Scared Libra

Are libras scared of catching feelings if they have been hurt? He called me and we talked for 2 hrs but he hasnt contaced me since. I don't want to be clingy with him so I'm just going to wait it out. I was actually surprised about how our conversation went. We talked about life and he seemed like he actually cared about what I had to say and gave his point of view. I just find it so odd because I don't want to think I did or said something wrong. Would you talk to a person that long if you didn't like them? He talked about how his ex drove him crazy and he was not going to turn back into that guy again and hes learned to control his feelings. Hes so confusing.

I'm not sure if he said his ex but he did say that we can't control other people but we can control our feelings and decide what we want. He did mention a girl but I knew he meant his ex. Lol I keep thinking hes trying to give me a hint but idk. I could never get him to talk to me on the phone, especially that long because he always says he isn't a phone person. There is A LOT of things behind his and our "relationship". I don't want to run him away with my emotions but at the same time I want to know how he feels about me.

Tiziani!!! You know about the Libra I'm talking about so I don't have to explain myself again. Remember the "Hopelessly Addicted" Topic?

Exactlyyy! It's ultra binding and I think that scares him. I have no idea where his and I relationship will go but all I know is the connections is everlasting and I'm scared to go but its a thrill you never can case whats going to happen next. We were talking about religion and I was kind of shocked because he never did try to have phone sex with me lol which is good. I always feel like I did something wrong or I'm not good enough for him, idk why maybe its those insecurities coming back from the beginning and they should not be coming anymore because I do know he does respect me as a person and does see me as a long-lasting friend. I asked if he could treat me like a homegirl if we see each other and he said no. Idk what to do. I feel like maybe the talk was kind of closure for us to end on good terms since he hasn't tried to contact me. He ended by saying he would talk to me soon. Such bs ugh. I told him I don't think I'm ever gonna get sick with him and he agreed with me that he felt the same. I over thinking and analyze things, my mind wont stop!

Dude isn't that into you. If he really liked you, you'd know. None of this reading into trivial bs.

I sometimes dont feel good enough when I think about him. Yea sometimes I do think hes just not that into me. An thats when I go off on him and get emotional and I dont want to do that but I do want to be like "If you dont feel anything towards me let me know and stop leading me on!". I have done that 100's of times so I just want it to be different. Like why does he need me? He doesnt need to come back to me. I'm starting to get angry ugh.

Why do you keep entertaining it all? Just go do you. You aren't helping matters any.

Try not to be a statistic and don't be a Sag female who derails everything because you lot go crazy when things don't go your way. You do it to yourselves, really. That said, go do you and stop letting him string you along. Duh.

Posted by Leeeebra
My take from life experience as well as universal understanding is: AS a woman, DO NOT guess, love is not guess work, he is either not into it, or he is not ready, or else you WILL know, he will make sure it is KNOWN, when there is any real movement in going forward. of course, you have to let him know you are interested, however womanly way you chose to show it. It's called common sense, astrology has very little to do with THAT.

Thiiiis.

I find it sad that women fall prey to the mentality that they have to guess and figure out games to see if a guy likes her. You will freaking know if he does or not. It's kinda obvious.

I understand, I asked him why he go ghost on me an he said it was because I "Bug out" on him I said I bug out on him because he goes ghost on me. I told him I still dont think he realizes theres more to me than the other girls he messes with him he said he does realize. I'm trying not to get emotional with him but I need to know if he does have some type of feelings for me or is he just not that into me but I'm trying to be fair and give him time to contact me.

goes ghost on me* typo sorry!

He doesn't give me much options, so I end up looking like the bad guy but I don't feel ok with just walking away AGAIN and without giving him a warning. Because if he does want me to be in his life ill be in the wrong but its not like he shows 100% that he does want me in his life. He doesn't want to be just friends and I don't think theres much hope in him changing anytime soon. He kept bringing up how O was m.i.a. for so long and I said I just had to work on myself. I asked if he thought about me and he said yea. Idk why he wants me around. Then when I'm around he gets content again.

