Ok, i confess...

I miss the Libra and im really pissed off that he has just done a disappearing act, without even talking to me about what he obviously wasnt happy about. I now i shouldnt, but maybe he is depending on me to be the initiator? Its been a week since i heard from him at all..do yu think i should leave it completely, or just say a quick, "hi, how are you"?

"...isnt really interested in winning you back, its more of a pride thing, to prove to herself that she CAN win you back."

I do that when rejected by the other party...

Or is this the game that i subconsciously want to play? Our ?scopes for the week arent exactly encouraging, so im depending on you gus to help me, heehee!!

Oh my, Sola, how I can relate! Right now, I give Libra Girl a MAXIMUM of 1 week. For a while, if she didn't get back to me in 3 days, I'd panic---BUT she'd find some excuse to call. Then it was 5 days---they have NO perception of time like the rest of us!----and she'd call just before the five days were up. Now I'm caring less, but she seems to be caring more---yes, another Libra trait---so my time is 1 week. IF it goes past a week, "Buh-bye!" But they have this radar that knows when it's really getting close to your tolerance level and call at the last minute. They DON'T want to lose the relationship, whether casual or serious. AND if they think they have, it will REALLY depress them. SO, with your Libra Guy, I'd give him a "Hi" at this point in time. And, for your sanity's sake, remember the Disappearing Act is TYPICAL and they don't have the time perception with relationships most of us do. Welcome to Libra Land!

Atom, i am Libra myself, hence the confusion!! Personally if im iterested in a person i'll return calls and messages asap, never usually more than a couple of days. This is so crap..i will text him tomorrow and ask if he has had a good weekend..light and breezy has to be the way with this one i can tell 😢

Sounds like your Libra is coming to her senses at last..whoop for you!!

I experienced something extremely similar with a Libra girl. Everything was good and then all of a sudden she dissapeared. Just let it go...it is the only thing worth doing in the end. He is obviously no were near the emotional or mental condition to be a good prospect. Just tell yourself it is his loss and move on. It sucks I know but that is just the way it is. I really liked her, then she dissapeared and I was pretty low about it and then all of a sudden I meet this awesome girl out of nowhere 😉

Everything happens for a reason. The ship is already taking on water, you can either stay aboard and let it take you down with it or you can abandon ship and start anew.

Sometimes though, it does pay to be patient and Sola, as you are a Libra you know all about that word!!

I contemplated walking and almost running as fast as I could many times (as the regulars on here know all too well) but 7&1/2 months later Im still quite confused with the Libran creatures, and especially mine as he is/was somewhat broken but Im also extremely happy to have him in my life as much as he is willing to give....with that patience comes a fabulous reward (and I hope that if that is what you choose, you will receive too). let's just hope Im not just a habit or that annoying that he has to spend time with me LMAO.

Strange!!!. I saw the movie "I Confess" last night.

Thanks guys..but im with Nic on this!! I am a tad upset, guess its just my pride thats in pain, rather than anything physical...what a bugger. Maybe it would pay to be patient, but i dont have the time to be waiting around, life is for living and someone else will be on be horizon soon 🙂

It IS his loss..im hot! heehee

😛 excellent attitude

Sola, you ARE hot. It IS his loss. And, IF you haven't been that way in relationships then you've been very UN-Libra-like, as Chatz and I can attest too. See how frustrating it is—?

Sola, now that's the spirit!!! Not about you at all. His issues.

I am un-libra like at times Atom, maybe its because im on the virgo/libra cusp??

Im fine now, as i knew i would be!! Here?s to the weekend, hope everyone has a good one!! 🙂

ok, Libra's and their disappearing act. One on hand, mine used to seek me out after a few days. We would have an argument and he would disappear- then it was me that seemed to always call and make amends. Then we did have an argument and he never called me back, but he had a chance to. I didnt go running back as usual. then I call him-weeks later. he emails me of all things "what'd you want?" (never used the computer for years, too addicted to porn and I hated that). So I figured out straight away, he's online dating. I was right. It took a matter of a week or so to find another chick and start a relationship after a 3+year relationship with me. It was troubled at best.

Linda Goodman states that with Libra if they love you, out of sight does not always mean out of mind, they are just seeking solice for mental rejuventation. If they do not love you than more than likely they are seeking other sources and therefore good riddance and good luck.

Is it possible that there is just too much background noise, the social sphere - too many distractions making it hard to keep in touch with Libras? Or is that how Air and Fire signs are generally like?

Air- dont know where it is and changeable. Fire, I never had a problem w. them being unreachable or ungrounded, just more aggressive and prideful in order to really care one way or another they can take you or leave you-you play by their rules, not yours. Although I have a Virgo friend that could take em or leave em and leave em she would with no problems. Possible she had Fire/Air as rising or moon. I mean I do to-but if I fall in love I dont let go so easily, that's the Cancer. Libras are Cardinal, meaning they should be leaders but they lead with a passive aggressive nature, not forthright like the other Cardinal signs.

***Linda Goodman states that with Libra if they love you, out of sight does not always mean out of mind, they are just seeking solice for mental rejuventation. If they do not love you than more than likely they are seeking other sources and therefore good riddance and good luck. ***

I can agree with that.

Its not supposed to be a bad perception surely...its just that it takes a special someone to really rock our boat!! And if its not you,then im sorry, but we will look elsewhere for what we?re looking for, ie perfection. However, i wish we could be more easily satisfied, because what we?re looking for often evades us like the plague 😢 and we end up worse off than ever, hence the Sola experience!!

One thing?s for sure though...Aqua?s just cant enough!! Cant say if thats a good or a bad thang, but possibly the latter!!!

I confess...

I am just like my mother...!!!...

Im not!! Both my parents are Capricorn...far too serious and traditional for me...we?re like chalk and cheese, thats why i left the country!! I love them, but sometimes i just cant bear to listen to them. Its like they have to justify my behaviour to everyone because im not in a long-term relationship and have no desire to marry/have kids etc..."oh, she?s just getting it out of her system" blah, blah...eh, no actually, this is the life i choose for myself, heehee.

p.s, if i do have kids, i want them planned atsrologically!! Would you like your children (of either sex) to be Libra? Im not sure i would want that for them, no-one understands how difficult life is for us!!

I don't know if I can deal with a Libra brained child I can barely deal with myself... That would definitely be karma... my mom always says her revenge is in our children...hoping I can turn that around before she dies... which will be at a very very very very old old old age... like 130... hmmm... makes me wonder what she did as a child to get that Aqua brat that I call sis...

Besides any planning I do is sure to backfire... I go for Libra or Leo and surely I'd get a Virgo... and God know's Virgs drive me up walls...