Taurus women

Dear All,

For Female Taurus how do you see Libra men?

For Libra men what is your experience with Taurus women?

benjsh, although I am not a Taurus woman, just from reading your other posts about the signs you have already dated a couple times. If you are interested in a Taurus woman, give her a chance to be her. Don't compare her to others. Try to see that all zodiac signs are not exactly alike. Other posts you seemed to catagorize all of your experiences with a particular sign to be under one discription. Just a thought. K... Libran lad?

Since you are a Scorpio you have even more deep information.
So give us your information you have about the signs!

My only real experiences with Taurus women are my younger sister so that doesn't really count, and a girl I randomly hooked up with. So, sorry I don't have a whole lot to give you.

Outside of that, from what I do know about friends/aquantences is that I like their drive, sensuality, beauty, taste, compassionate nature and self assuredness. But it doesn't really go any deeper to give more analytical experience.

I could go on and on about my sister who I will always love and protect unquesionably but half of the time drives me insane. But that is different because family is family.

benjsh.... I am a Taurus gal.... so my thoughst on a libra man....

They have a beautiful smile, good heart and are generlly giving, but they can be very manipulative, they lie and have wandering eyes. They seem to be unsure of what they want and the grass always seems greener to them on the other side of the fence.

When you confront them with their lies or behaviour and show that you are upset with them they sweet talk! And your heart melts.... HOWEVER, as a Taurus woman I would rather prefer to have someone who is honest, is secure about themselves and is not such a play boy!!

I don't mean to offend any Libra males... but that is my personal experience with Libra men... which has not been the best! Why do they have to say petty lies and manipulate people? When do you know they are telling you the truth?

***When do you know they are telling you the truth?****

When you are a scorp and see right through them... 🙂

No, but seriously, I find that they lie when they don't want to hurt you, which they don't realize hurts people more. However, I have had a way of getting the truth out even if they lied initially. I have no idea how, with little effort...

One of my brothers are a Libra and I would catch him every time, 'til this day he doesn't understand how.

Benjsh,

OK, the signs I have had experiences with as it relates to me and the individual. (not everyone of these sign fit these descriptions)

Libra - most of my involvments and attractions have been to and from them.
Charming, Charismatic, Sexy, Great lovers, intelligent, mind stimulating, always give great advice. Vibe off of eachother, a strong friendship and emotional bond forms.
on the other hand: Indecisiveness and wish washiness, and being too laid back and not as passionate about things as I drives me insane!!!

Pisces - Emotional, way too emotional for me. Romantic, aim to please, submissive.

Cancers - too clingy whiney, however, dependable and supportive.

Tauruses - Loving, considerate, caring, easy going. However, very jealous

Scorpios - Spoil their mate, and want to possess them, extremely jealous and controlling, a horrible match for me.

That is about it. I have yet to experience other signs...

As you can see I am bias to Libras, probably because that is the sign I have the most experience with.

*ponders if she should give her input since she's a Taurus*

HP, please do help tha brotha out. You would know exactly what he needs to hear.

Houstonpeach74....You right I may be jealous.... But the mere fact that they keep LYING makes me even more suspicious of them!!!!

Queenscorpio... I wish I could get the truth out of them like you can.... You need to find me out that magical secret of yours!!!! I know they don't want to hurt people's feelings, but like you said they end up hurting you more with their lies!!!

I am not sure whether my male Libra is being utterly faithful like he proclaims to be. He as wandering eyes, he has cheated on some of previous girlfriends before... and I HATE his sweet talk... I have caught him chatting to a girl, they even exchanged their address... I am not sure whether he is being honest with me!!!

What should I do? Must I act as if I trust him completely and hopefully he will become more honest with me.... or should I throw my toys out of the cot (like a taurus normally does)... or should I play hard to get?

quierid girl,

See, I am not trying to be funny, but I have never suspected a libra who I was actually with to cheat. I don't allow them to have enough energy left for anyone else... Heeeheee. No, seriously, I think nic commented on this when I mentioned I don't know if any Libra I have been with has been unfaithful with me (who knows maybe they have, you never know for sure)however, I seem to have this gutt feeling, like I had with my Pisces fiance. I was right on - the bastart cheated, with someone I knew, however things weren't well between us and I sort of cut him off from the goodies.. No excuse anyway.

