OMG- CANT BELIEVE IM BACK ON THIS BOARD

Ok guys - remember me? My Libra never called me . . . . so since we were supposedly friends, I sent him an Easter greeting, as with all my other friends. Talked to him once on an unrelated issue regarding someone that went to a club we frequented together when dating.

So, today I get an email from him with my last email attached (in it I said I was glad he was my friend cause he treated me special, etc). that was in April. Anyways he email me back this reply today "HHHHmmmmmmm"

What do you guys make of this? ? ?

Nothing... It means Hmmmmmm....

This was back in April/May why bother—

Sorry QS - I do not buy it this time. This email was responded to way back in April. I have moved on and not contacted Libra . . . . So youre saying I do not respond back—? Just leave it hanging, or . . . . .—? what??

Chances are he wants to be friends nothing more.

Thanks LS - we've already established we were friends. ok Im reading more into this than I should I guess. Maybe it was a mistake and he was trying to respond to someone else's email. I might just ask him what it means, since we ARE friends. He's probably funning with me.

DON'T DO THAT!!!

He probably waited for you to lose your emotional attachment and get over him so you could have an honest friendship and well .... there you go.

If you start asking what he means by being friendly with you, you make it clear you aren't ready to just be cool and be friends.

Know what I mean?

Anyway I am off! Have a good 'end all!

Oh the reason I say that is because if he was anyone other of your friends you would never ask them what they meant by being friendly. You would just enjoy the friendship.

without any other expectation or reading more into it than what it is.

night all!

Why not ASK people instead of all this speculation!?

Simple ask if he would be interested in more than friends because you always feel good with him.
And then if he say no you dont make a fool out of your self and if he say yeah maybe then go out eating together or being together and see if it work out!

No, he wasnt interested in April, but now he has nothing better being offered to him, so he?s fishing around in the past to see if he can get anything from that..i do that sometimes...

Dont answer him unless you are prepared to be hurt, as soon as something else comes along he?ll be gone again, guaranteed.

Sola - actually sounds like this might be the case. Last I spoke to libra he mentioned couldnt even get anyone to look at him, but could be any of the other good reasons mentioned as well. Benjsh I agree with you, what do I have to lose Ive already moved on. Ill think about this a few days, any other suggestions are welcome.

Benice what is your sign. Libra men as well as women rarely have a case of someone growing on them. They know from the beginning do not waste your time unless you have time to spare. Make him jealous and respond to him using someone else's name and then apologize and let him know you just discovered that it was an error. Then mention, ?Oh by the way how are you doing

Its hard hitting Joi, and im sorry that its true. Its just that if Libra of either sex is feeling lonely, they?ll take just about anything they can get. True, its a personal decision whether or not he?s worthy of a second chance, but the downside is that you?re already more attached than he?s ever likely to be = heartache for you. Thats what im trying to save you from benice, because its hurts like hell 😢

Thanks Lady - if they know from the beginning, why would I want to make him jealous? Libras are very confusing. Are you a Libra? I am scorpio. Well, I have time to spare as I am dating others and being with friends. He was and is always nice, our conversations are always fun, witty.

Sola - Libra guy has told me so much about all his relationships. WAs always appalled if I ever question him and his integrity. Both his marriages ended up the woman cheating on him. He said one thing for sure he always tried to make his relationship work, but when they didnt he severed all ties and never even talks to his exes. So, why talk to me? Oh, Im not fishing too hard for this one. Already have a relationship in the works right now. Is just my crazy curiosity on these guys. (case I may run into one later)
Im not sure why everyone thinks ALL libra's are the same. Are all Scorpios, etc. the same?

DO NOT use that jealousy tactic...trust me, it will never work.

Instaed, be really nice, almost sickly sweet and sound as if you?re really keen. If he makes a suggestion, keep putting him off. No need to be cruel (ie calling him the wrong name etc)!! but a mind game sounds like the way to go about this one. We are friendly with everyone, so dont read too much into that.

You should PM Queen Scorpio...she?s cool! Also is a scorp woman dating Libra male..

Scorps are ALL the same, damnit!!

p.s, "all his ex?s cheated on him"...a huge possibility that he?s bending the truth here...hell, we just love the sympathy!! C?mon, his sob stories have clearly worked on you?!! Just chill, and relax if you feel like you cant escape from his clutches. He will start a charm offensive on you and it will be easy to give in to his MEGA sweetness, b?t he knows exactly what he?s doing, and thats where it can go skittish. Continue to date others...he wont be able to stand it! 🙂

I agree with Sola. He's fishing. Especially if he didn't offer up an excuse or reason for just now getting back with you. If he sent you a reply just out of the blue, then I agree with Sola that he's fishing and hoping that you'll bite.

Yes, I'm a Libra and my brother is a Libra and yes the jealousy tactic does work if you use it good enough that the other person does not know that you are doing it deliberately. Moreover, being nice to a Libra man our women are you out of your mind. Honesty will do but but being nice for no particular reason especially when we know that we have not earned it WRONG MOVE? That Libra will walk all over you. Just be your self and as far as him, being nice don't take it to personal we are by nature people orientated very nice to all.

