Libras and LDR

Hi~all libras

For those that don't know, I am currently in a relationship with a libra male but its ldr and its literally killing me because I miss him a lot. So I am just curious if any libras here had a LDR and how it was like for you? 🙂

my libra best friend just had a 6 week seperation from his gf - damn near killed him - had threaten to knock him on the head if he didn't stop moping like a sick puppy 🙂

lol @ zen, u bring out the best solutions for the worst case scenerios 😄

well, according to him, he wold never consciously engage in ldr, he'll rather break up - well...no surprise there, you know how they like to touch, romance, foreplay and all that crap !
oh even with friendships, out of sight becomes out of contact with my lib friends and family 🙂

yeah zen i can feel he is pulling away, I don't blame him because I know ldr are very hard. I am actually considering freeing him ~ I don't know if that makes sense because at the same time I love him so much.

well, do what's best for you at the end of the day, right?

If you love someone, you should be able to let them go if it makes them happy...or if it makes you happy 😛

if it was meant to be, you'll prob cross paths again

if it was meant to be, you'll prob cross paths again

I know what you mean zen 🙂 I actually thought about this quite sometime, I do love him enough to leave him and believe that if it is destiny then we will meet again 🙂

wel you're young, you still have tonnes of paths to cross 😉

awww thx zen, you really cheered me up 😄

thanks Virgo_Libra 🙂

from past posts I have seen, I think most libras want their partners close to them. It actually hurts me to see him unhappy, so I think letting go is the best option for the both of us. I will talk to him tonight.

I am just not sure what he will say, will he try to keep me even if he is unhappy? 😢

Hmmm, he might. Depends on how large of a distance u talking abt. Or how strong of a bond y'all have

an ocean apart.....only 8months into the relationship...5moths together, and 3 months apart man. It is killing me too!!

Damn! A whole ocean.. My heart goes out to you. I regret losing contact with my ex.. And he's only a hour and a half away. There's NO way I could imagine a whole ocean..
Stay strong!

thx Virgo_Libra 🙂

I actually just want him to be happy thats all thats important to me even if it means me leaving. I just want to know how he is feeling so I know exactly what to do to make him happier

you know even if he's feeling similar, he would like to not hurt you so might as well know how he feels, right ?

you know even if he's feeling similar, he would like to not hurt you so might as well know how he feels, right ?

heres the tricky part, how will one go on figuring out a libra is unhappy if he doesn't tell you. I want to to know so I can take the next step.

I tried to speak with him last night but he was busy, I just got a chance to ask one question:

I asked, "Are you happy" (this question was suppose to lead to me asking him if ldr is working for him but I didn't get a chance to continue.)
He answered, "Yes, I am very happy"

like so many libras here have said that they will pretend to be happy in a relationship when they are not, I am afraid that is the case. I don't even know how to make him tell me the truth, any suggestions? 😢

Honey..I was in a lrd for 3 yrs, and it was a 12hr distance. It was great, but after so long I wanted him to move to me. My job was military so I couldnt move. He wouldnt budge, and we broke it off. If you insure us that you love us and do things for us to make us feel at ease. It will last as long as you want, and if he loves you. Then it is killing him not to have you near. Hope I helped 🙂

aww thanks libragal76 *hugs* 🙂

I do love my libra a lot so I really want the best for him. I miss him terribly, I am trying my best to cope without him beside me. Perharps its Christmas and the snow is starting to come. Just feel gloomy.

Yw. I Know how you feel, and don't be thinking he isn't feeling the same without you there for the holidays. He is! Hang in there sweetie