looking 4 love

if any male libran is interested in chatting in earnest with a 20 something intellectual female cancerian, then i invite open conversation. (sun - cancer, moon - sagg, ascendant - aquarius)... and yes, u have to be a bit quirky but spunky!!! praetorian 🙂

Honey, you dont LOOK for love, IT finds you 🙂

then if love it FINDS you, it hasn't found me yet... Anyway, what's wrong with taking the intitiative?

on second thoughts, ru interested— 🙂

No, i know. It hasnt found me, not for a while anyway! Guess i was trying to be idealistic but it doesnt work. Im going to take your advice and use my initiative. Lucky the world is made up of different people and not just defeatists like me!
Good luck on your search 🙂

You go girl!

hey there 210.50 - idealism is a great thing. perhaps that is my problem too -but sometimes we all hide behind a mask of self-defeat and anguish that our basic need to love & be loved by others is not panning out. This day & age is so competitive that in a way we have no choice but to take the initiative and wear our heart on our sleeve. Yes, we get hurt, but as the saying goes.."it is better to have loved & lost than to never have loved at all..." so take the initiative but DON'T lose the idealism. Just make sure you don't pace impossible "rules" on relationships (which I know from experience can sometimes happen). Go with the flow & see what karma delivers you! Good luck 2 u 2 & nice chatting with u!!! praetorian🙂

Isn't there anything else to talk about on these posts besides relationships— These relationship queries are getting pretty boring and most of them are easy to figure out!

if your such a smart a** sloane, then stop whingeing & start talking about something else intelligent!!! I'm sick of complainers... (by the way, your name seems to be posted all over the place on these message boards - looks like you have too much time on your hands)

that wasnt me who posted the above post(the usual 210.50), i dont know who that is...! as for other stuff to talk about i see other topics initiated here all the time but no one seems to grab..? im open to it but drama sells, just look at all the american soaps..! by the way, who did the post above, you sound funny. Wanna initiate some chat?

the above chat was posted by praetorian🙂 .......Would love 2 chat. R u on ICQ or messsenger?

Shit, i dont know. I Just got a new computer so Ill have to see whats installed. I could of course download ICQ. Ill get on to it soon, Ive got lots of study to do at the moment but I check these boards regularly (yes, i have a life but its not very interesting) and stay in touch. I like your advice about being out there and finding love, thats probably what I needed to hear. I am way too reserved and am sick of not being in the running... I have become a big woos and now Im getting older and... I think Im just pre-menstrual!!!

What does Praetorian stand for by the way? Ive heard the word before but Im not sure what it means.

Ill speak to you soon. Hows your search going for love by the way?

Hi there 203.134.131.236 - how r things going? My search 4 love is not going too well... plenty of vibes but nothing solid. How's the study going? Whatchya studying— Is your IP address anywhere from Australia— Praetorian is a great techy-word I picked up from the film "The Net" with Sandra Bullock. I sort of see myself this way - anyone who has "real" contact with my mental set is genuinely affected in a positive way. Anyone in my life who has met me or spoken to me at length has told me I leave an indellible imprint on them. (Only wish I could have the same fortune with affairs of the heart 😉 you can mail me at: praetorian_07@hotmail.com

(for anyone else reading this - if i receive SPAM, be prepared to receive a legal warning on unsolicited mail & invasion of privacy)!!!

Ahh, ive seen the film and i loved it! thought id heard it somewhere before...
Yes, im from Australia, Melbourne to be precise. Study is ok, lots of work. Im studying Behavioural Science, dont know why, just thought it would be interesting...!
Arm, i originally got into law/psych but didnt feel ready to take on such a heavy load, besides, the students in psych are so much more interesting than the law students were!!!
The reason i am studying is because i am SICK of living in a one bedroom flat, sick of how i am perceived in the industry i work in and want a better life style for myself (and a nice yummy partner to spend it with!) In other words, i want a job i enjoy, am good at and am highly respected in... Not asking for much am i? Just the basics!
Its hard making the transition from one life style to another. I feel pretty lonely because no one really understands what i am going through but i dont want the same life as most people i know, i want something more. I shouldnt post this on the ww web, next time i'll email you.
Keep searching for that love, you've made me realise you cant sit there waiting for it, ive been thinking about it alot...
Ive always been safe and somewhat reserved but ive decided to put my ego in the trashcan and take chances. I think i used to fear rejection because if i had have had it, then my fantasy of being with a particular person would be ruined and id have nothing but my own pathetic thoughts to contend with rather than the fantasy of being with a person. Does this make sense? Ive decided i need to love myself and my life a lot more so i am happy being me and if i get rejected (which i wont plan on doing because wehn i do something i like to do it well) then i wont be let down by my own company.
Anyways, better go, homework awaits me...
Seeya matey,
the girl from above.

fellow mate, u sound like a great person going through everyday angsts... mail me sometime,so i can mail you back. Im from Melbourne,Aus too!
Yes, psych students are more interesting (i am a graduate in social science - psych myself).
Chat soon Aussie friend,
praetorian🙂

Oh my god, i cant believe you are a psych student (graduate!) and from Melbourne too!!!
Ill defiately mail you soon 🙂
210.50.

ooooooooooooooooh love is in the air!!