Blow him off and take charge we have a thing for take-charge personalities. Make him jealous because it is fun, there is an art to this just make sure you are able to do this with out leaving a trace of your motives. When he calls always say let me call you right back and do call but hold out even if it is 3 mins. When you call back if he does not answer leave a message and make sure you sound super occupied as if you were just fitting him in, but say something super aggressive just before you end your message as if you redirected your attention back on him. Something aggressive like ?I'm returning your call so see to it that you get back to me? then top it off with a super sweet o.k. ---Key work returning your call?

I have had so many Libra men that I just do not feel comfortable with, (maybe the whole same sign thing does not work for me) but for some reason I cant shake them because I blow them off all the time and they become more interested the more I blow them off.

Type O "key word not key work" Sorry!

I have to admit i can be rocked by a little jealousy... I'll respect your relationships but I'll try to sneak in as a close friend... wait til you realize they're not all that and focus your attention back on me... If Iknow you're playing a game with me I'll play along with that too but my attentions won't be on you yours will be on me, and you'll really be confused and frustrated... Keep intouch with him but let him know you have someone else on your agenda and he was so 2 months ago...

Realy just let things be don't force anything especially an explination... go with the flow if it's what you want. Don't make too much of anything unless it's really something


I have had so many Libra men that I just do not feel comfortable with, (maybe the whole same sign thing does not work for me) but for some reason I cant shake them because I blow them off all the time and they become more interested the more I blow them off."""-- I won't say so many but the one's that are around come back no matter what the same sign thing is frustrating...

benice, what LS said and sola. It doesn't really mean anything at all. You are a scorp right? Libra/Scorps have amazing sex, maybe he was horney and lonely and the sex thing got to him. So he is fishing to see if he can hook you again. Nothing serious though. Trust, I know. You can respond as a freind, however, don't let it go beyond that and definitely don't take it to mean more.

Ok guys - Libra emailed again today to see if I found out what I needed on a person of interest I had back then. Well, it didnt work out with that person and I will tell him that but should I act like Im interested in him, like maybe suggest he call and we can have a drink or just respond to his question——?

I was just going to chit chat and end it by saying, call me sometime, Ill buy you a drink. —— that way it sounds friendly but inviting——

" Libra emailed again today to see if I found out what I needed on a person of interest I had back then. Well, it didnt work out with that person and I will tell him that but should I act like Im interested in him, like maybe suggest he call and we can have a drink or just respond to his question——?"

If you want too. You are injecting to much expectation into this. He is going to at some point see that you are manipulating what you do to try and make it so that it is what he wants to do and in reality he just wants you to do what you want to do.

Right now you are just an open possibility to him. If you guys get together on his end it is going for him be able to have a little more experience to decide what he wants. Your asking for him to tell you out right what he wants and he doesn't necissarily know yet. I know that seems weird but it is honest and he is doing you a fovor by not jumping up and making things happen because it would be misleading you into thinking he wants you. He is not trying to figure out "what all of this means for you two" right now. He initiated now he is observing, the decisions will come a lot later. Do you want to be observed or no? Disclaimer: sex may be involved.

Ok nic so I should just answer the question and end it like that?

He's interested and like. nicodemus stated ? You are injecting to much expectation into this.? Besides you do have to be yourself and if you can't be yourself then what's the point. Ask him out and take it from there, you may not even want to see him again after that; our it can turn into something great! However, you will never know until someone makes a move.

Ack! Are you sure you aren't a Libra with all of this indecisiveness, benice? Why are you insisting on playing games? Act like you're interested in him? Isn't that kind of the point? Aren't you interested in him?

But wait, you just posted on this page that you already have a relationship in the works with someone else. This guy finally emails you from way back when and you're willing to drop everything on this new guy you're building a relationship with? Why? That's not fair to the new guy and it's not fair to you because if it doesn't work out with the guy who left you high and dry, then you're out two men because of all of this. Is it worth it?

Benice typed: "Oh, Im not fishing too hard for this one. Already have a relationship in the works right now."

You need to make the distinction between you wanting to see him, or you wanting him to want to see you. If you want to see him then you say so, if you don't then you say so. He may be thinking about all of the possibilities, but he isn't doing so the way you are and with the same amount of weight and depth, he is just feeling out the situation.

So if you want to hang out with him/go out on a date with him keep it light and flirty. If there is a deeper chemistry it will come out when you are together anyway.

hp - lol Im usually not this indecisive, libra makes me crazy though. Yes new guy, Ive dated couple times so not real serious yet, is Virgo. Libra I have dated before. I will just reply he can call me if he'd like. Will wait a day try not to act too interested. At this point what happens, happens. Im not all consuming Libra. Virgo seems more intentive or it may just be a new interest for Virgo. LOL

Thanks nic - means alot your advice being Libra male. Im in better position now to keep light.

So I emailed Libra in the AM answered his question and asked how he was doing and hope to hear from him soon. He emailed me back within an hour and told me what and how he was doing, said he was traveling alot this time of year for business. My question is, do you email back or just leave it? What is the standard for this? I guess since there were no questions asked you just leave it I assume. —?

Well, b, if nothing else, you can see how confusing it can be with a Libra as far as knowing what to do / how to respond. Standard procedure.