Scorpios have double standards

Scorpios have double standards

heard about it before. They can cheat; not you. God forbid, the revenge

yea, but its another thing to have to deal with it, their ego emasses superiority, the women bounce from submission(to you)to flat out predominant, and its annoying. With them their motto is trust me and everything. will be fine, but you gotta wait for me to change, nope cant do it. And they will rush the hell out of you and pressure you, they invinted pressure and challenging, and that doesnt mean they respond well to it. You cant give them the silent treatment cuz thats their thing, when u do they invade your space which in my eyes is highly intolerable.

they must know things at all times and everything makes them paranoid. they are never wrong, and its worst than aries self righteous attitude of the know it all thing. Their attitude is god like in the sense of I am not wrong cuz im me. I saw one scorpio get mad at the car company for trying to get his car, tho he didnt think he was wrong for being behind And god forbid if you call them out. just be ready for shouting then pouting then the most annoying stare outside of capricorns

They do things without consent, why, cuz its their perogative but its amazing how they paint the perfect illusion of you having control, that is just their way of gaining control cuz they want you to be the most aloof and ignorant person. They have a yearning for mates, they dont mind being alone cuz they have burned so many bridges that they have no choice. They have sneaky ways of going about things and lie for heaven knows what, the games are not tests, just controlling ways of seeing where you are and what you are doing

the illusion of control, when you do attempt to take it, they snatch it back and throw fits reminiscent of cancers, they dont want a man that takes control, they want a man of masks who can paint an illusion back, rather than be real. They are the flirtiest of signs and think subtle is secret and its not, esp. when you can read between the lines

The women lovee to mold men into their liking thinking that if he bends to them everything will be fine. That she will have peace, but she wants that intensity and will go forth to seek it. And cheating? my god. With the men, ive noticed its worse cuz they are the ultimate users, and its not a you are mine thing, its mroe of entitlement. Scorpios think they are entitled to everything and they have no patience, just a shut mouth. They are the most intolerable sign of all and a sanke isnt as sneaky as them.


they can be loving but they feel emotional games is far more important. And the women try sex for the hell of it. They lie so much and so consitently your memory has to be better than theirs to catch it. They want you there just for their security, and it might not be emotional. Alot of them have multiple relationships and draw you in for lord knows what.

And that mystery? It goes like this, silence, stares, nasty sexual text messages followed by innocent pushing away from you, then the sex, then some arguments, crying, leave me alones, more silence, and distance

U wanna know how to keep a scorpio? Walk out their life, then you will find out how they truly felt. Sex is everything to the women, the men just do it for the fucc of it, but the women use it for numerous reasons. My advice to you all, esp. libra men, if you are with a scorpio for affairs, keep it that way, cuz they can run a nigga nutz. Im burning out now
so lets see where this heads

I will say this, im doing me after this, scorpios are a handful they are like kids who are looking for direction but to hateful to accept it

Dating disasters for Venus
descending order

1. Pluto
2. Mars
3. Uranus
4. Jupiter

aka

1.Scorpio
2.Aries
3.Aquarius
4.Sagittarius

is this about Miss Scorp?

Posted by prettyladii
is this about Miss Scorp?

no, widespread general. OP and other Lib males are speaking of their personal experiences.

Posted by acrossTheGround

Posted by spica

Posted by prettyladii
is this about Miss Scorp?

no, widespread general. OP and other Lib males are speaking of their personal experiences.

I dont get it.

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Miss Scorp is a DXPnet user.. she was dating a libra male

this has nothing to do with miss scorp, this has to do with my scorp and my experiences with them. Esp. the last two women i dealt with since they are scorpios

And I thought Libras didn't have any emotions! Wow, noone is immune to the devastating Scorpio sting!LOL!

Libras are softies,(and I mean this in a good way). They are lovers, not fighters. I get along with them in general. How can anyone not get along with Libras? They are social butterflies and can make friends with anyone. They are very well liked and popular. However, if you do something bad to a Scorpio they will do you bad ten times more. We Scorpios only hurt people who hurt us first. Scorpios donot go around stinging people. They only react with a mighty sting if you are threatening them in any way shape or form.

