Longest relationship (not friendship)

What has been your longest relationship or relationships? How long?

Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars of both you and that person?

Me: Libra/Libra/Scorpio/Sag

Him: Taurus/Taurus/Aries/Scorpio

15 Years... Didn't end well

Now-

Him: Sag/Cancer/Cap/Scorpio

A little over a year-we'll see...

Posted by jane84
What has been your longest relationship or relationships? How long?

Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars of both you and that person?

Me: Libra/Libra/Scorpio/Sag

Him: Taurus/Taurus/Aries/Scorpio

15 Years... Didn't end well

Now-

Him: Sag/Cancer/Cap/Scorpio

A little over a year-we'll see...

Wow so you went from an earth sign with to a mutable fire sign. Libra and sag huh. Good luck.

15 years is along time with someone and your placements got along splendidly but then what happen when did things change? I would have thought the Taurus with his placements was quite compatible with yours and less with Sag and his placements. What does sag have that Taurus didn't mesh well with you on?

My ex husband. Together 14 years but most were miserable.

Me: Sco/Ari/Lib/Can

Him:Cap/Virgo/Cap/Sag

My current ex. 5 years. I believe tf

Lib/Cap/Vir/Lib

Me: taurus sun/scorp moon/taurus venus/cancer mars

Him: Pisces sun/taurus moon/aqua venus/ gemini mars

20 years

Posted by TheLibraMudra
6 years. I have no idea his other info. I wasn't too into astrology then. Gemini.

5 years. Scorp sun/aqua moon/sagi venus/aries mars/leo rising

If I may ask, how did the Gemini relationship end?

Posted by TaurusinTexas
Me: taurus sun/scorp moon/taurus venus/cancer mars

Him: Pisces sun/taurus moon/aqua venus/ gemini mars

20 years

How did you handle his Taurus moon? Although you being a Taurus, that probably helps?

Posted by Deedee86
My ex husband. Together 14 years but most were miserable.

Me: Sco/Ari/Lib/Can

Him:Cap/Virgo/Cap/Sag

My current ex. 5 years. I believe tf

Lib/Cap/Vir/Lib

14 years and most were miserable? 😢 If I may ask, why did you stay for so long?

My mother is a Scorpio, I feel as though she can put up with a lotttttt.

Posted by Solitude
Me Gemini/Virgo/Taurus/Aries

Him Scorpio/Scorpio/Scorpio/Scorpio

Atm I'm dating a Scorpio/Scorpio/Sag/Libra

Whoa that's a lot of scorpio!

Posted by Deadpoop
6 years

I don't know anything moon or anything when it comes to her....just that she was a leo and one the best lessons of my life.

Well past relationships should be lessons learned. So that's a good thing.

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Posted by TaurusinTexas
Me: taurus sun/scorp moon/taurus venus/cancer mars

Him: Pisces sun/taurus moon/aqua venus/ gemini mars

20 years

How did you handle his Taurus moon? Although you being a Taurus, that probably helps?

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I think that's the only thing that might have made sense, i also think that his moon far outweighed his venus but yes being a taurus and having that taurus venus is probably what made that work, made his moon feel all warm and cozy.

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Posted by jane84
What has been your longest relationship or relationships? How long?

Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars of both you and that person?

Me: Libra/Libra/Scorpio/Sag

Him: Taurus/Taurus/Aries/Scorpio

15 Years... Didn't end well

Now-

Him: Sag/Cancer/Cap/Scorpio

A little over a year-we'll see...

Wow so you went from an earth sign with to a mutable fire sign. Libra and sag huh. Good luck.

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Yeah I've never really had a "type," more like who I feel connected to after a while of being around them as friends. But thanks, we shall see.

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Posted by jane84
What has been your longest relationship or relationships? How long?

Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars of both you and that person?

Me: Libra/Libra/Scorpio/Sag

Him: Taurus/Taurus/Aries/Scorpio

15 Years... Didn't end well

Now-

Him: Sag/Cancer/Cap/Scorpio

A little over a year-we'll see...

