What now—

I posted this on another thread, but its needs urgent attention!


Well, a while ago (about 6 weeks) i met a Scorp guy and we met up and stuff, but it didnt go anywhere because he had a girlfriend of 4 years who he was in the process of splitting with. Anyway, hadnt seen or heard from him at all, except some random texts at like 5am when he was drunk!!, but last night he text saying he would like to talk to me, not sure if i wanted to...but he had something he wanted to explain to me. So, i was out for dinner but he came round afterwards and told me he hadnt been in touch because of all the stuff going on, that he was moving out of the flat they share and that they were now actually split but still friends. I was like, i dont really know you well enough to need an explanation of your business, but thanks for being honest etc. He is without a doubt THE most gorgeous guy i have ever seen in my life, i could possibly cry just thinking about it. But, i dont know if he meant he was ready to start something with me (but its far too soon to jump into another realtionship), or whether he was just clearing the air. He was asking if i had a boyfriend, how many bf?s ive had etc, so he?s left me confused!! How should i go about this whole thing...i know i want to be with him, but its such a delicate time.

thats not helpful...c?mon, im serious!!

I?ll tap you with my car mister!!! Get going with some real tips for moi!

Yeah, its definitely a mark, and i had the brains not to rsvp to those texts!! He has split with the girl in question, but i can understand the need for them to be on good terms if they have to divide a house between them (and a dog)...been there and done that myself. However, in his favour, he did opt to speak with me face to face as opposed to a quick sms, so that is a major point in my book. Do i want to get to know him, well, of course, he has come back full force for a reason surely...like i said, i dont know him well enough for him to be so interested in explaining his relationship status to me..but he did. He is interested in my background, family and friends etc. And of course he is controlling...he is a scorpio..duh!!! 🙂

And his utter beauty should be illegal...honestly.

You are a smart ass, but i kinda like you...damn!!

No, im a fan of animals my friend, but you get my drift surely?!! Of course im a drama queen, but the drama stays here...it doesnt spill over into my "real" life..!!

Relationship jumping...eh no, he wanted to be with me earlier in the year, but obviously i want up for being the "other" woman. So he has ended it and come back to me...hence the confusion and my posting here.

Bling, standard fare?? Never enters into my conversation the old "how?s your father"? 🙂...!!

let him cool his heels for a while.give the guy some time to sort himself out.otherwise you might end up burning yourself.scorpios are very notorious in dealing with past relationships,be careful,very careful.

seriously sola,i have seen it happen infront of me,and have been entagled in all that past relationship mess,it almost cost me my current relationship.
although i have forgiven him,but still,my friend was very immature in handling his past,present relationships.which caused much pain to others and also to him.

Yeah, heehee, but im not laughing!!

1) Give HIM time...sorry i havent heard from the random in a long time, he initiated the contact, and although im here questioning motives etc...im well aware that he?s in no place to dive into anything new...i dont want him right now, but he has potential to be part of the future picture.

2) Bling...no, i dont want to just "get my end away", meh...you have such an eloquent way with words young man.

3) He didnt wander offwith someone else...he just wasnt available to me at that time. What?s the real issue...that was the original question!!

And lastly, my bed is only waiting for me (and the cat sometimes)!!

Baaaad joke Bling!!! 🙂

Yeah, it caused a slight chortle...!

drr

drr, or grrrrr??!!

Dont flatter his bad jokes Capgirl!!

It makes mine to think of Bling as Mr. Whippy...the jokes and the hair style e match that way!!

drr is my style saying grrr

gotcha!

uhm??

uhm..i want scorp man?!

Are you a mentally challenged tiger? Drrr sounds like you're drooling.





well it sounds like that to you,not to me,perception is what it takes.

uhm..i want scorp man?!



ag man,you want him so bad?

He didnt wander off

My father is fine by the way...how is yours??!

eish,you sleep with your cat?

No!! He has his own bed in the hall, but sometims he tries to sneak into the room when i leave my door open.

ag

i don't like either

no ag is a general term in my lingo,to convey something like a random expletive

Who the hell is the victim here?? Every man for himself thanks very much...its not fault her man wanted to leave her...for me or anyone!!

For your info, we were in a perfectly sober state when we met...it wasnt til the next "date" taht he?fessed up to having a gf. So i was like, ok...lets leave it here shall we?!! He said no, he wanted to leave her then for me, but i wasnt having it. So, he has finished it now. Maybe he only wanted to appease his guilty conscience...i dont knowwhat he?s trying to do, and true...i dont think he really knows either.

I have beauty and brains🙂

Columbo..i hate that show!!

I have beauty and brains




prove it

i mean we need the proof.show it😛

I posted my pic once before...you?re too late!! Bling has seen it, im not sure who else...

I have a masters degree in Literary Studies too 🙂

haahaa notso,just trying😛

I posted my pic once before...you?re too late!! Bling has seen it, im not sure who else...





drr why does bling always come in the issues where i venture.it is almost like bling is me,me is bling,are we interchangeable?

We werent "together" at any time..arrgghh!!! We met on Friday, went out on Sunday...end of very short story, although we did spend that whole day together. This is what i mean..i dont understand why he made such a fuss of wanting me to know that he was finihed with her. I essentially dont know him, ceased all contact after that shitty day, and now he?s back wth a vengeance. And loyalty to who? Me or her, or both?

And what about the bed in the hall...do you want to be my lodger?

No offence Sola...but aren't you ALWAYS having trouble with Scorpio men? I personally think you should try out another sign....it obviously is't working out over here with us lot...There is also another one somewhere always having issues..Irishlibra or something..

"I have a masters degree in Literary Studies too"




how does it prove you are intelligent?

irishlibra,jesus,she is beyond repair

LOL..

right, the pic has been posted...you have 60 seconds and then it will be removed!!

im the blonde 😉

Wttttshhhhh!!

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no pic
what the bleep?

Bling said she looked like Stephnie Dean from Hollyoakes....if you don't live in the uK, you won't know what the hell that is..

but atleast we now know you are a blonde.
uhm uhm

Bling said she looked like Stephnie Dean from Hollyoakes....if you don't live in the uK, you won't know what the hell that is..

exactly!!