The other woman to libra CONTINUATION pt.3

This topic was created in the Libra forum by LanyeceMingLee on Saturday, January 12, 2013 and has 8 replies.

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@LanyeceMingLee
13 YearsPisces

Asked him to just tell me the truth.so he tells me it was him but he swears up nd down he didn't cheat.or go over her house ect..so now at this point im feed up with the lies so IM LIKE IM DONE so he called me.nd texted me to plead I
His case..his excuse was he didn't think I loved him nd he has a problem with lying but he can get help for it and he's sorry ect...so im like listen im done im to good for this I cook, clean your clothes, be there for you physically nd. Emotionally nd a yu do is lie to me like I deserve better.so that was like last thursday nd he texted saying he miss.me.or small text.like that "not really saying much" just "I miss yu" i text him why did you hurt me like this..he textes back saying "what im talking about" im like wtf yu mean what am I talking about yu keep hurting me!!! Then he never texted back..its been 3days since then nd he's giving me the silent treatment like ive hurt him..nd im not texting him because I feel like I didn't do anything ..so now my question is...is he not trying nomore.because he.knows he's not really getting a divorce...or is he gnoring me because he doesn't wanna deal with the fact that he hurt me...or because someone else maybe the person he was texting got his attention —

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@LanyeceMingLee
13 YearsPisces

This is my.FIRST time ever using this site im not exactly surrey how to work it that's why its in 3parts because it says I used the maximum latters to write it..idk how to directly respond to your message so hopefully you'll see it but yes your very right..I was always the type of person that never understood how a person could mess with a married man, being I seen it first hand with my mom..but its soooooo much harder when you didn't kno he was married nd your feeling are already involved nd he's telling you all these promise about a divorce.but yes it is wayy to much for me to deal with hopefully soon I'll get over it but at the.moment im not ..

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@ReinaDelMar23
13 YearsCancer

Jeebus, this is messy. I know you are in your feeling with this guy but cut him loose. If he cared about you like that, he would have went through with it.

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@ReinaDelMar23
13 YearsCancer

However, SweetLibra's words ring true in the sense that you say you deserve better, yet your actions show you don't believe that at this time.

As for him, well strictly answering your final questions in terms of him being a Libra... yes he is probably not answering your texts because he is coping with the fact that he hurt you and probably has a tough time accepting (if he ever will) what a liar he has become.

+1

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

It's hard to have any pity for someone's sob story when they get involved with a married individual...

I just can't believe that people can't learn from the past. HOW long have scenarios like this happened throughout the ages? And how often do they end up like this? You'd think you'd learn and know wtf to watch out for.

A taken person is taken. The end. No need to chase. If you feel you HAVE to chase these people, go see a psychiatrist. You've got some serious problems to work out in your head. Especially if you think you deserve any pity for chasing people in relationships.

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@playswitfire83
16 YearsLibra

I doubt anybody here can tell you why he's not texting you but what difference does it make? You told him you're done. Mean what say and say what you mean.