Me: Taurus /Leo/Pisces /taurus

Him: Aqua /Virgo/ aqua /aqua

7 years.. He loves too many vices alcohol and control. Ended badly - aqua NEVER AGAIN

Now:

Him: Taurus /sag/VIG /Pisces

16 month friendship - bf for 5 months... I hope it lasts till eternity

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Although I don't personally know many Aquas like that.. Alcohol and control is the worst, so I could see why it didn't work. :/

Well I have a feeling this one will! Good luck!

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Posted by Deedee86
My ex husband. Together 14 years but most were miserable.

Me: Sco/Ari/Lib/Can

Him:Cap/Virgo/Cap/Sag

My current ex. 5 years. I believe tf

Lib/Cap/Vir/Lib

14 years and most were miserable? 😢 If I may ask, why did you stay for so long?

My mother is a Scorpio, I feel as though she can put up with a lotttttt.

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At first I was trying to make it work for the kids. When I decided to leave it took some time to actually get out.

Me: Scorpio/Aqua/Cap/Scorpio

3 years with Gemini/Libra/Cancer/Cancer

2 years with Aqua/Sag/Pisces/Gemini

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Posted by Deedee86
My ex husband. Together 14 years but most were miserable.

Me: Sco/Ari/Lib/Can

Him:Cap/Virgo/Cap/Sag

My current ex. 5 years. I believe tf

Lib/Cap/Vir/Lib

14 years and most were miserable? 😢 If I may ask, why did you stay for so long?

My mother is a Scorpio, I feel as though she can put up with a lotttttt.

At first I was trying to make it work for the kids. When I decided to leave it took some time to actually get out.

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I see. Well I'm sorry that you went through that.

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Posted by jane84
What has been your longest relationship or relationships? How long?

Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars of both you and that person?

Me: Libra/Libra/Scorpio/Sag

Him: Taurus/Taurus/Aries/Scorpio

15 Years... Didn't end well

Now-

Him: Sag/Cancer/Cap/Scorpio

A little over a year-we'll see...

Me: Taurus /Leo/Pisces /taurus

Him: Aqua /Virgo/ aqua /aqua

7 years.. He loves too many vices alcohol and control. Ended badly - aqua NEVER AGAIN

Now:

Him: Taurus /sag/VIG /Pisces

16 month friendship - bf for 5 months... I hope it lasts till eternity

Although I don't personally know many Aquas like that.. Alcohol and control is the worst, so I could see why it didn't work. :/

Well I have a feeling this one will! Good luck!

Thanks jane84.

I hope it works for you too. Libra and sag are supposed to be a good match. My sag sister and her libra husband will celebrate 27/28 years of marriage this month!

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That's awesome! I think we are..so we shall see. 🙂

Posted by dracula
Me: Scorpio/Aqua/Cap/Scorpio

3 years with Gemini/Libra/Cancer/Cancer

2 years with Aqua/Sag/Pisces/Gemini

The more I look at charts the more I realize I like being around those who have Cap Venus. My sister has it, who is my best friend. A couple other people as well as my current boyfriend. It meshes well with my Scorpio Venus. 🙂

I do see many Geminis and Scorpios being drawn to each other as well. My other best friend is a Scorpio and her current BF is a Gemini. Although they don't always see eye to eye, they have made it work thus far.

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Posted by Deedee86
My ex husband. Together 14 years but most were miserable.

Me: Sco/Ari/Lib/Can

Him:Cap/Virgo/Cap/Sag

My current ex. 5 years. I believe tf

Lib/Cap/Vir/Lib

14 years and most were miserable? 😢 If I may ask, why did you stay for so long?

My mother is a Scorpio, I feel as though she can put up with a lotttttt.

At first I was trying to make it work for the kids. When I decided to leave it took some time to actually get out.

I see. Well I'm sorry that you went through that.

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Thanks. It's the past. We do have 2 really good kids so something positive came out of it

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Posted by Deedee86
My ex husband. Together 14 years but most were miserable.

Me: Sco/Ari/Lib/Can

Him:Cap/Virgo/Cap/Sag

My current ex. 5 years. I believe tf

Lib/Cap/Vir/Lib

14 years and most were miserable? 😢 If I may ask, why did you stay for so long?

My mother is a Scorpio, I feel as though she can put up with a lotttttt.

At first I was trying to make it work for the kids. When I decided to leave it took some time to actually get out.

I see. Well I'm sorry that you went through that.

