Do Libra's play innocent?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by luckiedollsmith on Thursday, November 26, 2015 and has 14 replies.

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@luckiedollsmith
10 YearsLibra
People say that Libras acts so nice and orderly because they have an image to maintain. Which I can agree with because I'm like that but is a lot of libras like that? And do most of us just secretly hate and judge alot of people?
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I agree with rockyroadicecream. Self awareness in context to others begins with being able to understand that people can see your intentions if you are being obvious, you will mirror and attract the behavior you are putting out... being hated and judged. People are not as stupid as you would believe them to be.
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They have a lot of trouble dealing with their true feelings sometimes. They will avoid things that are important and sweep it under the rug just to keep the peace when it really is something that should be dealt with. I think the ones with Scorpio placements makes it even harder because then they are very apt to hide what they really think and bottle it up and when it rears it's ugly head, the outcome isn't pretty for anyone involved.
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"- I don't understand why you love Virgos so much.

- I don't understand why you hate Virgos so much.

I don't understand why people just won't leave me alone and let me be a Libra."

- Alyssa Sharpe
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I haven't met a lot of libra but the ones that I new had this innocent way about them. They walk around doing nice things for people and showing people that they care. The only issue I had with some libras I known was saying one thing, doing another or not really meaning what they say. I had a libra coworker she would bring gifts in for other workers for random reasons. Then come to me complaining how stupid everybody on the job is and she don't deal with those people. by lunch time she smiling calling people lovely and nice then by 3 she's emailing me telling me she don't trust her coworkers and she only trust me..the next day I found out that she send several people similar emails saying she only trust them. Lmao.. On this libra I can go on and on with stories.
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Posted by gemguyaz34
They have a lot of trouble dealing with their true feelings sometimes. They will avoid things that are important and sweep it under the rug just to keep the peace when it really is something that should be dealt with. I think the ones with Scorpio placements makes it even harder because then they are very apt to hide what they really think and bottle it up and when it rears it's ugly head, the outcome isn't pretty for anyone involved.
This is quite true for me especially when I was younger. I was a people-pleaser, just trying to keep the peace with everyone, but as soon as I felt taken for granted or used (or rather REALISED that I was, which took a while to sink in), my Scorpio side would come out and lash out, quite violently sometimes. Typical passive-aggressiveness. Most people were very surprised by that side of me... and I myself hated that side of me... and so the cycle continues :/

I had always wondered where my temper came from, so I decided to study psychology in university. That helped me to realise that I do have that passive-aggression in me, and I also learnt ways to manage those emotions and how to express them constructively. Then much later I became interested in astrology and this has opened my mind and eyes to a lot more interesting stuff about myself.

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I dislike lots of people and I'm pretty judgey.. but everyone has the opportunity to change my opinion of them.. sooo.. there's no point in outwardly expressing my dislike for someone and creating animosity so yeah, I keep it friendly, mostly. Unless you're obnoxiously annoying like Busyeyes.
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Jfc. Why is anybody concerned that lovely Libra traits are not "valued" in today's society? The only thing you should really be worried about it the bigger picture. The cutthroat traits some seem to wish they had only create negative karma. Why the hell would you want that?
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Posted by TheLibraMudra
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Posted by TheLibraMudra
I'm so innocent.
I'm pretty sure you can't out-innocent me
We are so goddamn innocent.
indeed we are ..
Inoffensive - Nonchalant - Neutral - Obedient - Clueless - Easily swayed - Naive - Tamed

it's even worse when you have a LIBRA moon or mars 😢

#hollyhockmoment
😢

I have no spine, so I'm typing this from the floor by batting my eyelashes flirtatiously. My neurotically mascara'ed eyelashes would also like to politely add "Vain" to this list.
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you sound like my double libra buddy. I see her as rising above. She doesn't allow herself to get pulled into petty drama because she can see both sides of the fence and it gives her a "coolness" which I admire. She is peace loving and goes with the flow, wants the people around her to be happy. The only exception is she fights with her gemini hubby mercilessly... she is really hard on him and those in her family closest to her, she wishes for them to be as peaceful & accepting as she is and she wishes her hubby to have similar social graces. Ive always admired those qualities (except the trying to change the people around you) maybe because I have mars in libra (conjunct pluto). I'm still a work in prorgress but being able to see both sides of the coin is an admirable trait and being charming on top of it you probably have a lot of friends and if you chose to be, you could be quite good a manipulation.