help;sister moon(Urgent)

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by amyrose on Thursday, December 27, 2001 and has 10 replies.

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@amyrose
21 YearsCancer
dear sister moon,i need your help urgently.A colleague of mine posted a message to someone named Carlos and apparently it was nasty.I have explained to Carlos that it wasnt me bcs my colleague used my PC.I feel terrible about the above matter.Should i ask my colleague to confess(using another PC) or should i apologise again to Carlos?.He was very mad about the above matter.Pls reply.
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@Sister_Moon
21 Years
What can Carlos do? Nothing...
I wouldn't worry about it. You have already apologized...I would leave it as is.
As far as your colleague using your PC...those rules are up to you.
Lastly, if it is the same Carlos who was trying to get everyone in an uproar not too awful long ago...he thrives on conflict. He is an excitement seeker and loves to stir things up...
I hope that someday, he learns to cool his jets a little...but, everyone has their own burdens to bear...
I realize I was not mega help...but, you did what you should have done by apologizing, and in truth...you did nothing wrong. Do not fret.
Take Care.
Star
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@amyrose
21 YearsCancer
Dear Sister Moon,thank you for your advice which Was helpful.I have already told off my colleague who seems to have some personal problem with Carlos (i think).i wont allow my colleague the use of my PC again as the PC is logged under my name.Thanks again and a Happy New Year to u.

Take care,
Amyrose.
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@amyrose
21 YearsCancer
dear sister moon,i need your help urgently.A colleague of mine posted a message to someone named Carlos and apparently it was nasty.I have explained to Carlos that it wasnt me bcs my colleague used my PC.I feel terrible about the above matter.Should i ask my colleague to confess(using another PC) or should i apologise again to Carlos?.He was very mad about the above matter.Pls reply.
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@amyrose
21 YearsCancer
sister moon,should i leave this site?I feel so awful about the misunderstanding.I truly did not post that message . I guess i was a little shaken by the message Carlos sent me.What should i do?
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@Mt_Moonshine
21 Years
Hi amyrose,

I am Mt_Moonshine. I have read and re-read the messages that have been posted in the Aries site. You did the right thing and apologize to Carlos. I would talk to your roommate and explain how shaken you were with the comments that were made. Carlos is a good person, deep down. I saw it once upon a time. He is just very angry for some reason right now. He won't talk with me about it to get it out. If you look back on the messages your message is logged in under your name and the other is not. So if you don't tell your roomy and be your sweet self Carlos will be alright and leave you alone.

Thank you for the 'Merry Xmas' wish.

Have a good day,
Mt_Moonshine
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@amyrose
21 YearsCancer
Thank you Mt.Moomshine.You r right.I was very upset as i had no idea who Carlos was.And to suddenly be Bombed.But i've already told off my colleague and told her to use her own PC if she has something to say as my PC is logged under my name.Thanks again for your comfort .I hope your Christmas was good and do have a happy new year as well.

Take care,

Amyrose
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@Unregistered
21 Years10,000+ Posts
You know - I have to agree with Cwab - Little Amyrose it's time you grow up and get a life - not any harm to you - but truly - it's like mt. moonshine said there was nothing serious there and if you actually cannot sleep on this issue you need to get out more Girl! Carlos is not going to get on your case and truly I believe that all that "War" I'm not sure how to describe it is so totally ridiculous, it's apparent there is nothing else to do??!

Sweetie pie, get on with your life and be happy, little Carlos will leave you alone - Right Carlos - There is something good in you buddy I know it!!

Be Happy and all the best to you in the New Year Girl!!

Be good,
Whatever
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@amyrose
21 YearsCancer
Hi there,Amyrose here.Gee,thanks for ur advice and support.Actually,Cwab u r very interesting too with ur message that something's gonna happen.I actually felt lighthearted..it was so different.And to 'Whatever",i will take ur advice and try not to magnify matters..a bit difficult as i always imagine the worst outcome first.Guess,i'm a pessimistic crab.hi..hi.Anyway to sum it up,Have a wonderful New Year.hopefully,2002 will be better.take care,

Love,
Amyrose
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