stimulating the libra mind? ::Fun::

This topic was created in the Libra forum by TigerGoddess on Monday, January 30, 2012 and has 18 replies.

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@TigerGoddess
15 YearsVirgo

Hello! Just looking for a few questions to tease and stimulate my Libra.
What questions make you blush but you secretly like? What would you want asked to you to be interesting?

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@ALibra
14 Years

I actually love talking about everything. Anything that's interesting, sometimes things that are friendly debatable. I love going back and forth over a friendly debate. Most of the time I love hearing my partners' future plans, and how they plan to incorporate me into it. If they mention the future and don't mention me, then my whole attitude will turn sour and cold towards the relationship, I'd feel "am I wasting my time, none of that includes me" I loooooooove compliments, and with the right person what they will do to me sexually (tee-hee)lol, but please make sure we even like you in that way, if not you'll be sorry. With a libra you really cant loose. We love to talk about everything, especially new things that interest us. So just find something he's interested in an let-er rip.lol. My aries an I love to talk about our future together, but we are really silly with it. I will talk to him about things I learned in school, like china and politics, or because Im in school for medicine I'll talk him about remedies or something like that. He's very attentive when I talk and I love it. So be sure to listen to libra. Don't just throw out a topic and expect him to steer the conversation by himself.

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@LibraRose
14 Years

I like conversations with lots of give and take and sharing of information. I like to hear about the other person, but I like them to show an interest in my life too. Love chatting about current affairs, politics philosophy, psychology, lots of stuff really. I clam up if I feel I'm being manipulated or the conversation is too one sided. I'm not really into sexual banter unless I'm in an intimate relationship and even then it will be short jokey comment and not too crude.

I guess if I was trying to attract someone's attention I would ask them for advice or help. Libra love helping people.

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@TigerGoddess
15 YearsVirgo

Posted by ALibra
I actually love talking about everything. Anything that's interesting, sometimes things that are friendly debatable. I love going back and forth over a friendly debate. Most of the time I love hearing my partners' future plans, and how they plan to incorporate me into it. If they mention the future and don't mention me, then my whole attitude will turn sour and cold towards the relationship, I'd feel "am I wasting my time, none of that includes me" I loooooooove compliments, and with the right person what they will do to me sexually (tee-hee)lol, but please make sure we even like you in that way, if not you'll be sorry. With a libra you really cant loose. We love to talk about everything, especially new things that interest us. So just find something he's interested in an let-er rip.lol. My aries an I love to talk about our future together, but we are really silly with it. I will talk to him about things I learned in school, like china and politics, or because Im in school for medicine I'll talk him about remedies or something like that. He's very attentive when I talk and I love it. So be sure to listen to libra. Don't just throw out a topic and expect him to steer the conversation by himself.

You always give the best Libra advice lol. I love your responses on the forum. He's into skydiving and adrenaline junky things. He's always including me in future pans or adventures. He's much more into what I consider scary things lol. Jumping out of planes etc. In regards to current events he's not really big into that but I will use your advice. He's playfully chatty and gets personal sometimes but its mostly like you, light and airy lol

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@TigerGoddess
15 YearsVirgo

You're right. When the topic of sex arises he tends to be poetic or makes it suggestive or pg13 lol. He's aggressive (venus in scorpio) and mine is in libra. So I like it when its subtle dirty talk but I like ruffling his feathers sometimes. Not overly though. I'm not a fan of crude. There's a lot of Air in my chart.

Posted by LibraRose
I like conversations with lots of give and take and sharing of information. I like to hear about the other person, but I like them to show an interest in my life too. Love chatting about current affairs, politics philosophy, psychology, lots of stuff really. I clam up if I feel I'm being manipulated or the conversation is too one sided. I'm not really into sexual banter unless I'm in an intimate relationship and even then it will be short jokey comment and not too crude.

I guess if I was trying to attract someone's attention I would ask them for advice or help. Libra love helping people.

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@ALibra
14 Years

LOL. Thanks! And if he doesn't like politics then you don't have to talk about it with him. Even if your scared of doing the things he's into share that with him, he will enjoy debating with you on why its soo much fun, and why you should try them. Even if you never do, he wont force you into it, but wont hesitate to offer because we are just sweet and fun like that. My aries has a brawd mind. He likes to talk about everything. Anything I want to talk about, he will talk about it. Whether personal, fun, politics, religion any of it he will always have strong and good opinion. Libra respects a partner with a mind of their own. If you don't know about the topics, allow him to educate. Libra loves to bring things to the table and he will enjoy teaching you something that other guys haven't. In his mind bonus points for him.lol

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@celticlioness
16 Years1,000+ Posts

The Libra guy I'm seeing at the moment throws out topics and then lets me run with them - he says he loves hearing me talk about things and "gets turned on listening" - he actually said this when we were discussing the nutritional value of cornflakes, a topic he raised and then i expounded on in earnest (its a Leo thing you know) while he sat back with a little grin. He's sweet and is growing on me slowly 🙂

