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Posted by ladylibra21
When your crush is telling you things about his family and you smile and acted charmed, but ok know everything because you alr day stalked the hell out of them lol. I need help. Any other Libras obsessive? maybe because I'm on the Scorpio cusp?
Just keep on keeping on! All libras I know are lvl 5 stalkers. It's gonna be hard to act surprised being that the wow factor is gone for you. Relax and just let nature take its natural course from now. Besides, they may be nothing like you think.
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When your crush is telling you things about his family and you smile and acted charmed, but ok know everything because you alr day stalked the hell out of them lol. I need help. Any other Libras obsessive? maybe because I'm on the Scorpio cusp?
Just keep on keeping on! All libras I know are lvl 5 stalkers. It's gonna be hard to act surprised being that the wow factor is gone for you. Relax and just let nature take its natural course from now. Besides, they may be nothing like you think.
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You are very right I am trying to quit though it was something I used to do when we weren't very close but now we talk more so it helps.
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When your crush is telling you things about his family and you smile and acted charmed, but ok know everything because you alr day stalked the hell out of them lol. I need help. Any other Libras obsessive? maybe because I'm on the Scorpio cusp?
Just keep on keeping on! All libras I know are lvl 5 stalkers. It's gonna be hard to act surprised being that the wow factor is gone for you. Relax and just let nature take its natural course from now. Besides, they may be nothing like you think.

You are very right I am trying to quit though it was something I used to do when we weren't very close but now we talk more so it helps.

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I understand the initial stages of stalking to determine if someone is single or not. I really do get that part. I know y'all gotta know everything and hate surprises. However, don't let uncertainty ruin the future. You've already determined it's safe to proceed, just let it happen. Besides, it would look a little funny if you start baking apple pies from his moms recipe and having not met her!
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When your crush is telling you things about his family and you smile and acted charmed, but ok know everything because you alr day stalked the hell out of them lol. I need help. Any other Libras obsessive? maybe because I'm on the Scorpio cusp?
Just keep on keeping on! All libras I know are lvl 5 stalkers. It's gonna be hard to act surprised being that the wow factor is gone for you. Relax and just let nature take its natural course from now. Besides, they may be nothing like you think.

You are very right I am trying to quit though it was something I used to do when we weren't very close but now we talk more so it helps.


I understand the initial stages of stalking to determine if someone is single or not. I really do get that part. I know y'all gotta know everything and hate surprises. However, don't let uncertainty ruin the future. You've already determined it's safe to proceed, just let it happen. Besides, it would look a little funny if you start baking apple pies from his moms recipe and having not met her!

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lol I wouldn't go that far that's creepy lol

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When your crush is telling you things about his family and you smile and acted charmed, but ok know everything because you alr day stalked the hell out of them lol. I need help. Any other Libras obsessive? maybe because I'm on the Scorpio cusp?
Just keep on keeping on! All libras I know are lvl 5 stalkers. It's gonna be hard to act surprised being that the wow factor is gone for you. Relax and just let nature take its natural course from now. Besides, they may be nothing like you think.

You are very right I am trying to quit though it was something I used to do when we weren't very close but now we talk more so it helps.


I understand the initial stages of stalking to determine if someone is single or not. I really do get that part. I know y'all gotta know everything and hate surprises. However, don't let uncertainty ruin the future. You've already determined it's safe to proceed, just let it happen. Besides, it would look a little funny if you start baking apple pies from his moms recipe and having not met her!


lol I wouldn't go that far that's creepy lol

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You know I was just kidding
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Posted by ladylibra21
When your crush is telling you things about his family and you smile and acted charmed, but ok know everything because you alr day stalked the hell out of them lol. I need help. Any other Libras obsessive? maybe because I'm on the Scorpio cusp?
Just keep on keeping on! All libras I know are lvl 5 stalkers. It's gonna be hard to act surprised being that the wow factor is gone for you. Relax and just let nature take its natural course from now. Besides, they may be nothing like you think.
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LOL, you must know a lot of Libras with Scorpio in their charts. Obsessiveness is not an usual characteristic that is traditionally descriptive of Libra in astrology however every article I have ever read on Scorpio uses possessiveness and obsessiveness as fundamental traits. I can't speak for all Libras, but I am not obsessive at all. I could care less what a n- is doing.

