It's okay to disappear from Libras, right?

We've all read about the disappearing acts of Libras, sure. ... But I was just wondering how they feel about it when someone just disappears from their radar? (With last communication being good. No falling out or anything awkward.)

Can someone just tell me that Libras are not shaded out by this behavior? I mean, I'll be back in his radar later. Just not now...I got some things I'm focusing on.
When I am in his radar, I make it seem like he's got my undivided attention and he enjoys it. But when I go off into my distant Me Time streaks, I just suddenly disappear without warning.

I am a Cancer- Sun & Mars, although I think my Gemini-Venus makes me flakey sometimes and capable of not bothering to contact/see someone for like a month if that's just what I feel like doing or was deemed rational by my Virgo-Moon. It's just that there's a small voice in my head that sometimes nags at me, calling me a phony for supposedly being loyal and totally into someone, but then just switching to a cold, don't-feel-like-bothering-with-that -type of attitude towards the very person/situation I was so into (and still am) but currently just too lazy to act on it. I don't want to feel guilty/phony/insincere/selfish/shady.

Posted by tiziani
It's ok if things have been left on good terms. The one thing a Libra can't stand is leaving an affair unresolved.

Sounds like you'll be good though.

yea we like to leave on good, resolved terms if it is someone we really care about

He doesn't seem to be very interested in you...love the attention when you are around but doesn't chase you when you aren't...out of sight out of mind.

So why not, do your thing.

Out of sight out of mind

If someone disappears it's fine, it just shows me he/she doesn't care about me enough, which means I don't have to wait for him/her to come back. I usually move on pretty quickly to other interesting people or things.

Someone who loves me needs to give me some attention daily. I'm not sure if that's my Libra sun, Pisces moon, or the fact I'm a Libra/Scorpio cusp!

Like libra sun said, out of sight, out of mind 🙂

Posted by LibraX
If someone disappears it's fine, it just shows me he/she doesn't care about me enough, which means I don't have to wait for him/her to come back. I usually move on pretty quickly to other interesting people or things.

Someone who loves me needs to give me some attention daily. I'm not sure if that's my Libra sun, Pisces moon, or the fact I'm a Libra/Scorpio cusp!

Like libra sun said, out of sight, out of mind 🙂

^^^^ THIS ^^^^

Disappear on a Libra if you want...but they'll be gone when you come back.

I think Libra would rather you speak on it then to just do it. Although they may disappear without notice. They still may check in if the terms weren't for anything bad. I think Libra respects it more wheb you let them know especially if they are into to you. It is totallly understandable needing to regroup.

Posted by crunchy

Posted by LibraX
If someone disappears it's fine, it just shows me he/she doesn't care about me enough, which means I don't have to wait for him/her to come back. I usually move on pretty quickly to other interesting people or things.

Someone who loves me needs to give me some attention daily. I'm not sure if that's my Libra sun, Pisces moon, or the fact I'm a Libra/Scorpio cusp!

Like libra sun said, out of sight, out of mind 🙂

^^^^ THIS ^^^^

Disappear on a Libra if you want...but they'll be gone when you come back.

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^ this

Go right ahead. If he's disappered on you, chances are he either wont notice or wont care and appreciate the space. If he liked you he'll come back, if not then your doing yourself a favor.

I'm a libra with a capricorn. Capricorn ALWAYS disappears when I need him or whenever we fight.
I hate it! -_-
why prolong the problem when you can solve it right there right now?
No, I don't like people disappearing. It makes me think that they are cowards and that they won't be there for me.
I don't leave someone when they need me, I always make an effort to be there for everyone. :">

That's how I see it though. 🙂

I hate it when my Virgo man does a disappearing act! It is just rude...and if would tell me when he needs space or time...fine! Though I really want daily attention, I can understand the need for distance at times. Newly dating a Virgo...never have before.