Libras back...

Libra showed up today at work..Called and asked me what I wanted in my coffee..

Haven't spoken to him in awhile, emailed him yesterday regarding a purchase I needed to make from him..Got his reply cold and to the point..No hi, kiss my ass, nothing..Just his answer..

Then he shows up today..Gives me a big hug and a kiss and stayed for about 2 hours..Told me he is not bitter anymore and wants to be happy and is getting along good with the ex..Kept calling me buddy and at one point said I was like the little sister he never had..

Kept bringing up my ex boyfriend and asked me if I was upset the last time we went to dinner because I had just broken up with the ex..I told him it had nothing to do with the ex, it was because he was rude at dinner..

Anyways when he left he gave me another huge hug and a kiss..And when he was getting in his truck he said nice ass and smiled..I just looked at him ,smiled and said you shoundn't be looking at your little sisters ass...

What the hell..Always mixed messages..Can they not just say it like it is??

Why do they say they don't want to be with you but flirt so terribly??

because they are flirts. he's not into you the way you may want him to be based on what you've shared.

i think what he may be doing is keeping his options open. he is flirting to see how far you'll let him.

absolutely....had the same thing from my Libra a few months ago....I put an end to it though. Not going there again and wouldnt recommend you even entertaining the idea 😛

when do you know a libra really wants you and not using you as an ego boost, back up or just flirting?

when they show you that they love and/or want you......actions speak louder than words....simple

I don't understand why he does this...This behaviour is what gets us into disagreements and then he dosen't speak to me for awhile..Obviously we still want to be in each others lives in some way, or we would have ended it and that would have been it..We have agreed it is to be a friendship, so why does he keep flirting and saying stupid things..

He already knows that I am not going to sleep with him again and i have moved on from wanting a relationship with him....

I just don't get it..I guess if I want his friendship, I will have to put up with his stupid behaviour..Do u think when he gets into another relationship, which he says he is ready for, that he will stop this crap and just be a friend??

I'm not upset more annoyed i guess..We just cut contact in June because of this, he called and said he talked to other friends who were female and asked them why they just can't be his friend and one of them told him that he leads girls on..So he cut contact with everyone and has just hung out with his neighbours and guy friends, said he felt like a player although he wasn't intimate with any of these woman..So the boy isn't dumb
and took responsiblity for his actions..So why do it again??

Take him seriously..That's a joke..Been to mislead by him, to ever take him seriously again..I Have overlooked all the times he has hurt me and have always looked to his best qualities to remain friends with him but I will never open my heart to him again..only in friendship..

I know what you mean, they seem to do things to bother you on purpose...He always tries to rile me up and throw me off..He tries to keep staring at me and making eye contact until i look away and then he laughs..Weird!!

I just think he is mentally unbalanced!!!