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@libragemmale
15 Years

TigerG he's a Libra w/ a Venus in Scorpio ? Ha ! you should'nt have any problem stimulating him ! If you want to make him blush just ask him what outfit you should wear under your sweater and jeans on your next date , and how high does he like your heels ! I'm just kidding ... but not really 😉

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@TigerGoddess
15 YearsVirgo

Posted by ALibra
LOL. Thanks! And if he doesn't like politics then you don't have to talk about it with him. Even if your scared of doing the things he's into share that with him, he will enjoy debating with you on why its soo much fun, and why you should try them. Even if you never do, he wont force you into it, but wont hesitate to offer because we are just sweet and fun like that. My aries has a brawd mind. He likes to talk about everything. Anything I want to talk about, he will talk about it. Whether personal, fun, politics, religion any of it he will always have strong and good opinion. Libra respects a partner with a mind of their own. If you don't know about the topics, allow him to educate. Libra loves to bring things to the table and he will enjoy teaching you something that other guys haven't. In his mind bonus points for him.lol

You're right!!! When I said I wouldnt do it he gave me 101 reasons why I should and how's hes going to convince me to. I laughed. We had the same debate on tattoos because I dont have any. Also same thing about soccer lol.

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@TigerGoddess
15 YearsVirgo

Posted by libragemmale
TigerG he's a Libra w/ a Venus in Scorpio ? Ha ! you should'nt have any problem stimulating him ! If you want to make him blush just ask him what outfit you should wear under your sweater and jeans on your next date , and how high does he like your heels ! I'm just kidding ... but not really 😉

Is your Venus in Scorp as well gemmale?? LOL because he actually LOVES "dressing" me and telling me what to wear or what he thinks would look good on me. Like Im a doll or something. You and QLibra (I think thats his screenname) give honest and good advice in relation to Libra men. Thank you for that!!!

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@TigerGoddess
15 YearsVirgo

Posted by celticlioness
The Libra guy I'm seeing at the moment throws out topics and then lets me run with them - he says he loves hearing me talk about things and "gets turned on listening" - he actually said this when we were discussing the nutritional value of cornflakes, a topic he raised and then i expounded on in earnest (its a Leo thing you know) while he sat back with a little grin. He's sweet and is growing on me slowly 🙂

OMG you're so cute lol. I can feel you blushing through your message lol. PS. I hate frosted or corn flakes lol.

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@libragemmale
15 Years

No Tiger i have Venus and mars in Sag . But all Libra guys are the same with that sexy lingere stuff !! & nylons & lipstick and candles and satin sheets - blah blah blah I'm sure you could write a book by now....

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@TigerGoddess
15 YearsVirgo

Posted by libragemmale
No Tiger i have Venus and mars in Sag . But all Libra guys are the same with that sexy lingere stuff !! & nylons & lipstick and candles and satin sheets - blah blah blah I'm sure you could write a book by now....

**jotting down notes** I love things like that anyway so WINNING! 🙂 Are Libra men more submissive or dominant?

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@TigerGoddess
15 YearsVirgo

Posted by oldskoolflavor
if you're comfortable enough with each other,
use subtly provocative questions, double entendres etc ..
from time to time

he should enjoy those,
unless he lives by the bible or something

Hes a holiday Catholic lol I dont think it counts lol. Any examples?

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@celticlioness
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by TigerGoddess

Posted by celticlioness
The Libra guy I'm seeing at the moment throws out topics and then lets me run with them - he says he loves hearing me talk about things and "gets turned on listening" - he actually said this when we were discussing the nutritional value of cornflakes, a topic he raised and then i expounded on in earnest (its a Leo thing you know) while he sat back with a little grin. He's sweet and is growing on me slowly 🙂

OMG you're so cute lol. I can feel you blushing through your message lol. PS. I hate frosted or corn flakes lol.

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lol, yeah I go all giggly when mid-rant he interrupts with statements like that, but i think he knows I'll fling myself at him at that stage so he engineers it 🙂

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15 YearsVirgo

Posted by celticlioness

Posted by TigerGoddess

Posted by celticlioness
The Libra guy I'm seeing at the moment throws out topics and then lets me run with them - he says he loves hearing me talk about things and "gets turned on listening" - he actually said this when we were discussing the nutritional value of cornflakes, a topic he raised and then i expounded on in earnest (its a Leo thing you know) while he sat back with a little grin. He's sweet and is growing on me slowly 🙂

OMG you're so cute lol. I can feel you blushing through your message lol. PS. I hate frosted or corn flakes lol.

lol, yeah I go all giggly when mid-rant he interrupts with statements like that, but i think he knows I'll fling myself at him at that stage so he engineers it 🙂

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Trust me, I know exactly what you mean. Ill start on my rant about something and why he should just believe me because Im "right" and he'll say something like: "you're too precious for words" like really omg lol. Gets you all girly and stupid/silly I love it lol.