Yea I'm going to, enough is enough. Thank you.

Posted by BadSag12
I understand, I asked him why he go ghost on me an he said it was because I "Bug out" on him I said I bug out on him because he goes ghost on me. I told him I still dont think he realizes theres more to me than the other girls he messes with him he said he does realize. I'm trying not to get emotional with him but I need to know if he does have some type of feelings for me or is he just not that into me but I'm trying to be fair and give him time to contact me.

Ooor, you can just assume he's not into you and be on your merry way. It'd keep you from going all crazy, stupid female on him.

Also, it doesn't matter if he goes all "ghost" on you or not. It's no excuse to act like that. Take some responsibility for your actions and quit blaming someone else.

Yeah, you should play Casper and disappear on this Libra. If he's into you, he'll come around and wonder where you are. When he does come around, don't give in, as sometimes us Libras come around to wonder why someone isn't paying attention to us. If you hang back even more, I believe, this will be a true test of if he's into you or not.

This is true of all people, but especially true of Libras.

Good luck!

I do get hurt easily, and when I do, I never forget about them. I would always think about it even if I had moved on.
I may bring it up sometimes, Idk why. LOL!
Maybe because I want the person who hurt me to make up for it. 😛

I told libra I loved him so he could leave me alone and I could get over him. Thinking he would run away from the word He responded 3 days later by saying that I didnt love him and I said you cant tell me how I feel he said yes I can and I told him I would leave him to think that. The libra charm kicked on and hes been real nice this past week. More open and his guard is down. I asked how much he loved me 1-10 and he said 5. And I know that seems low but to me that is A LOT of progress wheb it come to him since he shows no emotion and we haveb seeb eachother in a while. He said no matter what happens between us I will always belong to him and he owns me and not to give me cookie to anyone. Why is he so possesive? I am so confused on why he has changed so much. A little scary. I asked if he still didnt believe I loved him and he said no hes not a lovable person. Hes probaly just playing me and I'm being stupid. AGAIN.

when it comes to him since he shows no emotion and we have t seen each other in a while* ....

my cookie*

Sorry about the typos!

Were you dropped on your head as a child?

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Were you dropped on your head as a child?

Oooooo fireworks! No, wait... wrong forum. Dafuq you expecting from this?






Although I do have my own query about timestamps. In February, went off to say something. 3 days later, a response. A new attitude for the next week and then boom, it's July. Considering "this past week" is referenced. Did it take from February to July to start this scenario, or did it take that long to say something here about it? Probably the latter but I'm just picking at it, anyway.

Can't personally help with the guy. Sorry. 0:-)

This is all a week worth of things thats happened told all at once. Hes been texting me everyday since so thats why its so much. We just started back communicating. I unfriended him on all social networks. Facebook/Twitter. He messaged me on Facebook gave me his number and I knew I shouldnt have texted him and used it but you know how that goes. I was suppose to see him yesterday because he kept saying how we havent seen eachother in a while (about 6 months) and he wanted to see me. Told me he didnt work wednesday and he would be where I was. I found out his brother came into town last night but instead of him telling me that he never showed. Maybe this is my chance to try an get away.

Let him go. You'll know when we like you because, if nothing else, we won't make a plan with you and not show. If we don't show, you'll know before hand because we will let you know if something came up or attempt to make plans later. Case in point, I was suppose to meet up with a girl on St Patty's Day and because I'm an idiot choose to stay out late the night before. Of course I was about 30 minutes late and we were on different buses for a bar crawl. I texted her throughout the whole day and made plans to meet her later that night at the last bar. If I didn't care, I wouldn't have bothered at all and not made the later plans.

You just keep playing into his games. You are the backup, at best. If you're cool with that then that is fine, but I think it's obvious you are not. Plenty of fish in the sea.

So when he texts me just ignore him?

Bingo!