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Queenscorpio
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19 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

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***How quickly do the scorps move on from past relationships??***
Instantly...

We are extremist. When we love you, there is no greater love, if you have us as a friend, there is none more true and who will truly have your back, hold your hand and stand by you right or wrong. But.....

If we are through with you we can turn off like a faucet. However, we are capable of being "friends only" with someone who we used to be romantically involved with, but almost never will we go back to being romantically involved after it is over.

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Sola
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19 Years1,000+ PostsLibra

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GT..i have no idea about what goes on between me and Scorps, i mean its not like i actively seek them out. There?s just a magnetic attraction, its the most powerful thing i have ever felt..and these past 8 months or so have been unreal with them. With this guy in particular, there?s just a "thing", i dont even have the words to start describing it..maybe he?s the yin to my yang QS, i know exactly what you mean!!

When he came round to tell me about the split, he said he was "more or less" over the split, and as far as his side of the story goes, it was his idea to break up. But i have to know for sure he?s ready in his mind to move on without ever considering the past. Obviously what im posting here are my own ideas, he has no idea i am thinking about him in this way...he spoke and i listened. I did txt him to say that i was happy to see him and that maybe another day we could do something...but he didnt get back to me. Besides, im going away in 3 weeks for a while, and i hope he uses the summer to get to grips with himself, and when i come back hopefully he?ll be ready...or maybe he?ll be with someone else??

He knows im going, so should i tell him b4 i leave that im interested in him romanitcally? He?s so beautiful, its unbearable. But he?s still living with the ex until he gets his new place mid-month, and i am being eaten by jealousy...never had this before and i dont like it one little bit. 😢
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alcheme
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18 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

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"***How quickly do the scorps move on from past relationships??***
Instantly..."

I would not necesarily agree. Though, I suppose it would matter how the question and your response was intended.

It took me atleast 7 years to get over my relationship with my ex-husband. That being said, there were "issues" involved. It is not that I would have gone back to him, under any circumstance, but it did take 7 years to get to a point that I was truly ready for another realy relationship and love again. Not it stopped me from starting another one. I thought that I had moved on, but, in retrospect, given the lack of passion and emotional attachment in the relationship, I would have to say that was some subconscious way of making myself unavailable for a real relationship or love. Something I realized when contemplating my lack of distinct emotional response when he cheated on me. On some level, I just didn't care. A disturbing realization...

How long did it take me to move on physcially? Not too damn long. How long did it take me to move on emotionally? Too damn long.

But, I chalk it up to a good growing experience, atleast I hope...