Thanks. It's the past. We do have 2 really good kids so something positive came out of it

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That's what my Mom says.."Without your crazy Dad, I wouldn't have had you four beautiful children." ☺️

me : sun scorpio, moon virgo, venus sagittarius, mars libra

him: sun capricorn, moon aquarius, venus pisces, mars pisces

On and off almost 9 years now... funnily enough he returned around Mercury Retrograde once again.

Me

Libra Sun

Libra Moon

Scorpio Venus

Leo Mars

Him

Virgo Sun

Virgo Moon

Virgo Venus

Gemini Mars

22 years.... married very young, divorced, now married again.

Him: Virgo, Cancer, Libra, Taurus

Me: Aries, Gemini, Aqua, Gemini

That's us in my avatar.

Posted by Rommy
7 years. It was a beautiful and trusting relationship. We loved each other very much but sadly towards the end we grew apart and it happened to a degree that couldn't reverse its course when we became pregnant and lost the baby. After that there was nothing left. We never truly ever ended entirely. We both still have long distance feels for one another and still care deeply. I doubt it will be something I'll ever revisit because I feel that I've evolved past the person he once knew and that girl he once knew was perfect for him. The woman I am now....he couldn't take me if he tried.

Him: VirgoLeeb Cusp/ scorp moon/ Libra Venus/ libra rising

Me: Aries Taurus cusp/ Pisces moon/ Aries Venus and Virgo rising.

Now: I'll let you know when I finally make that choice lol. Its too early to cat lady their charts

I'm sorry you lost your baby. I had a miscarriage, it is emotionally draining in the relationship. It's very difficult, so I can relate.

Lol Well it's better to take your time than to try and make something happen. So I wish you luck whenever you make that choice. 🙂

Posted by VenusAquarius
22 years.... married very young, divorced, now married again.

Him: Virgo, Cancer, Libra, Taurus

Me: Aries, Gemini, Aqua, Gemini

That's us in my avatar.

Aww you found your way back to each other? That's sweet! Must be that Libra Venus and Aqua Venus? 😉

Posted by Harukka

Hi Jane 🙂... is everything between u and ur lover ok?

Hi Harukka!!

Yes, it's great! I was sick yesterday and he was so sweet. He bought me medicine, got me tissues, made me soup, and later on some tea. He cuddled with me and put on a movie, because he knew I didn't feel like doing anything. He had things to do too.. And decided not to. It's funny because I'm always strong and try to just get over it and not make a big deal about it. He's just like too bad, I'm taking care of you. Lol

Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
On and off almost 9 years now... funnily enough he returned around Mercury Retrograde once again.

Me

Libra Sun

Libra Moon

Scorpio Venus

Leo Mars

Him

Virgo Sun

Virgo Moon

Virgo Venus

Gemini Mars

Hey! We are very similar! Libra Sun/libra moon/ Scorp Venus! Except my Mars is in Sag, not Leo.

I've never been with a Virgo before, especially one with so much Virgo in their chart.

Posted by Solitude
Me Gemini/Virgo/Taurus/Aries

Him Scorpio/Scorpio/Scorpio/Scorpio

Atm I'm dating a Scorpio/Scorpio/Sag/Libra

you're dating that creepy scorpio?

Posted by jellyfish87
me : sun scorpio, moon virgo, venus sagittarius, mars libra

him: sun capricorn, moon aquarius, venus pisces, mars pisces

How long have you been in that relationship if you don't mind me asking?

Posted by jane84

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428

Posted by jane84
What has been your longest relationship or relationships? How long?

Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars of both you and that person?

Me: Libra/Libra/Scorpio/Sag

Him: Taurus/Taurus/Aries/Scorpio

15 Years... Didn't end well

Now-

Him: Sag/Cancer/Cap/Scorpio

A little over a year-we'll see...

Wow so you went from an earth sign with to a mutable fire sign. Libra and sag huh. Good luck.

Yeah I've never really had a "type," more like who I feel connected to after a while of being around them as friends. But thanks, we shall see.

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Yeah I'm beginning to think about the type and more on personality or character traits I see in a person because you can't change people. You can voice youropinion and watch a see without controlling, its All about actions. With me though I pretty routinely and direct so if I start disappearing it's because I do stay longer than necessary wishing they meet me on more than physical attraction meets the eye. And for some they will appreciate or recognize it later but the more I detach the more my feelings once was sorta change. So keep it real and consistent. I show you I am consistent and not into games.

