so my libra ex says she loves me is she for real

sum might know my history with my libra ex she is the only girl I can say I truly love but I know it can't be.. It was alot of drama between her and me and her exes.. I don't know why libras can't let go of there exes they make it really hard for people to love them.. Any ways we stop talking to each other for mouths bc we both knew it was to hard on each other.. we would only contact each other on holidays just small chat.. But now she been calling for no reason.. Yesterday we talk normal friend chat.. Out of no were she text me i still love u.. I was shock and happy we had a long chat.. cums to find out she is back with her ex which i knew would happen.. he likes her alot and like all libras she can't stand being single.. I since she is only with him bc he is all she know besides me.. she not the normal social libra she has like 3 friends and don't go out alot.. she say, she is not really with him but pretends to be.. to make him happy I don't know if she is gaming me or not.. I told her I could never get with her unless he was out of the picture but we could be friends.. or should we not be friends what should this virgo do..
her bday is 10/15/88 3am new york city mine is 9/3/87 10.46am new york city

I love libras haha

that was helpful thanks lol

Love needs compatibility, maturity and responsiblity.
Time will tell if you're compatible. Grow responsible, and have amature/healthy relationship.

Love, infatuation and adoration can be mixed up in a moment of time.
"Can't stand being single" is not an act of love, but a void in the ego.

It looks like she has some work to do. And not even ready for that yet.

To begin, you must define what you want from her.

'Friends' is only something that happens when both parties have moved past the feelings for each other... It will never happen,,

Now that you guys are not going out anymore, it doesnt really matter what she does, and you are better off letting it go, and not worrying about who she goes out with... that she still loves you... nothing wrong with that, its normal... but it doesnt mean you can successfully be together...

it all sounds a bit too complicated to me, and if it was me, Id just walk away and make a clean break... plenty of other girls out there 🙂

However, after re-reading what you say... it seems that you start off saying you know it cant be.. and then end by saying if she stopped seeing the other guy you would give her another chance... as spica points out... what do you actually 'want'...

I still love you...but I'll fuck this guy instead....

Come on VK, you've spoke about this chick often enough and she doesnt sound genuine to me at all, in fact you have dist her heaps!!! I love all my exs in a way, I love the fact that they still want me!!!! Is that plain enough?