For those who aren't aware...

You may take or leave this information; care about it or not. But, because I would want someone to tell me if I didn't know, here you go.

If you have had a conversation with anyone with the following handles:

Suzy-Q
Aqua-2
C-B
Your Mother
Sunflower
sloane
romeclone
LS
Wonderbox
Got2bGood
deepbluecalm
TM1
Nice_Slut
cj7
abstrusely

...then you have only been talking to one person, who posed as all these different people for at least the last 7 months.

I only alert you to this because I believe in the truth, and through my research as well as others', this has been discovered as the truth.

I'm still trying to determine if the IP addresses are 100% reliable in determining if one person has posted under all of these usernames. Suzy-Q has told me that she has only posted under these usernames: SUZYQ, WONDERBOX, YOUR MOTHER, SUNFLOWER.

It could be possible that someone IP addresses are being reused by people's ISP. If this is the case then some people are being wrongly accused.

I only bring this up because I can't guarantee the IP address - username connection as being 100% reliable. And I don't want more problems to arise out of people being falsely accused.

If I have falsely accused anyone, then my apologies to that person. I will stand corrected in the event that I've been wrong.

Sorry to jump to conclusions, dxp.

Sorry but i think it is very unfair,,i used to post here before, we had to log on and i used name Aqua 2,,,,
that is why now, when i'm regestered i'm regestered by Aqua 2,,,so people i talked before now who i'm,,,,And Heather i think it is really unfair to accuse someone for something they didn't do,,,,u got to be sure before u speak up,,,i think ,i'm not the only one who's been added to the list wrongly,,,

sorry it was know= now.....
posting here more than 7 month.
Heather what is that strike for fairness about?
Does it really matter who that person is,,,maybe she(he) lonely or not getting enough communication? I scrolled back few month old responses,,,,neather one of this names said or did something bad,,,,just showed us(atleast me) someones ability to see some topics from different angles and disscuss it here.....
Maybe i'm wrong.... but that what i think.

Like I said, if I wrongly accused anyone, then my sincerest apologies to that person. If I wrongly accused you, then I am sorry for that. I will be sure to be positive of what I'm saying in the future, before I say it.

However. I still am upset that anyone would be 4 different people. You have the right to see that as perfectly fine, but I also have the right to see it as not fine. I feel it's deceitful and mean, and maybe he or she wasn't ever out of line with you, but there were a few occasions where the four confirmed aliases were in fact mouthy to me.

I'm sorry but even if it is only 4 aliases, it's still wrong to deceive people.

I agree with u that it is wrong to decieve people, and u are right i'm not sure they ever be bad talking to me, but Heather , i'm sure that (same as me) all your posts were truth and they were smth u think or something you care about, want to know about -your messages were real....so u stayed truth to yourself, this person left him/her a chance to play it from different angles, opinions, don't know why--bored,lonely ,wanted to see different reaction form different people....so wherever was a point probobly she/he was mouthfull cause knew about your temperament, that you are strong opinionated person and wanted just to bring it on (i read few more old posts,,,looks like that"fruit" good psychologist....
And ,yes, it is not really nice to hide your real self, but i'm not so upset or feeling decieved cause while i appreciate when somebody care or trying to give me advice, my opinion is still valid and important to myself.Though it is not really nice to feel u shared with somebody ,who wasn't truthfull from the start...but it is not the only example what life is.....
Heather, don't be so upset, there are people who were truthfull and open..and maybe thing that u was open,didn't hide and lie(shows that u not scared to tell what u think, how u feel or ho u are) more important than that somebody did,,,,that should be her/his problem,,,a lot of people out there like that, and u not always know or been able to know ,or be sure if they what they show to u...
by-bye

ho=who
sorry...rushed to finish my point, hope it is not so vague;tried to break through my language barrier,sometimes that barrier still shows up, and let me know who i'm, that days kinda hard to grammatically put few words toghether in english and today is such a day.

Aqua 2, I totally understand what you're saying. It's just that it's hard enough to trust people, when you tell them personal things and you KNOW who you're dealing with. But then when you tell someone personal things only THINKING you know who you're dealing with, and then later you find out that they weren't honest about who they were from the beginning, you feel that that friendship wasn't real, they assumed you were both stupid AND unworthy of honesty, and you get upset because it's like, "okay, so I just divulged things to a person who I THOUGHT was my friend, who I THOUGHT was trying to help me, but in reality I was just part of some game the whole time". Also, "Wonderbox" said hurtful things to me on several occasions, while "Suzy-Q" was supposed to be my ally. I guess I just feel betrayed, even if it was only 4 different names and not the 15 it appeared to be. I always am honest; I may not divulge everything but I certainly don't INVENT things...no bold faced lies. And since I don't do that, I expect people not to do it with me. But you are right, I should not be so upset because it is more about a problem in the personality of that person, rather than me being "played"...I just need time to cool down about everything.

