Need help from all Libra Women! Taurus confused

Ok, been reading this message board and it has been very interesting reading about Libra men mostly but I want to know more about the woman Libra and what she is thinking in my situation.

Here is the scoop. I've known her for 5yrs, we work at the same place but we dont work together. We work in different projects. So we only see each other in the hallway and say hi about once a week. We have a mutual friend ( he's gone now ) that we would hang out sometimes ( once every 6 months ) for lunch. She was in a committed relationship for 6yrs ( so I never tried to pursue her during this time ). She broke it off cuzz he wont marry. So, after a few months, I started to smile more at her, gave her MANY compliments. Invited her to happy hours, lunch. Always busy or she had her own lunch from home. I started to leave her gifts on her desk ( chocolate ) with short poems. I got that she knew it was from me cuzz she would smile more and kinda start talking a lil more to me, so I thought maybe she likes me. Well, our mutual friend told me she got back with her ex. Now I rarely see her, I went to her office twice and both times she said she was really busy 😢 and couldnt talk. The last time I was there, she said "Sorry Im always busy when you come by, I'll stop by your office next time." 😢 Wow, I know, I took that as a "I'll call you, dont call me" thing. Anyways, just want to know from a Libra woman, what is she thinking in her mind? Am I even in the picture? Another thing is I still wrote her a few poems after I found she went back to her ex cuzz from my experiences, it doesnt work out a 2nd time either. Im sorry to say that. Thoughts? Thanks.

this is a sexual harrassment case waiting to happen....

Libra's try to be nice when they reject somebody. I don't think she's into you.

Usually a Libra in love is a blind one. So right now she only sees who she loves.

JoJoJo, good point. All of the above are...but especially yours.

I'm gonna say be patient, little Taurus dude. Taurus and Libra have their own soul thing going on. I think there is a natural attraction. Libra needs someplace to rest after all that mental activity. What better than a nice, warm Earth sign? Taurus love of fine things is a welcome trait also. She may very well still be wrestling with what went wrong so it doesn't happen again. If so, she simply doesn't see you.

Keep writing the poems. Love letters too. We are always looking for the ultimate romance and no matter how well that manicured hand is hidden in the velvet glove, we still want someone stronger to hold that hand. Just do it slowly. We do not like to be pushed. Major turn off.

Thanks everyone, I really appreciate all your responses 🙂

She's kinda really reserved, stays in her office with the door closed most of the time all these years. Only had one real friend here at work ( our mutual friend ) Doesnt talk much with anybody. Being a Taurus I always found that attractive, we are a bit possessive I guess 🙂 Always quiet and keeps to herself.

I think she liked me a lil because when I broke up with my ex gf a few months ago, I told my friend ( our mutual friend ) and then she started popping up at MY office every once in a while. She even invited me to join them both for lunch one time. BUT, Actually I think I might have "pushed" her too much 😢 I am more open and out going, I also tend to get to the point faster, SOO I think I might have pushed her away with being to aggressive? Reading about Libras, they dont like to be pushed so that explains why she has retreated? Will she ever come back around or are Libras like once they have been pushed will not return?

I was thinking of making her a cute CD with some romantic songs on them 🙂 but again, I dont want to do anything unless I feel she is starting to warm up again. Any idea how long if at all it will take? I hope I didnt scare her away 😢 Thanks everyone.

I wouldn't give any romantic gifts while she is with her bf...that is pushing too much.

Just be friends with her...the lunch thing in groups, an office pop-by every once in awhile. Keep your presence in front of her, if they break up again, resume the gifts, poems, etc.

She start "popping up" because she's a libra, a flirt and an entertainer. We are people pleasers but it's usually taking the wrong way. You could be taking her flirtatious gestures the wrong way. You broke up with someone, she knew you liked her so she was "FRIENDLY" with you. Nothing more.... now get to work 😉

She isn't into you. In fact, I would say the poetry was over the top and REALLY uncomfortable, she is actively avoiding you. I don't think we go in for huge emotional displays of intimacy. ya know?

I am totally behind what JoJoJo said.

Libras HATE to be pushed. We dig in stubborn when people push us.

* we are a bit possessive I guess

If it makes you feel better, it probably wouldn't have worked out. Libras generally balk at being possessed.

