Spineless libra breakup

I know we were only dating for a few months but we spent a lot of time together. And he texts the breakup and says we can be friends. Wow. Then 5 min later changed his facebook status to in a relationship. With his old friends ex and we ran into her a week ago and he led me on until they were a sure thing. And couldn't even tell me in person. And friends?! Really?! It really hurt and wasn't "fair" at all

Haha no thanks you guys have the emotional depth of a puddle

Some puddles are deeper than you think.

Haha I like it

You just weren't the one. Was there talk of you guys settling down? Were you guys in a committed relationship?

The sad part is you weren't the one for him. The great part is you weren't the one for him. This means there is someone (probably less of a douchebag) who is perfect for you. You are now free to go find them.

I suspect in a few months, you won't even remember this guy.

Posted by madaboutlove
Haha no thanks you guys have the emotional depth of a puddle

LOL My Libra says this. He calls himself Puddle, and me Ocean. He says, "Hey Ocean.. it's me, Puddle. Don't think so deep!"

Just a little reminder for my Pisces ass to lighten up a little and not drive myself crazy with hidden meaning or nuance, to just take something at face value. And relax LOL Cuz even though HIS brain goes 300 mph and he looks at angles and scenarios incessantly.. his is on a more logical, detached plane.. whereas mine is on a more emotional and feeling plane. If that makes sense lol

Posted by little_sparrow
You just weren't the one. Was there talk of you guys settling down? Were you guys in a committed relationship?

The sad part is you weren't the one for him. The great part is you weren't the one for him. This means there is someone (probably less of a douchebag) who is perfect for you. You are now free to go find them.

I suspect in a few months, you won't even remember this guy.

I like this a lot.

I've missed you, sparrow!! Glad you're back!

Very true sparrow. I've felt true love before and that wasn't it.

Suckin whaaa? Lol

Yea I told him I wasn't cool as friends

Experienced and on to the next victim

eeek....what a donkey that guy is. Good riddance for your sake. Really. good you found out now, than later.

Yea really really lame ass

Awww thanks aquagirl 🙂

Totally right. I'm not sure if he considered me his girlfriend but we weerent sleeping with anyone else and we spent lots of time together. So it was still a nasty breakup in my eyes

he got more balls then me, i would just mailed a letter and changed my number now thats how u dump somebody

He knows I'm not stalker material. Too much pride for that shiz

So I hear they are madly in love gushing over each other on facebook. Makes me sick.

No I refreshed the same post on accident. What do you mean by really now?

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Posted by madaboutlove
Haha no thanks you guys have the emotional depth of a puddle

LOL My Libra says this. He calls himself Puddle, and me Ocean. He says, "Hey Ocean.. it's me, Puddle. Don't think so deep!"

Just a little reminder for my Pisces ass to lighten up a little and not drive myself crazy with hidden meaning or nuance, to just take something at face value. And relax LOL Cuz even though HIS brain goes 300 mph and he looks at angles and scenarios incessantly.. his is on a more logical, detached plane.. whereas mine is on a more emotional and feeling plane. If that makes sense lol

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Nefer!

Good to see you! ((Nefer))) did you guys get back together?

🙂

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Posted by madaboutlove
Haha no thanks you guys have the emotional depth of a puddle

LOL My Libra says this. He calls himself Puddle, and me Ocean. He says, "Hey Ocean.. it's me, Puddle. Don't think so deep!"

Just a little reminder for my Pisces ass to lighten up a little and not drive myself crazy with hidden meaning or nuance, to just take something at face value. And relax LOL Cuz even though HIS brain goes 300 mph and he looks at angles and scenarios incessantly.. his is on a more logical, detached plane.. whereas mine is on a more emotional and feeling plane. If that makes sense lol

Nefer!

Good to see you! ((Nefer))) did you guys get back together?

🙂

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Hey babes ((hugs))

No, we're not back together, per se. He's trying though, pretty much bending over backwards to try proving he's worth another shot. I'm moving slower than him (always have haha) and I won't move faster than my real emotions allow (haha, my Tau Moon/Mars FTW!) Until I truly feel good about it, and feel I can trust him to be truthful, we won't get back together.. he's not hooked me back in yet, but he's at least got me talking to him again - which is an improvement. lol

It's that damn Libra charm *glaring and looking around*.. my kryptonite!

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Posted by Pride of 0ctober
he got more balls then me, i would just mailed a letter and changed my number now thats how u dump somebody

Showing zero initiative by refusing face-to-face discussion...then changing phone numbers solely on account of the breakup? I doubt if balls are present at all for that matter.

You could be using sarcasm, I suppose. I hope that's what it is.

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my balss are always present, open wide and you'd see and no i meant it, letters and changing the number, save the tears for weddings and chick flicks

Posted by madaboutlove
I know we were only dating for a few months but we spent a lot of time together. And he texts the breakup and says we can be friends. Wow. Then 5 min later changed his facebook status to in a relationship. With his old friends ex and we ran into her a week ago and he led me on until they were a sure thing. And couldn't even tell me in person. And friends?! Really?! It really hurt and wasn't "fair" at all

The use of "spineless" is perfect for the title. An immature libra male is exactly that word. They are too cowardly to communicate their true feelings and pathetic to be alone so they secure a relationship before leaving the present one. The only reason he did it so cowardly, via text, is due to the guilty conscience. He was already cheating on you with the other girl and didn't have the courage to come out clean about his infidelity. lol. Psh, as if any cheater does. He wanted a clean break from you w/o you breaking his face or creating a fuss about the break-up or finding out he cheated on you. He secured his relationship and then left. Just remember that he wasn't a catch to begin with. The sooner he cheated on you and left you, the sooner he will cheat on her and leave her too. I just hope the other girl knows what he's done. If I'm the other girl, I would want to know what I'm getting myself into. I would never accept that behaviour. After all, if you date a man that cheats on his gf, then you are dating a man that cheats on his gf 😉

Lucky you that you discovered his true colours sooner than later. Imagine being married to a lying, cheating douche bag :O