Thanks for being sweet 🙂

Heather u are welcome,
by the way how is mr Taurus, i remember from conversation about 4 weeks ago we've been in the same (almost) the same situation with them, so how is it now,
plus i hear u on a him been mad topic, i did said something to been mad too, about two weeks ago, but listen usually i'm taking my own sweet time, liting him to re-think it, and get over, even if it wasn't my fault, or what i meant...because the more u push the longer he is mad,,,by my expirience actions that wasn't agitated by him, or making him do smthing ,make him more stubborn and angry...
o.k talk to u.

just wanted to add that the other way to change bulls from been mad, to coax them ,a lot,,,,a lot, a lot, could work too,tickle funny bone,coax and stay sweet the will act as the don't care for a little bit, than u'll need to coax them for a little bit more and than that big teddy bears getting back to what they used to be, patiient,reliable,sweet etc,,,,,works for me ...

Awesome advice Aqua...now, unfortunately, I can't really use it because I've given him "the boot" so to speak because of how mean he was being to me before. I've just stopped speaking to him, I couldn't take the drama (HIS drama) any more. And although it's hard not to talk to him, I know I need to keep away from him at least for a while. I suspect you have a gentler Taurus with you, Aqua. Mine was being mean to the point of emotional abuse (no exaggeration), and I finally realized it. Mostly because I have this wonderful male Scorpio friend who has been giving me back all the confidence the Taurus was trying to take away. For example, here's something the Taurus has said to me before: "You're weak, you need to tell your family to spread off and come move in with me" or "I'll shoot your dad. Do you think I'm spread i n g joking?"

While, here's something my Scorpio friend has said to me: "I am so, so, so proud of you, you are a smart woman and you are growing all the time and I can see it".
Now...you see what I mean? lol. If the Taurus would just be nice...normal even, it would be an epic romance. But, I cannot let him talk down to me and control me and all that crap. I have to feel good when I'm around the person, or it ruins my soul...you know what I mean?

Now, how are things going with you, Aqua? By the way, thank you again for being so sweet and for the advice 🙂

replace "spread" and "spreading" with the f-word. lol. Darn filters 😛

P.S. I am still with the Leo by the way, I know, I know, bad, bad...bad that I can't seem to ever just have ONE in my life at a time. I am so freaked out to be alone, which is stupid, that I tend to overcompensate...obviously...lol.

Hey I'm jumping in as well. You know Phoenix Rising I kind of agree with you in some way, but you ran the gamut with all those names girl.

I like to think of myself as a very keen person, and I also sometimes felt that someone was using different handles. I would sometimes catch certain phrases that sound similar or one minute the person would say that they were female, then later messages would suggest that they were male. It seemed really freaky and odd to me because I do sometimes read other boards when this board is not conversing as often. I just kept it to myself and continued to speak with them.

I mean it's only a message board and the REAL PEOPLE in your life are the ones that REALLY MATTER. This is just a form of entertainment and a form of "getting away from it all" so to speak.

I understand you feel betrayed, hurt and vulnerable, but honey lighten up. There's more serious issues going on in the world not to feel this way about this.

Maybe this person feels bored, or lonely like auqa 2 suggested and needs someone to talk with that's all.

Money Lady (THE REAL THING) LOL

Money Lady, I am exceedingly sorry to you for including you on that list--I suck! 😢 ...It was all a big misunderstanding but I definitely spoke too soon, and I'm really sorry to have done that. Dxp says that it's likely to be a thing where certain computers reuse people's IP numbers, so on my computer if I click on someone's IP number, it shows like a gazillion different handles that they've used to post with, which may not be the "real" deal if you know what I mean. I was wrong to jump to conclusions; I hope you can forgive me. I have always liked you Money Lady, so hopefully you will not be soured on me because of this. I have to clear the names of the following people because I think they've been wrongly accused: cj7, deepbluecalm, you, sloane, Aqua 2, C-B, romeclone...hey you know what? Just disregard all the names on the list except for suzy-q, your mother, wonderbox and sunflower.

Hey Phoenix Rising,

You didn't list my handle honey. I was just trying to explain to you not to be so upset about it that's all.

Money Lady

lol--wow, see how screwy my brain is from the stress of all this?! lol...okay, well, still though, I owed *everyone* an apology because of my actions.

Thank you for being nice and making me feel better Money Lady. 🙂