My ex, in 8 years never felt he cheated. Nic, mentioned that something about scorp girls making them fill fulfilled in that area and how we love so hard, make the Libra man feel as though he doesn't have to go anywhere else. They need to be reassured when they aren't their minds and mybe other things wonder. I dunno, never had this problem.

I can usually tell when anyone isn't being sincere or honest. I dunno how I just have this weir gutt feeling.

Also, I always follow that strange feeling in the pit of my gutt.. If that is what you feel then go with it.

I have a couple libra guy friends that are strictly friends and they all have cheated except for one, he has been pretty faithful in his relationships as far as I know. So it depends on who they are with and how that person makes them feel. That really goes for any sign I guess.

Thanks queenscorpio 🙂

I do have the gut feeling that something is fishy with my Libra man...

I will have to just wait and see....

Get used to it, it is always a waiting game. I know. I just kind of gotten used to the sharade in a way. Still drives me nuts. I can appreciate the direct approach much better.

"Houstonpeach74....You right I may be jealous.... But the mere fact that they keep LYING makes me even more suspicious of them!!!! "

so what exactly did I say this time?

Sorry houstonpeach... it was a misunderstanding.... 😉

no prob...

i'm gathering my thoughts on how to describe a libra man....and of course keep it as nuetral as possible.

I have just found out that he has been contacting this one girl - and he has promised me that he has no contact with her!!!

I mean, I have no problem with him contacting her as long as he is HONEST with me!!! This is why I am suspicious!!! What am I supposed to do?

Please help!!!

I'll respond tonight. Or you can just go read my posts and the lies/suspicious I ran into with Mr. Libra.

Hi all,
See I knew the Scorpio :-)

Well to make a success with Mr Libra you need BEFORE the relationship to make a PLAN with him.

He needs to know exactly how the game is. Forexample one rule is being 100% loyal and hones no lies etc... and he has to be guaranteed a lot of sex.
It is like a business deal.

The main reason that Libra man cheat or are playfully is very simple because they dont get enough sex or they get a feeling their women dont care about them.

This is why a Libra man loves the scorpions however they give him a headache afterwards with all their mood swings.

We want things to be perfect:

1: Lots of sex, very beautiful women with nice clothes and smelling like an angel.
2: everything honest and trusting
3: Loving home
4: A nice women to sleep with every night
5: Often going out and enjoying life together with our women
6: like a clever girl we can talk to
7: we dont lie because we want a honest partner our self so we know if we lie to them they will lie back at some point and we NEVER want. I think you got broken Libras if they lie.

What we HATE:
1: Too little sex - then we end the relationship or find other ways because we need a lot of sex.
2: Too much drama about nothing - Water signs
3: If there is not enough communication. We like to talk and discuss things and get opinions about it so we can decide what we do.
4: If we get a feeling our women is cold or too busy with "other stuff" then we wander away.

The Taurus I just told her we need a game plan from beginning and if she dont meet our needs we dont continue.

So I show her exactly what I need in a relationship and she tell me what she wants out of it. And so far it is 90% match :-)

queridagirl : sit down with him say EXACTLY how you feel and ask him EXACTLY what he wants out of the relationship and make a deal with him.
If he is doing all this stuff you got a broken one and cancel the relationship. If a girl as much as kisses someone else or flirts giving her number , try to get me jealous I just cancel the relationship and I tell them before the relationship what the rules are.

With Libra everything is Deal / NO Deal

And also we like money and we want a women with her life together and that makes good money like we do.

Queen has us down pretty good.

Some of us do lie and sweet talk to keep things on an even keel. I think if you were to compare this quality with relationships with other signs, it would be more common with a Taurus girl than other signs. We don't lie and manipulate to get what we want, or at least not until it is a last resort. If we do it we typically do when it feels like were screwed no matter what we say....truth or lie. This makes us defensive and we can't help but see the situation in a cynical light, after all were dammed if we do, dammed if we don't and the fact that the other person has that much control over our emotions prompts us to lie. We aren't going to be strait with someone who we don't think is going to appreciate it. I mean, if you can't win why open up?

Why more common with Taurus girls than other signs? Because they have a tendancy to want the truth, however it always seems to have to be the "right" truth. It can be truthful but if they don't agree with it they will still hold it against you. Compare that with Scorpio girls who can be emotionally demanding but want you to give it to them strait and even if they don't like the answer, they still appreciate that you were truthful from the get go. There will be rough times but Scorpio's, if emotionally invested won't drop you at the drop of a hat like some Taurus women will if things aren't going their way.