Posted by Cinnamon Girl
Libras are softies,(and I mean this in a good way). They are lovers, not fighters. I get along with them in general. How can anyone not get along with Libras? They are social butterflies and can make friends with anyone. They are very well liked and popular. However, if you do something bad to a Scorpio they will do you bad ten times more. We Scorpios only hurt people who hurt us first. Scorpios donot go around stinging people. They only react with a mighty sting if you are threatening them in any way shape or form.

uuuuummmmmmmmmmmmm maybe mature ones, but everyone has to mature, i cant just sit back and say i dont have a fighter's mentality cuz where im from my environment would suck up anyone who wasnt a fighter, i survived it, but i know you didnt mean this in an offensive way i just hate the lover not fighter mentality we are always coined with cuz im not just a doormat and i have seen sOME libras do just that. Im a man, and in a man's world there is no room for a friendly sunny person, not as much opportunity as it is for a realistic person with goals, men compete and you cant just readily befriend any male cuz half the time they are sizing you up so you gotta draw lines, maybe im conditioned to think like that, maybe its what ive learned thru experienc.

now the mature things, men and women, they tend to be users but this goes outside of astrology cuz anyone can be a users but for the sake of topic its just something i noticed, every scorpio is different, but the ones ive dealt with romantically(and its been alot rather anyone on here belives it or not)that have panned out the same way, silly mind games, extra stress and i dont react well to other peoples shit a scorpio can only hurt you with what they know about you, privacy makes them suspicious yet they are private rather they lie to quetions or flat out tell you its not your business, you will never know the truth unless you find it out yourself with them.

Posted by acrossTheGround

Posted by Cinnamon Girl
And I thought Libras didn't have any emotions! Wow, noone is immune to the devastating Scorpio sting!LOL!

Not even Scorpios themselves. Yea...the whole "scorpio will sting themselves to death before submitting"
In matters of the heart, I look more toward Venus placement...in my case, I am the Scorpio and she was the Libra.
As much as I hated to do so, I ended it instead of submitting to her repugnant need to act like she was a teenage band groupie skank and let her string me along

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its not hard for libras to get caught in their web, its magnetic and we libras blissfully follow along unware of the deadily seduction and lies and secrets. MY venus is in scorpio too, so is mercury and i have a pluto in the first house

But the on thing i feel like is a problem with the libra/scorpio connection is that scorpios are stable people looking for a deep need for change, libras are people who change for the sake of finding stability, also SEX

Libras, no matter how hard we fight it, tie alot of things into sex, where a scorpio will yield if for manipulation we will see it as a way for the relationship to start or grow

Posted by Pride of 0ctober

Posted by Cinnamon Girl
Libras are softies,(and I mean this in a good way). They are lovers, not fighters. I get along with them in general. How can anyone not get along with Libras? They are social butterflies and can make friends with anyone. They are very well liked and popular. However, if you do something bad to a Scorpio they will do you bad ten times more. We Scorpios only hurt people who hurt us first. Scorpios donot go around stinging people. They only react with a mighty sting if you are threatening them in any way shape or form.

uuuuummmmmmmmmmmmm maybe mature ones, but everyone has to mature, i cant just sit back and say i dont have a fighter's mentality cuz where im from my environment would suck up anyone who wasnt a fighter, i survived it, but i know you didnt mean this in an offensive way i just hate the lover not fighter mentality we are always coined with cuz im not just a doormat and i have seen sOME libras do just that. Im a man, and in a man's world there is no room for a friendly sunny person, not as much opportunity as it is for a realistic person with goals, men compete and you cant just readily befriend any male cuz half the time they are sizing you up so you gotta draw lines, maybe im conditioned to think like that, maybe its what ive learned thru experienc.

now the mature things, men and women, they tend to be users but this goes outside of astrology cuz anyone can be a users but for the sake of topic its just something i noticed, every scorpio is different, but the ones ive dealt with romantically(and its been alot rather anyone on here belives it or not)that have panned out the same way, silly mind games, extra stress and i dont react well to other peoples shit a scorpio can only hurt you with what they know about you, privacy makes them suspicious yet they are private rather they lie to quetions or flat out tell you its not your business, you will never know the truth unless you find it out yourself with them.

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Lovers make the best fighters my friend.

wow lol, well im speaking from exp. tho i know that was not aimied at me im just speaking about scorpios i've known and dealt with on a personal/romantic plane

I think this is all more proof that the Male Libra/Female Scorpio relationship is a power struggle combination.

Posted by MegStings
Give five years to someone and do everything they fucking ask... It still isn't good enough. It never could have been I finally realized it and wouldn't take him back after the 6th time he broke up with me. I'm the bad person. Ask if he fucked my friend (she told me he did after I already had the suspicion)... He flips out and leaves me at home out of town with no wheels and a newborn baby... Then on top of that Mr. Libra will head out of town for two weeks at a time and fuck everything he can in camp. Then come home and not let me go for lunch with a gf. Finally I turn everything off can't talk or even look at him. I finally gained some fucking balls and decided to do what was best for my daughter and I and be done with his shit. It feels fucking awesome. Now all I can hope is I will feel free again one day.

Just to let you know tho I do not think all Libras are like this. Maybe it's his venus in Scorpio...

