Playing hard to get? Do Libra like??

(Im hoping that ALibra writes *crosses fingers* lol)

Hello! I am a Virgo with alot of Air in my birth chart (Gemini Moon, Libra in Venus and loads of Gemini and Pisces) which is why Ive always been attracted to air signs I think not sure.

Anywho! I am talking to a Libra man right and he seems to be very smitten, especially because Ive not confirmed how I feel about him though he's professed his love and affection.

My topic is: do Libra's like it when people play hard to get? And when should you finally allow your Libra to know your true feelings without them doing that "disappearing" act?
Any thoughts welcome!

I've been burned badly by a Virgo for a year now. He plays hard to get toooo much, and even though it was endearing at first, now it just drives me crazy. I feel like in a way that's what attracts me to him but it's for all the wrong reasons (now it's a pride thing!). As a Libra, if a guy likes me and he DOESN'T play hard to get and he is a gentleman and shows me he cares about me without being pushy, I'll eventually fall for him 🙂 Easy to please. So my advice is don't play hard to get, but don't be TOO overwhelming. We like attention... at least I do!

Also I have to say I actually like it when guys come on hard. But! I have to like them at least a little already, otherwise it turns me off.

I dated a Libra before and I'd say male/female Libras are pretty similar.

Thanks LibraX- sorry my brethren wasn't smart enough to realize a good thing when he had it.
I've been told before that Libras do like attention so I will definitely remember that. He knows I do reciprocate when he flirts or speaks sweet nothing but seeing as a lot of advice says that Libras are charmers I'd like to know wholeheartedly first that it's genuine.

Loved your advice though! :}

Hehehe it's ok with the Virgo, he's a weirdo but I understand him in a way because I'm sure he probably sees me as a huge player, "charmer" as you say. Funny. I like him a lot but I just want to be friends with him, yea not something Virgo men can deal with 🙂

Anyway back to you. Take everything he says/does with a grain of salt because we can write the book on how to make people feel loved/charmed/understood and as if they're the only people in our world. But have a good time!! Trap him by being sweet to him, loving, paying attention to him, stealing a kiss here and there, and if it's meant to be he'll be all about YOU and 100% genuine.

If your speaking in guy perspective then yes. Playing hard to get works here. Being a libra lady myself I wouldn't tell a man to play with me. However with the men if you do play hard to get with a Libra after he's shown or told you how he feels then you'd had better be good at not letting it be obvious. I can't stand liking someone more or even less than they like me. They can like me a little more, but that's only because I feel relationships wont last if the woman likes the man more. However if you like them too much more than they like you and you make it known, that's pretty much where the disappearing will start. It will make them feel uncomfortable by not being on the same level. Now re-read what I just said, because that goes both ways with a libra.

If he has shown you that he's into you, and likes you a lot. Then you NEED to let him know its mutual, or it will eventually stop. They will not chase if they have nothing to work with. If they feel you have no interest then they will surely move on to someone that does, as there are plenty who would like a chance. So don't get too comfortable. I would say its best to mimic him while still being yourself. If he moves you move. If he's mushy then you follow suit. When he cools off you cool off. They like balance. Do this while oozing that feminine confidence, look gorgeous, and if your funny and can make him laugh that's a plus. Its crazy but its like when they move you move. When they stop you stop. If you really care, its cool to ask why they stopped, but don't make it a huge blow out if you're not his girl already, because he may just be flirting for the fun of it. Libra men are charmers, and get an awesome kick out of beautiful, confident women swooning over them and that dazzling smile they most likely possess. If you flip out, he will think "geesh! I was just flirting aka. Joking around. Sorry you got hurt." And we don't want that, so keep it light, sweet, and charming until you know for sure where he's coming from. These joka's are some charming, flirty, and yes clever little something sumthins. lol

By the way, thanks for the shout out. I love it! LOL 🙂

awesome understanding Aleeb!

Thanks girlie ^_^

nope... will leave you fast

I am married ( for a loooong time ) to a Virgo girl w/ alot of Air in her chart as well and it's a very harmonious relationsip ! Libra men like to chase and loooove to be chased back ! because when we are chased back then we know we are wanted and appreciated . Being chased is like a confirmation that we are worth your time and energy and we want to see if you are a good flirt too. Flirting is an art , it's both mental and physical - so don't play too hard to get ..or your Libra will look elswhere for a more exciting , it's sounds like you allready have alot of this figured out , Good Luck !

ALibra is a wise, wise woman! Hahaha!

No, I don't think we play hard to get at all. We're just very selective when in love because when we do fall in love, we take it very seriously. Maybe it comes across that way to others, but it's not intentional. Genuine kindness is a part of our personality and because we are naturally friendly folks, most of the time others take it the wrong way. They see it as being flirty, which is not always the case. I'm a courteous person by nature so even if I smile and say hello, a guy will take that as.....oh,..I think she's digging me, so I'm standing there like..huh? WTF just happened? All I did was say hello, and now I'm flirting? So depending on my situation sometimes I just keep a frown on my face...lol....go figure, but then when I do that, I'm being stuck-up, snobbish or unfriendly. Sometimes it's a balance or battle that I just refuse to fight..