuse😢. Im now dating a sept libra thry seem chill for now....my friend was engaged to libra aweet fairy tale from outside but in the inside she left also due to abuse.
Posted by luckiedollsmithWow +1000. We are very self conscious.Posted by LuckyLibra979
We are idealistic, meaning we act the way we think we should. But as a cardinal sign you still have a strong sense of self. All Libras do. Some Libras think they have to be assholes some think they have to be nice,. From an astrological stand Point Libras force(cardinal)ourselves to be what we think we should be(air)based on our values and morals(Venus)
Yes omg I always have to play along my image. Im all about appearance, so i feel like if i do act out of character that will hurt my image rather than help it.click to expand
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