I feel much better now.

damn, im sorry to hear that, my venus is in scorpio along with other things, i never did a female like that b4, i beleive all relationships will be unequal in someway cuz in times of distress you have to be what your partner isnt at the time i.e. calm vs. distraught

venus in scorpio with libras gives us this "cant be wrong" feelingwhich kinda explains the flipping out after you asked him a question that backed him against the wall, flipping out, yelling, walking and storming out is a defense mechanism for libras with venus/in scorpio


you did the bes thing tho

Posted by aquilascorpiusfemina
Pride Of October-

But I kind of felt offended on how you generalized " Scorpios have double standards".
I am a Scorpio female and I would kill myself if I ever acted with double standards towards anyone!!!
Double Standards does not exist in my nature.

This makes you the exception, not the rule.

I see where you are coming from about making the generalization but double standards is one thing that I am afraid is correctly associated with Scorpio. To be fair, there are things that are correctly associated with Libra's even when used in generalization. Such as going cold or detatching when someone confronts us with heavy negative emotions.

Sweetheart, a Scorpio can knock a Libra off balance with their tale!

Posted by Cinnamon Girl
Sweetheart, a Scorpio can knock a Libra off balance with their tale!

lol

Posted by aquilascorpiusfemina
Pride Of October-

Well, I feel pretty bad that you have had bad experiences from Scorpio Females. They were just fucked up females that happened to be Scorpios!

But I kind of felt offended on how you generalized " Scorpios have double standards".
I am a Scorpio female and I would kill myself if I ever acted with double standards towards anyone!!!
Double Standards does not exist in my nature. On the contrary, I am the kind of person that has never had bad intentions towards anyone. I always want the best for anyone that I know and loved ones.

I am a very loyal woman and way too serious;When I love,I love with all my heart and mind . I don't like mind games; why does a relationship have to start with silly love games, I ask?

All I can say about Scorpio females,though, is that we are very misunderstood. Well actually, Scorpios, in general are misunderstood!!

You sound like my best friend. I could see her writing this and it sums her up nicely.

That being said, I think she feels like she escaped a noose with her Libra-ex. She would probably agree that their whole relationship was a power struggle. They both gave the wrong type of love for either of them to be happy.

Posted by MegStings
Give five years to someone and do everything they fucking ask... It still isn't good enough. It never could have been I finally realized it and wouldn't take him back after the 6th time he broke up with me. I'm the bad person. Ask if he fucked my friend (she told me he did after I already had the suspicion)... He flips out and leaves me at home out of town with no wheels and a newborn baby... Then on top of that Mr. Libra will head out of town for two weeks at a time and fuck everything he can in camp. Then come home and not let me go for lunch with a gf. Finally I turn everything off can't talk or even look at him. I finally gained some fucking balls and decided to do what was best for my daughter and I and be done with his shit. It feels fucking awesome. Now all I can hope is I will feel free again one day.

Just to let you know tho I do not think all Libras are like this. Maybe it's his venus in Scorpio...

I feel much better now.

(((MegStings)))

Sorry this happened to you. I am glad you are out of it.

from "Love on a rotten day"

"You know how you shiver with fear at the idea of doing something extremely dangerous, but feel compelled to proceed? Falling for a scorpio is just like that shudder of terrified excitement. The legendary magnetism of this sign is real. A scorpio in love is erotically powerful, amazingly cunning and totally dangerous.
Remember that old saying about love and war? For Scorpio love IS war. Scorpios don't play, they strategize. They don't flirt; they obsess. They frequently use sex to seduce and control. Don't let the so called —sunny?? ones fool you. Inside every Scorpio there's a mass murder waiting to happen.And they don't do moderation.

Cutting off all contact is the only way to get rid of a Scorpio. Even one that's dumped you and is swearing loudly to everyone how much he hates you and wishes you every disease and disaster known, won't stop calling. Or showing up at mutually known clubs. Or —accidentally?? appearing anyplace you go to. You must ignore this. Don't get drawn into a verbal or physical battle. Don't return the occasional phone call. Don't fall for the appearance of friendship. Don't allow your Scorpio ex ANY space in your life whatsoever.
If you do get dumped, he will drag their new lover-victim along as witness to your public humiliation. This is the enigma of Scorpio. Pluto, the planet of destruction, bestows a taste of meaningless cruelty in even the best-hearted Scorpio. They remind me of Beast, from The Beauty and the Beast: no matter how much you scrub them up, they still (emotionally) eat with their hands,
The Scorpio reputation for vengeance is fully justified, and unenlightened ones can wait years for the opportunity to shock and humiliate you or try to ruin your reputation. The enlightened ones will just tell all your mutual friends about your nonexistent boobs or tweezers-size penis and nonexistent spine. If you want to get even you must prepare to be as nasty.
You can also take comfort (while you??re talking therapy)in knowing that Scorpios are victims of their 5 minute rule. While you sweated at making the relationship work, Mr. Scorpio coulnd??t give give 5 minutes worth of real effort. Once it's over and you found yourself a decent Leo or a faithful Capricorn the rule instantly reverses, and your scorpio ex will think about you every five minutes — for the rest of his life "