Hmmmm, interesting. Some say keep giving the gifts and poems some say stop. I dont know what to do. I can say this though, she seemed more friendly and responsive when I did give her gifts and poems. She would be the first to say something to me in the hallway, I was just going to smile and not say anything but she asked things like "How are you today?" "How is your day" and smiling. Also the times I went to her office I noticed that the chocolates were open like she has been eating them.

One other thing that she did that I dont think people who dont like someone would do is, I asked her what she was listening to her Ipod in the break room once. She took off her earphones ( the ones you stick inside your ear ) and handed them to me and said, "Here listen" and then she changed the songs for me a few times and then played a song she said "I really like this one" and it was a love song. Soooooo, I dont think this is a reaction from a girl that is considering sexual harassment? I mean would you let the guy who is harassing you borrow your earphones and let him stick them in his ear? 🙂

and then take them back and stick them back in your ears? 🙂

@Taurus71sr-- I'm a Taurus woman, BUT, I have dated several Libra men. My ex-fiance of almost 8 years was a Libra. My recommendation would be to pull Way the Hell back. Libra's don't like to hurt people's feelings (typically), but they won't be pushed into anything either. Also, (this may just be a guy thing, so may not apply to your situation), but the Libra's I was with liked to be seen as the one's leading the relationship, so if they feel you are pushing anything, they aren't going to dig that. I understand your wanting to buy her gifts and letting her know you like her... I get that, BUT as a couple of people above have pointed out, since you work with her, you may want to cease with that and just say simple "hello's" when you see her but DON'T go to her office and DON'T buy her anymore gifts. Make like a cold front has moved over you -- be chilly, but polite. I love to give gifts too, as it makes ME feel good to see someone else happy, but I've learned (somewhat the hard way) that sometimes it makes it appear that you are trying to buy the persons friendship/love, when in actuality, you are just trying to do something nice. I hold WAY back with the gift giving now until I've known the person for awhile and know they will appreciate it as the gesture it was intended. Good luck, and I hope you find the info you're looking for.

Wow. It is really crazy what some people use as hope to hang onto.

The girl is always busy when you drop by. She doesn't drop by to see you and said, ?Don't call me. I'll call you.?

I think it is pretty clear that she isn't interested in you like that.

When I was interested in a guy I worked with, it was VERY, VERY clear. When one of my libra coworkers was interested in a different guy we worked with it was VERY, VERY clear. The words ?get a room? come to mind. (She later asked him to marry her and they have two very cute little boys.)

Libras, even the girls, will pursue when interested. We look like innocent sweet things but we are a cardinal sign and when we want you, it is almost uncomfortable how obvious we can be.

Sparrow and USC are right. Seems as though you changed your story from she so busy to she's so attentive.

You are a Taurus and you're being bull headed and stubborn. She wants to be NICE not LIKED!!!

The sticky earwax thing..... DUDE.... YUCK!!! Some libras I know (including me) are so nice/nasty, I don't see her doing that ..... ewwwwwwww!!!!!

I would hardly share earwax with anyone ..... yuck

* She took off her earphones ( the ones you stick inside your ear ) and handed them to me and said, "Here listen" and then she changed the songs for me a few times and then played a song she said "I really like this one" and it was a love song. Soooooo, I dont think this is a reaction from a girl that is considering sexual harassment? I mean would you let the guy who is harassing you borrow your earphones and let him stick them in his ear?

See ... I wouldn't even think twice about it, but then again I have clean ears. 😛

I am big into music. I use to swap earphones all the time. It isn't like you shove them in your ears or anything.

And the whole love song thing? It is kinda like telling someone your favorite colour is blue and two days later they wear a blue sweater. If you like them, you probably would assign some meaning to it but chances are the person woke up that morning, looked around, shruged and put on the blue sweater without any thought about you at all. Especially if they kicked you out of their office and said, "Don't come back ya hear?"

* You are a Taurus and you're being bull headed and stubborn. She wants to be NICE not LIKED!!!

And can I get an absolutely and a Halleluiah on that?

*high fives jojojo*

Thanks USC gal. And others that mentioned I should just lay low for a while. Makes alot of sense, if she likes me, she'll come around and start showing it ( if she ever breaks up with her bf again ). I'll play it cool. Be nice and friendly. I think shes focused on her relationship with her bf, which makes me respect her even more than before.

Hey little sparrow, thanks for your advice but she never said "Dont call me, I'll call you".

Also, not all girls have that "get a room" thought in their heads and making it very, very clear that they like the guy. I can read those like a comic book.