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I just found this board and I need some wisdom. I'm Libra and I understand that we are the most romantic of all the signs. I think this is a good thing but I have noticed that its a disadvantage. I'm looking for that special someone and I can't find him. Every guy I met, I can find something wrong with I understand that we have this tendency to have to look at all our options so we can make the right decision. The thing is i can't find anyone who fits my standards? I'm starting to think that my standards are too high? Does anyone feel this too? I don't know what to do. I just want to be with the right person but I can't find him. I'm not going to be satisfied until this happens, I feel a strong need to be with only the right person. Do you fello libras feel the same? It gets kind of frustrating because I don't get involved in many rleationships as a result. I feel like its a trap becasue I know that libras want to be in a relationship but getting there is often so hard. I don't thinkt thats very fair. Please does anyone feel this way, I am going crazy because I am starting to think I am the only one...or that there is something wrong with me.

Julie,
I feel exactly the same way that you do. What do we do. I'm also looking for that one ideal person, but I have had no luck. I'm at the end of my rope and ready to give up.
Where do we go from here?

You aren't the only one! When I try to tell my friends how I feel, They tell me I'm just too picky, but I refuse to settle for something less! Do you think we'll ever find Mr. or Miss. Right?

Dear Joanne: There is no such a thing as the perfect man, or relationship, or child or parent etc. You need to be happy with yourself first, and stop driving yourself crazy thinking that there is something wrong with you. We all have our wants and needs, and we would all love to have that "special someone" in our lives. You need to stop looking and start living a little. It sounds like you are to focussed on this particular issue. I have a male friend, a Libra, and he also has searched his whole life for that special one, and has jumped in and out of several relationships and gotten nowherr. He is now on his own, not looking, and getting to know himself better. He has found an inner peace, and now believes that when it happens, it will. He no longer is looking. He has a lot of good friends, and has a very busy job. You can't always find what your missing in your life in somebody else. Be happy.

Dear Joanne: There is no such a thing as the perfect man, or relationship, or child or parent etc. You need to be happy with yourself first, and stop driving yourself crazy thinking that there is something wrong with you. We all have our wants and needs, and we would all love to have that "special someone" in our lives. You need to stop looking and start living a little. It sounds like you are to focussed on this particular issue. I have a male friend, a Libra, and he also has searched his whole life for that special one, and has jumped in and out of several relationships and gotten nowherr. He is now on his own, not looking, and getting to know himself better. He has found an inner peace, and now believes that when it happens, it will. He no longer is looking. He has a lot of good friends, and has a very busy job. You can't always find what your missing in your life in somebody else. Be happy.

Dear Joanne: There is no such a thing as the perfect man, or relationship, or child or parent etc. You need to be happy with yourself first, and stop driving yourself crazy thinking that there is something wrong with you. We all have our wants and needs, and we would all love to have that "special someone" in our lives. You need to stop looking and start living a little. It sounds like you are to focussed on this particular issue. I have a male friend, a Libra, and he also has searched his whole life for that special one, and has jumped in and out of several relationships and gotten nowherr. He is now on his own, not looking, and getting to know himself better. He has found an inner peace, and now believes that when it happens, it will. He no longer is looking. He has a lot of good friends, and has a very busy job. You can't always find what your missing in your life in somebody else. Be happy.

Dear Joanne: There is no such a thing as the perfect man, or relationship, or child or parent etc. You need to be happy with yourself first, and stop driving yourself crazy thinking that there is something wrong with you. We all have our wants and needs, and we would all love to have that "special someone" in our lives. You need to stop looking and start living a little. It sounds like you are to focussed on this particular issue. I have a male friend, a Libra, and he also has searched his whole life for that special one, and has jumped in and out of several relationships and gotten nowherr. He is now on his own, not looking, and getting to know himself better. He has found an inner peace, and now believes that when it happens, it will. He no longer is looking. He has a lot of good friends, and has a very busy job. You can't always find what your missing in your life in somebody else. Be happy.

I felt exactly the same way and if I had one more person tell me I'm too picky I'm was going to freak. I can tell you I did find someone who was perfect. I wasn't looking and if I was I never would have chosen him but I got to know him as a friend and fell madly in love with him. He's an amazing Aquarius with all the things that I lack. Good luck in your search for a man, you'll find him.

DEAR JULIE, I TOO, A LIBRAN, AM PICKY SO, LOWER YOUR STANDARDS A BIT--BUT JUST A BIT. YOU MAY WANT TO JOIN A DATING SERVICE--A GOOD ONE--THEY'RE NOT TOO BAD. IT'S BETTER THAN THE BAR SCENE. GOOD LUCK.