Do you have a job? How do you have the time to stalk? I would never with all due respect, degrade myself like that. LOL No disrespect, but if I stalk someone, then I don't trust them, and I don't deal with men that generates an uneasy feeling in my body, or spirit.

I am vain Libra, unless I am getting paid for surveillance, I am not investing my time in some dude I barely know. I like relationships to uplift and inspire me to my next level, if I have to do all that ---- it's not a fit.



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When your crush is telling you things about his family and you smile and acted charmed, but ok know everything because you alr day stalked the hell out of them lol. I need help. Any other Libras obsessive? maybe because I'm on the Scorpio cusp?
Just keep on keeping on! All libras I know are lvl 5 stalkers. It's gonna be hard to act surprised being that the wow factor is gone for you. Relax and just let nature take its natural course from now. Besides, they may be nothing like you think.
LOL, you must know a lot of Libras with Scorpio in their charts. Obsessiveness is not an usual characteristic that is traditionally descriptive of Libra in astrology however every article I have ever read on Scorpio uses possessiveness and obsessiveness as fundamental traits. I can't speak for all Libras, but I am not obsessive at all. I could care less what a n- is doing.

Do you have a job? How do you have the time to stalk? I would never with all due respect, degrade myself like that. LOL No disrespect, but if I stalk someone, then I don't trust them, and I don't deal with men that generates an uneasy feeling in my body, or spirit.

I am vain Libra, unless I am getting paid for surveillance, I am not investing my time in some dude I barely know. I like relationships to uplift and inspire me to my next level, if I have to do all that ---- it's not a fit.



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Why don't you address the op? She's the one asking for advice, not me.
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When your crush is telling you things about his family and you smile and acted charmed, but ok know everything because you alr day stalked the hell out of them lol. I need help. Any other Libras obsessive? maybe because I'm on the Scorpio cusp?
Just keep on keeping on! All libras I know are lvl 5 stalkers. It's gonna be hard to act surprised being that the wow factor is gone for you. Relax and just let nature take its natural course from now. Besides, they may be nothing like you think.


LOL, you must know a lot of Libras with Scorpio in their charts. Obsessiveness is not an usual characteristic that is traditionally descriptive of Libra in astrology however every article I have ever read on Scorpio uses possessiveness and obsessiveness as fundamental traits. I can't speak for all Libras, but I am not obsessive at all. I could care less what a n- is doing.

Do you have a job? How do you have the time to stalk? I would never with all due respect, degrade myself like that. LOL No disrespect, but if I stalk someone, then I don't trust them, and I don't deal with men that generates an uneasy feeling in my body, or spirit.

I am vain Libra, unless I am getting paid for surveillance, I am not investing my time in some dude I barely know. I like relationships to uplift and inspire me to my next level, if I have to do all that ---- it's not a fit.



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Oh I am a very busy woman and I only stalk online, but it isn't that I don't trust him first of all he isn't mine in the first place it's just more of a curiosity of who is he when he isnt at work he gives me a little more onsite as time goes on but I still don't know a big chunk of his story and I don't like to really and truly prie. I'd rather him tell me things on his own, but it apart of my crazy curitosity I likes to find things and see if I can piece them together and it is nice to have them confirmed. Idk maybe I'm profiling lol which is bad but like I said it is more of curiosity not distrust of the person.
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Oh okay, I see, you are curious. Yes I can be curious about crime scenes, or Dateline or 20/20 episodes. But not with guys. I can truly care less, because most dating experiences don't work, and the ones that do usually evolved because I remained detached and ambivalent about the dude. I am more curious about how a guy thinks. Generally however I keep the focus on my own affairs; my purpose, writing plays etc. If your obsessive behavior hasn't cause you any problems and you enjoy feeding your curiosity I say "Go for it!"
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Posted by ladylibra21
When your crush is telling you things about his family and you smile and acted charmed, but ok know everything because you alr day stalked the hell out of them lol. I need help. Any other Libras obsessive? maybe because I'm on the Scorpio cusp?
Also Libra/scorp cusp. I am to an extent eg googling names n shit lol! I think its a control thing, wanting to know more about who i'm dealing with. I've learnt from the past about NOT doing this, and getting myself into situations with pretty infamous characters LOL.