Basically I was conversing with my libra for weeks and then we finally met up today, we had a great time and then towards the end we kissed and held hands...
but then when he got home, he texted me and said that: "im not ready for this, please understand" "i think it better to be just friends"
i am an exchange student so im only staying a year at his uni. im feeling pretty crappy now, and wondering if its really "the end", because i know libras are indecisive. a friend even suggested i wait a month and then make my moves again, i know he has trouble saying no. not sure whether this is cruel or just appropriate >
i wouldn't make any moves; the moves have to come from him. he says he isn't ready, so respect that. can you just be friends with him? the best relationships develop from friendships.
You're a Leo----you'll find someone else soon. IF you insist on this Libra, wait like HP says. My experience is once they say they want to be friends only, that's it.
It sounds like you met on the internet and finally met in real life.
As hard as this is in this moment, just find the blessings in it. You know he isn't the guy for you so you are free to find the guy that *IS* right for you. Someone who IS crazy about you. THAT is something worthy of to find joy in.
Each no brings you closer to a yes. 🙂
PLUS, you are on exchange. Think of all the new experiences, new people, new guys you are going to meet. You are completely free with noone tying you down to experience all of this from this moment forth!
delta_leo, you should listen to your libra and what he said. Iam also a leo and I know how we hope and hold on to things for way to long.How can anyone not love a leo , right.
You should read Chatz thread - "What Ive learnt from Librans "
but then when he got home, he texted me and said that:
"im not ready for this, please understand"
"i think it better to be just friends"
i am an exchange student so im only staying a year at his uni.
im feeling pretty crappy now, and wondering if its really "the end", because i know libras are indecisive.
a friend even suggested i wait a month and then make my moves again, i know he has trouble saying no. not sure whether this is cruel or just appropriate >