Libras- HELP.

I need help. I'm a junior in high school .. And I talk to a libra. Well atleast I did.. I love him very much and in the beginning things were perfect . He took my virginity this year , we broke up some months after that. And I would bug him and try to talk to him and i would try to ask what I Did.. And he just wouldn't respond. And when I would be disrespectful he blocked me.. We eventually ended up getting back cool with each other. My parents found out about him taking it . They not taking it well .. The whole family isn't they have been cussing him out often. Inboxing him .. He's talking to some other girl , and he's been making it seem like after this is over it's gonna be a "Us" but he's talking to another girl.. He's so hard to let go of , especially since he took my virginity . I just miss him and I want him to want me and be obsessed with me like how he was before.

Oh lord did you take plan B? Please say you are not pregnant and used protection? And yeah most people experience this types of things, which why you need to spread awareness to others.

You make sure you tell them to wait it out for as long as possible for the right person who isn't a manipulative ass.

It's never going to be the same as maybe people get attached to the one who will takes the precious virginity away. Right now you need to simply go do something like keeping study, making friends, think about your future career and start not thinking about boys...

Be independent, go get a job if you are 16 because fast food restaurants will hire you, make money by the time you graduate you have saved for your own independent things, car, your own place, and sit back and learn about behavior of manipulative douche that we do get in our lives.

A boy will will be much more sexually active and hormones raging than a girls at your age. You both made that pact, you both did it together because at any time you could bow out and stay no... Didn't your school have sex ed?

@blackphase- Hm so people looking up libra on Google and dxp.net pops up first or what causes there are many sites type in Libra guys bam tons of options first before dxpnet. Lol probably linda, then yahoo answers, then dxp.

i'm sorry this happened to you. i'm afraid this is just something you will have to accept. life can be unfair and sometimes things don't pan out the way they thought they would.

this guy is not treating you well. if he is disrespectful and seems to be interested in someone else then as hard as it is, you need to believe that you deserve someone better. you deserve a guy who will respect you and care for you, not because of sex but because he is your friend and values you as a person and not what you can give him. you will meet lots of people in your life. i know this is what is happening now and you love him but like muldra said, in a few years, you'll wonder what you ever saw him in.

so let the libra go. he is not the one for you. know that you are ok without a guy and when the time is right and the right man comes along, he will want you and obsess over you for all the right reasons. until then, build up your strength, realise your worth and make sure the next guy has to meet your very high standards because you deserve it. don't waste another moment trying to convince this other one that you are great. he is too silly to see what you already know.

He is way older.. Well not way older but he's 18. He talks to some girl who is like 19 with a baby .. But you guys are right I'm just so hurt by the entire situation.

And No I'm not pregnant or anything like that

Posted by blackphase
Junior High? Dear this is no place for you, you will find nothing but hurtful words here.. I recommend you look for advice elsewhere. Not trying to be mean, but I can already see how this is going to play out.

Okay .

What I am going to tell you isn’t going to be easy but it is going to be worth it.

There is nothing more cliché than a broken heart. It happens to everyone yet nothing feels more personal and lonely.

Not everyone you love is going to be “the one”. Noone is going to save you. Noone is going to rescue you.

You always have two choices. You can take the female escape route: cling on to the leg of a guy (or the first guy) that pays attention to you, make babies and hide from the world OR you can be brave and show the world who you are and what you are capable of.

Who are you? Who do you want to be?

Don’t let the fear talk. Pretend anything is possible. If you weren’t afraid, what would you do?

As hard as it is, let this guy go. Life may have greater things instore for you but you will never know if you don’t give yourself a chance. If you chase after this guy, chase after this guy, chase after this guy you will never know who you are and what you are capable of. And I promise you, if you give yourself a chance and take on the world yourself, if this guy is the one for you, he will come to you. If he isn’t, someone better will.

The more you ignore him the more he'll want you back! .. go live your life and enjoy it as much as you can, find a hobby make more friends, then he'll hear about all the fun that you're having without him.. he'll come back running! but I hope by then.. you'll realize you deserve someone better than him and tell him that it's too late 🙂 having an attractive life will attract him and all the boys .. boys fall in love with happy girls believe me! good luck

Give up on this guy. Dont believe anything he says. This is going to sound harsh but he doesn't want you because if he did he wouldnt be talking to another girl. Maybe hes just saying that you'll be together because he doesn't want to hurt you with the truth especially with whats happened. I know it's so hard to let go of the guy you lost your virginity to. I get that so much but it hurts more holding on to something that may never happen. I'm sorry this happened to you. You didn't do anything wrong some guys just aren't emotionally available or the fire burned out. There's honestly nothing you can do to get a relationship back because if the other person isn't feeling it they're not feeling it. I suggest not talking to him at all to get over him and do you. Continuing on this relationship is just going to be painful. Again I'm sorry this happened to you love