libras abusive have violent behavior..scales our not balanced?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by lovely77 on Thursday, December 3, 2015 and has 27 replies.

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@lovely77
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Different topic my ex is a libra. Just found out one my friends sister fiance she cut it off because he was abusive. On the surface it looked like a perfect relationship. They r sweet charming etc, this is the reason me my libra ex broke up too. Yes i do know all libras may not be this way, but do u guys secretly put on an image but internally have a violent temper? Also eminem libra my ex was just like that...when we broke up omg they never let it go that i left even left me threatening messeges lollllll i hope my new libra isnt this way : ( damn..i love yall though but whats up do u have tempers and secretly be possessive and jealous. ..the libras i know deny this too because they try keep perfect image.
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@lovely77
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Lmaooo @luckylibra979 u said it the truth. Yea i think some libras try hide it especially when in love they dont look at it as jelaousy or possessive more like hey your mine im protective lol. They will hold it in then bring it up later.
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@M00Nchild
12 YearsCancer
My ex-husband is a Libra, and he too is very violent. He has a horrible temper, he did get physical with me at times, and he has a record of violent crimes.
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@lovely77
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The thing is libra need learn talk about their internal feekings because they blow up later in rage. Just talk about it dont hold it in. But i guess maybe walk around think about it. My ex would think about stuff weigh their scales then hours later maybe days curse me out about something im like wtf why not talk about it then lol @luckylibra979 some may b a little paranoid too like damn
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i have a bad temper. i would hazard a guess and say libras have an almighty temper because yes, we'll tend to repress things or accept a lot of nonsense before we hit boiling point. with that said, i haven't lost my temper in decades. i've been annoyed or upset but not that boiling rage i saw when i was a kid. i know it is still there though, bubbling under the surface.

i know they say you don't want to make a taurus angry. i think libras would make bulls whimper if we really got in our stride.
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Lmaooo yesss @harukaa my ex got upset because the waiter looked at me certain way....they didnt like when anyone made mt plate either very protective. And they got mad at their friend once because they asked about like hows so and so...my ex got paranoid said dont speak or ask about me yes sweet and sour
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Posted by LuckyLibra979
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Part of the Libra balance thing is having trouble achieving balance.
I've been tryna decode your name for a while now. Does it mean anything or am I reaching?
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Duchess is the name of the Disney Aristocat in my pic. The O instead of A for Libra is because my natal sun is less than 2 degrees into Libra and I believe I have Virgo-ish tendencies that I attribute to being on the cusp.
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Posted by LuckyLibra979
Posted by duchesslibro
Posted by LuckyLibra979
Posted by duchesslibro
Part of the Libra balance thing is having trouble achieving balance.
I've been tryna decode your name for a while now. Does it mean anything or am I reaching?
Duchess is the name of the Disney Aristocat in my pic. The O instead of A for Libra is because my natal sun is less than 2 degrees into Libra and I believe I have Virgo-ish tendencies that I attribute to being on the cusp.
So u just knew I wouldn't guess that huh lol but it is very neat I like unique things



I'm strange like that
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What were you guessing? 🙂
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@duchesslibro
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Posted by mysteriousTaurus
Posted by duchesslibro
Part of the Libra balance thing is having trouble achieving balance.
The irony
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Why is it ironic?

Libra is the sign of striving for balance, not the sign of being born perfectly balanced. Some learn to balance fairly well. Some struggle with swaying scales. I don't see the irony.. unless you hear the word balance and assume it means every Libra should be perfectly balanced from the day of birth.
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@Ipleadthefifth
10 Years
Libras have their own scales balanced according to their moral compass.

What a Libra deems I right and wrong differs from Libra to Libra. And they will make war to achieve their peace.

Never underestimate a Libra 🙂
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@scorpionmoon
10 Years
Obviously it's #notalllibras but some of the most cruel people I know were born in October.
I think air signs can often be incredibly cold and lack huge quantities of empathy. Usually they are self aware enough to feel repentant afterward, but I've heard several Libras brag about causing another person pain. They can be extremely judgmental based on superficial attributes like appearance or social/financial class. But that's just my opinion.
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Posted by lovely77
Different topic my ex is a libra. Just found out one my friends sister fiance she cut it off because he was abusive. On the surface it looked like a perfect relationship. They r sweet charming etc, this is the reason me my libra ex broke up too. Yes i do know all libras may not be this way, but do u guys secretly put on an image but internally have a violent temper? Also eminem libra my ex was just like that...when we broke up omg they never let it go that i left even left me threatening messeges lollllll i hope my new libra isnt this way : ( damn..i love yall though but whats up do u have tempers and secretly be possessive and jealous. ..the libras i know deny this too because they try keep perfect image.


Frankly though, I have yet to meet a violent, physically abusive Leeb. My ex can be emotionally abusive, but he's still not a grown man in some ways, it can be understood.

I don't believe that being abusive in any specific way is sun sign specific though, just human nature.
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I agree with what everyone said. Someone said to me once before that look to the symbols of each sign thats what the person neesa to work on. For example gemini need to work on the dual side 2 faces. Cancers need to stop being in their shell and hide when stuff hits the fan 4 me thats why i find ppl to help me get out my shell rather than hide in it. Leos are lions but really should work on thr taming of thr lion libras some arent balanced at all they need help with balancing...tbis all makes sense now look to each sign symbol is really the struggle of the zodiac thwt they are or need to work on erc i agree.
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Posted by LuckyLibra979
Posted by duchesslibro
Part of the Libra balance thing is having trouble achieving balance.
I've been tryna decode your name for a while now. Does it mean anything or am I reaching?
Duchess is the name of the Disney Aristocat in my pic. The O instead of A for Libra is because my natal sun is less than 2 degrees into Libra and I believe I have Virgo-ish tendencies that I attribute to being on the cusp.



LOL I thought that maybe you were a man. Lmao. I literally held on to that possibility up until this explanation.
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Baaahhahahaha!! I knew I wanted a cat pic so in searching I found Duchess. I love that movie and she's a classy girl and a good mama. 🙂 I wanted to incorporate the O from my cusp but I've really never been thrilled with how it ended up. I'm just not a bro, you know? lol. I wanted to start posting so bad I just went with it. I've had a new handle qued up for a few months now that I haven't used yet, am thinking it's a new year, fresh start thing. Haha!
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Yes, I can get totally out of control when I get angry. It does take a lot to get me there, but when I do get there, it's not a pretty sight. It' s actually horrifying to be honest...even too me.
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@elguapolibra
10 Years
As a young Libra I was quite violent and hot headed, but that was mainly due to environment. Had to be ready to throw down at any moment, abusive household. I hate being violent and short tempered, I dont find it to be a very attractive, so I'm not attractive showing that side of me.
My scales are definitely unbalanced lol but I try everyday to correct them. I have never raised my hand to any of my partners, and any one who does that, male or female, are cowards and the lowest form of creature. Stay away from those people regardless of sign. My cancer ex really tamed me then the capi ex kept trying to see if she could bring it back out lol