Libra's are Amazing

Hello All,

I am new to this forum but had to proclaim how wonderful you Libra's are on your board. My husband is a Libra and weve been together 2 years and celebrating our first wedding anniversary this coming September. My Libra man never ceases to amaze me with his kindness, sincerity and romance! From the day we met we became instant friends who could talk to each other easily. Taking our time our relationship seemed to easily lead to romance. Ive read so many women on here that ask how they will know if a Libra man is interested...they will tell you!! Take it day to day with no demands and just enjoy each other and if its meant to be your Libra man will shower you with affection and attention. When a Libra man is in love you will have no doubts. This Leo woman has never been happier!! 🙂

Hey your from my city! *waves*

I love leos. If the timing is right, I think it is the best combo there is. Welcome to the board.

Thanks to all for the warm welcome! Waves back to you Little Sparrow.
Ive been in a few long term serious relationships in the past but pretty much knew
right away that my Libra was the guy for me. In my forties now and this is my first
marriage. Mother always told me that when I met "the one" it would just feel right.
Hoping to spend many happy years together just like your parents Amethyst2002!
Libras are so special 🙂

my Libra keeps me purring...no doubt about it sdgaf...

Libra hubby was always the total gentleman while we dated and he constantly shows me the utmost respect.
From day one he made me feel special like no other man has and we are a team in all we do.

good that someone here actually work out with there libra male.

if a Libra man is interested...they will tell you!! Take it day to day with no demands and just enjoy each other and if its meant to be your Libra man will shower you with affection and attention. When a Libra man is in love you will have no doubts.

QFT.

Hi Nefer!
Hi Diddylibra!...do you find most women post about things not working out with Libra men?

I'll answer for him kitten. Yes!

Personally, I think Libras are pretty easy to figure out. When you are "the one" you don't doubt it. When we really, really like you but just aren't feeling it, you get hot-cold confusion.

I'm so happy to hear your success story! This city can be hard on the single girl. I ended my long term relationship in January. Your post has given me a little hope. Thanks. 🙂

You MUST be new, Kitten! This forum is RIFE with Libra relationship issues.. *mostly* from women about hot-cold/distant/indecisive Libra men and variations on their struggles with them. In fact, I am SOOOO happy to see another woman actually WITH her Libra Man and actually HAPPY! I've felt like the (Libra) Male Mentality VS (mostly Water) Female POV language translator, and usually their only cheerleader! Welcome to the Nuthouse!

* *mostly* from women about hot-cold/distant/indecisive Libra men and variations on their struggles with them.

It is because they aren't the one. If they were the one, their relationships would be different. Don't forget, Angel and Nic have a great relationship too.

Thanks little sparrow ...sorry to hear about your split. Nefer..LOL...thanks for welcoming me aboard!
I agree about Libras being not that hard to figure out. I sat back and enjoyed the time I spent with my guy when we were dating. I let him know I was interested but just let things progress slowly. In the past when I have been pursued and smothered I tend to run in the opposite direction. Perhaps its because Im somewhat older but I just let things run their course. All fell into place and we were friends before the romance and physical aspect,

Posted by little_sparrow
* *mostly* from women about hot-cold/distant/indecisive Libra men and variations on their struggles with them.

It is because they aren't the one. If they were the one, their relationships would be different. Don't forget, Angel and Nic have a great relationship too.

Yes, either not The One, or not even giving the poor guy longer than 3 months to decide such an important thing! Usually us emotional Water-types are too impatient to let it flow naturally and SEE if a relationship is meant to be.... our feelings are so strong, so fast, we expect them to keep up with us in that dept. (Actually, a LOT of women have shorter "timelines" than men do, and create problems where there's no need.) Any time my Libra needed some space or time to make a decision, I let him do it. He didn't go COLD, though he did go COOL. But really, I've seen that from pretty much every male of the Zodiac. Handled properly and maturely, it doesn't have to be a big deal.


Ohhh yes, Angel and Nic, lovely couple... but their marital bliss doesn't shock me - they're both Libras!

Show me a HAPPY Scorp-Libra relationship, THAT will shock me lol

hee hee! agreed Nefer.

And yes Kitten, I'll give you that one. Older, more mature Libras are especially wonderful and amazing. (Not that younger ones can't be.. look at Sid and Nic, for instance!) A huge portion of the Libra man issues here are with Libras under 30 and/or immature... heck, a lot of men under 30 aren't mature enough to do a healthy relationship, regardless of Signs! And then there's crazy female issues with women who also don't know what a healthy relationship looks/feels like.. I was one of those at one time too! Sometimes I think it's a wonder anyone survives dating and relationships in this day and age LOL

Sorry to all for my disappearing act....youve all been so welcoming.