I think this is a trait more common in Libra guys who are immature in relationships. We are really good at disectin personalities within just a few minutes and know off the bat weather there will be issues in the future with little interaction. Unfortunately we can't resist temptation so even when we can tell rough waters are ahead, we still try to give it a shot. I have ceased doing this, or at least made a lot of progress in this area. I listen to my intuition in that department when it warns me and I either give it a shot and remain honest and sincere figuring if they don't end up liking me, at least it is the real me they are not liking and I don't have to worry about weather or not my charm or charisma was manipulating the situation unnecissarily.

It sounds like you have a guy who feels that a relationship is futile, however by the way you write I wouldn't say this is the fault of you at all. What is his passed relationship experience, has he had is heart broken? this makes demons of angels when it comes to Libra guys.

I wanted to add to what Queen said about sex with Scorpios and why this helps us work with them so much.

You can be in the middle of a knock down drag out verbal war with a Scorpio and if you love each other, the emotional intenisty will manifest into sexual tension which will almost immediately (scorp girls have no patience) manifest into a flury of heated, emotional sex. They will argue there point with their bodies and neither of our signs are ashamed to do that. In fact, if you can make a Libra guy feel like a confrontation from hell won't change the fact that they you love them, he will be yours for life. It makes us a lot more comfortable with the prospect of confrontation in a relationship. Between these two signs the sexual desire never flickers and no matter what, both of us will always feel secure in that initial carnal attractions ability to superceed any conflict that comes our way. Who needs to be decietful when there is an attraction, curiosity and emotional adoration so strong you'll close out the rest of the world for each other?

If a Taurus could make us feel that secure in our emotions, it would be the same way.

Hmmm, and people wonder why I can't resist them, or they can't resist me. Tell'em Nic, tell'em...

Benjsh, are you agreeing with these things about scorps, or what you described that Libra men need we provide? I think Scorp women provide what you described, however we are moody so, if you guys can realize that our moods are just that, our moods then things would run a lot smoother.

I think the solution is sit down with Mr Libra Tell him you are a scorpio and that you HAVE mood swings so he know.
Now make a rule that every time you have a verbal death match from hell that often happens you have to have SEX during it. So start having sex and then continue the verbal war and see how it goes :-)

And make it a permanent rule no verbal war or conflict without sex. The biggest issue in all relationship is too little sex. Just start having more sex and all problems go away.

Actually I think sex wise the biggest problem is disingenuine sex. where one person starts having sex to please the other person rather than both people maintaining passion and letting all of the life bs get between them.

you don't really need to make a deal with a scorp girl about argumentative sex. It is in their character, you just have to pick up on it and have the guts to act on it.

If there is one rule I have that saves a lot of stress in a relationship it is this: Never go to bed angry. Never fight in the bedroom, it is sacred, it is where both people are supposed to be comfortable and safe. If you end up arguing in bed you get out, go to another room and sort it out before you go back to the bedroom.

Benjsh, sex is never a problem with me and libra men, when I am mad or otherwise, no need to sit down and have this sort of discussion. It is an unspoken rule that naturally happens. My ex and I had sex all the time after a horrible argument...

However, our mood swings do bother you guys and as we are able to handle all the crap you give us, Libras should be willing to accept the mood swings, and if you know your woman as you should then you would know how to pasify those mood swings... That is all I am saying...

Queen,

Oh so your unreasonable swiching from extreme to extreme is our responsibility 😛

I guess I can see that, just like your understanding our indecisiveness and flightyness is your responsibility 😛

You got it Nic... See, we scorps seem to be able to handle you Libran lads better than some of the girls from other signs because of our level of tolerance... As you can see initially dealing with you guys is a torturous journey, the read between the lines, guessing games and waiting for you to just make up your damned mind about what you want to do... Therefore, in my experience, when or if you guys finally realize what we put up with on the journey to get you. Our extreme moods should not be so bad and because most of the time you guys can smooth those out. Again, when you know your woman... 🙂

"Therefore, in my experience, when or if you guys finally realize what they have gotten themselves into..."

Fixed for truth 🙂

Whatever they have gotten themselves into, they can't resist the temptation.

"I can resist anything as long as it isn't temptation." -Oscar Wilde, Libra

He's pretty right about that.

I see this topic fell off Taurus women.

Dang, I can never get the attention I deserve. "P

😛

LOL