Posted by jellyfish87
me : sun scorpio, moon virgo, venus sagittarius, mars libra

him: sun capricorn, moon aquarius, venus pisces, mars pisces

How is Virgo moon and Aqua moon life going for you both?

My longest is with the famous fire cardinal for 6 years.

Me : Aries/Scorpio/Aries/Cancer

Her : Cap/Virgo/Pisces/Cap

3 years (that's the equivalent of 7 years in a heterosexual relationship context hahahaha)

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Posted by jellyfish87
me : sun scorpio, moon virgo, venus sagittarius, mars libra

him: sun capricorn, moon aquarius, venus pisces, mars pisces

How is Virgo moon and Aqua moon life going for you both?

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aw, we're no longer together! but he was my best relationship (from the ones that have ended). we felt very emotionally safe with each other to be honest, he was like my best friend and i could tell him anything. we broke up because we were young and inexperienced and let our relationship get stuck in a rut. but overall it was very good.

Me: gem/cancer/cancer/gem/cancer

Him: aqua-pisces/leo/pisces/aqua/cap

5 1/2 years now...

Oh man this thread made me realize I've never really had a good enough relationship lol .. I always decided to break up after the 4th month ..

My longest was 1.5 yrs with a leo

Me: Virgo rising/Taurus sun/Scorp moon/Taurus mercury/Aries venus/Pisces mars

Him: Cancer rising/Leo sun/Aqua moon/Virgo mercury venus and mars..

Posted by TxOgal
Oh man this thread made me realize I've never really had a good enough relationship lol .. I always decided to break up after the 4th month ..

My longest was 1.5 yrs with a leo

Me: Virgo rising/Taurus sun/Scorp moon/Taurus mercury/Aries venus/Pisces mars

Him: Cancer rising/Leo sun/Aqua moon/Virgo mercury venus and mars..

You have VERY similar placements as my friend who calls me daily. Right now she is not happy with her Virgo BF and has already told him it might not work. She had multiple little relationships that didn't last after her divorce from her Cancer husband (that one is a long story..but they were more off than on) and the one who she liked the most out of everyone? A Leo.

That's crazy! I wonder what it is that makes you both so not satisfied in a relationship? (Some I know why, others I don't)

@jane84 .. I have not been into many relationships, because I only went for those I reaaaally liked if not loved long before we get into a relationship.

But I can tell you what made me not that satisfied from my experience

1. Unreliable

2. Continuous Lying

3. Flirting with other girls (behind my back)

4. Lazy to make an effort into the relationship (as in waiting for me to clear the air/ fix / dissolve the misunderstandings..etc)

.. I've casually dated a virgo before but we were not compatible (different life style n Standard of living) but I wondered how it would be like with a virgo.. I know he was a BIG flirt though.. Why does ur friend want to break up?

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@jane84 .. I have not been into many relationships, because I only went for those I reaaaally liked if not loved long before we get into a relationship.

But I can tell you what made me not that satisfied from my experience

1. Unreliable

2. Continuous Lying

3. Flirting with other girls (behind my back)

4. Lazy to make an effort into the relationship (as in waiting for me to clear the air/ fix / dissolve the misunderstandings..etc)

.. I've casually dated a virgo before but we were not compatible (different life style n Standard of living) but I wondered how it would be like with a virgo.. I know he was a BIG flirt though.. Why does ur friend want to break up?

Makes sense. That sounds like a list she'd write as well.

Hmm that's a long story, but the main points would be:

1. Always tired, not wanting to be as sexual with her as she is with him.

2. He is a trainer and has another job, so he is around many women every day...and not her as much.

3. He listens more to what his Mother says than her. Any extra time they do have is spent with Mother/Grandmother

4. He never tells her how he feels about her. And can be very moody and snappy when she asks a question.

Ew.

Posted by jane84
What has been your longest relationship or relationships? How long?

Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars of both you and that person?

Me: Libra/Libra/Scorpio/Sag

Him: Taurus/Taurus/Aries/Scorpio

15 Years... Didn't end well

Now-

Him: Sag/Cancer/Cap/Scorpio

A little over a year-we'll see...