Nefer I agree that women tend to push men to quickly sometimes. I knew in my heart that my Libra
was interested and the relationship was building yet I fought the urge at times to go full out too fast.
In the past when falling in love I would not be shy in gushing over and spoiling my men. My husband let
me know he was interested but I just went with his lead. We met in October 2008, he told me he loved me on
December 5th, proposed January 20th 2009 and we married in September of 2009.

Now Nefer as far as the Libra/Scorpio relationships.....from some posts Ive read on here they dont seem to
go over well??!! From my experience as a Leo woman for whatever reason and as hard as I try to get along Scorp women
seem to push my buttons. My husband has a female Scorpion friend (that he knew before me) and she feels the
constant need to compete with me. Oh well, thats a whole other discussion!

Thanks again to all for your replies, nice meeting all of you 🙂

Posted by HappyKitten
Hi Nefer!
Hi Diddylibra!...do you find most women post about things not working out with Libra men?

i would say 9 out of 10 womens here have issues with libra's males lol

Well Diddylibra all I can say is that Im glad to be 1 out of 10 who found my Libra soulmate! 🙂

Compatibility forecasts that I had read over the years stated that Libra's were a great match to me as
a Leo. After being in long term relationships with a Scorpio, Virgo and a fellow Leo did I have the pleasure
of getting to know my Libra husband. We just clicked pretty much right off as friends and it bloomed from there.

Lucky me!

Congrat you pass the test , not many can handle libra's male ways of life lol hahaha

we have alot of libra's male haters here i'm glad that few of you are not lol

So true for your first post HappyKitten... They do have their downfalls dont get me wrong.. But i wouldnt trade my libra mn and all hiss moody indecisivness for anything in this world.. Its weird cause he kinda balances me!

Hi Beauty! Thanks for stopping in!

What a wonderful way to put it as I find my Libra balances me as well! In the majority of my past relationships I always ended up always being the strong, responsible one who ended up carrying the bulk of the whole support system of the relationship. So very true about the moodiness as my husband can go up and down like a yoyo sometimes. I too have my habits and moods but we both know when each of us needs support or just to be left alone for a while. With my Libra I have found balance in compromise and it works fabulously for both of us. When we first started dating he would constantly ask where we should go to dinner, what movie to see, what I wanted to do etc. I expressed that I wanted him to be vocal about what he wanted as I didnt think it fair for us to always follow through with what I liked. He told me straight out that if he didnt want to do something I mentioned he would just come out and tell me...and he still does. It works great...I come up with some of the ideas and we decide...together 🙂

happy kitten, m soo happy for u..lcky, lucky gal!!
and sag_cap_beauty..u're soooo right!!

thanks very much annamo!

Posted by HappyKitten
Hello All,

I am new to this forum but had to proclaim how wonderful you Libra's are on your board. My husband is a Libra and weve been together 2 years and celebrating our first wedding anniversary this coming September. My Libra man never ceases to amaze me with his kindness, sincerity and romance! From the day we met we became instant friends who could talk to each other easily. Taking our time our relationship seemed to easily lead to romance. Ive read so many women on here that ask how they will know if a Libra man is interested...they will tell you!! Take it day to day with no demands and just enjoy each other and if its meant to be your Libra man will shower you with affection and attention. When a Libra man is in love you will have no doubts. This Leo woman has never been happier!! 🙂

Reading this just gave me some optimism with my Libra man. Maybe as a Sag I just have to stop being too critical of him and needs to give him his space. Oh boy it's a good thing that I found this discussion board days ago. Next time that I'm pissed off with my Libra Man I'll just go here and have a rant, that way I can be sweet to him and we won't have any complications. I'm just wondering though if your Libra man is flirty? And how you cope up with it?

Actually after having a read on most topics here, I came to a decision of playing it cool with my Libra guy. So far we are doing fine, and now he is giving me much attention again.

Do try to help us though HappyKitten, hope you could check out mine "Libra: flirting vs. cheating" and give your two cents.

HappyKitten, I'm a Libra girl dating a Leo man and I think it truly is a great zodiac combination! I just hit my year mark with my man, and we both totally see many years to come!

Glad to meet the same combo 😄

So now I know that horoscope mess isn't right. Best matches for Libra's are Leo. NOT Gemini or Aqua. No wonder I have yet to come on this board and see a positive Gemini/Libra relationship.