Okay...

Meh

Sun LEO

Moon Pisces

Venus Virgo

Mars Taurus

He

Sun Virgo

Moon LEO

Venus Virgo

Mars LEO

Five years.

We still talk fairly regularly, but he's over 3000

miles away... so it's not too awkward.

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Posted by TxOgal
@jane84 .. I have not been into many relationships, because I only went for those I reaaaally liked if not loved long before we get into a relationship.

But I can tell you what made me not that satisfied from my experience

1. Unreliable

2. Continuous Lying

3. Flirting with other girls (behind my back)

4. Lazy to make an effort into the relationship (as in waiting for me to clear the air/ fix / dissolve the misunderstandings..etc)

.. I've casually dated a virgo before but we were not compatible (different life style n Standard of living) but I wondered how it would be like with a virgo.. I know he was a BIG flirt though.. Why does ur friend want to break up?

Makes sense. That sounds like a list she'd write as well.

Hmm that's a long story, but the main points would be:

1. Always tired, not wanting to be as sexual with her as she is with him.

2. He is a trainer and has another job, so he is around many women every day...and not her as much.

3. He listens more to what his Mother says than her. Any extra time they do have is spent with Mother/Grandmother

4. He never tells her how he feels about her. And can be very moody and snappy when she asks a question.

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The first point was one of the things that were frustrating me with leo ex bf. ... It feels reaaaally bad 😢

And yeh I wouldnt stand the 4th either.. If he wont be patient with me, then i dont know if it can last

Im sorry ur friend's going through that, I hope he realizes or she finds a better guy for her

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Ew.

LOL.

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Ew.

LOL.

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That avi is phat.. Lol.

When people enter lives it's for many reasons. You got to decide which one. Many options galore.

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Posted by TxOgal
@jane84 .. I have not been into many relationships, because I only went for those I reaaaally liked if not loved long before we get into a relationship.

But I can tell you what made me not that satisfied from my experience

1. Unreliable

2. Continuous Lying

3. Flirting with other girls (behind my back)

4. Lazy to make an effort into the relationship (as in waiting for me to clear the air/ fix / dissolve the misunderstandings..etc)

.. I've casually dated a virgo before but we were not compatible (different life style n Standard of living) but I wondered how it would be like with a virgo.. I know he was a BIG flirt though.. Why does ur friend want to break up?

Makes sense. That sounds like a list she'd write as well.

Hmm that's a long story, but the main points would be:

1. Always tired, not wanting to be as sexual with her as she is with him.

2. He is a trainer and has another job, so he is around many women every day...and not her as much.

3. He listens more to what his Mother says than her. Any extra time they do have is spent with Mother/Grandmother

4. He never tells her how he feels about her. And can be very moody and snappy when she asks a question.

Aside from number 4 (which is very obviously his own shortcomings) it doesn't really sound like her problem is with him.

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Hmm true. That was in the it's a long story part. And I also don't feel like it has to do with placements. The more I talk to her the more I think she has trust issues that stem from her past. I discuss this with her...I think in the end it is her who needs to make that decision though.

I'm a pisces and had a 8 month relationship with a sagittarius, lol, nothing impressive. we were both 13 at the time and still good friends now at the age of 16. I'm still surprised how we're getting along so well since she's a sag..

Damn how sweet.

Me: Gemini sun / Taurus moon / Gemini Venus / Scorpio Mars

Him: Taurus sun / Pisces moon / Gemini Venus / cancer Mars

Together 14 years. Married and divorced each other twice.

Newest boyfriend: Libra sun / Libra moon / Libra Venus / Libra Mars

Posted by jane84

Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
On and off almost 9 years now... funnily enough he returned around Mercury Retrograde once again.

Me

Libra Sun

Libra Moon

Scorpio Venus

Leo Mars

Him

Virgo Sun

Virgo Moon

Virgo Venus

Gemini Mars

Hey! We are very similar! Libra Sun/libra moon/ Scorp Venus! Except my Mars is in Sag, not Leo.

I've never been with a Virgo before, especially one with so much Virgo in their chart.

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🙂 Gooo Fire Mars!!

? tough work I will say that.