Stubborn Libra male?

Ive made quite a few posts on this Libra guy situation over the past few months and just as I thought I was over it..I'm not. And because of the way I feel..im starting to wonder if letting go is the right move to do at the moment.
To cut a long story short, we both liked eachother and we see eachother once a month every summer so we both know it wasnt going to be a relationship anytime soon..but that didnt matter because it was what it was. Hes the type of guy that doesnt say how he feels unless its a strong enough feeling, and this summer he sat me down and explaind 'I never tell anyone I like them' and to spark the kiss he kept saying 'You have to try or you'll never know, like I could say this wall is 25m long but if I dont measurement it i'll never know the right measurement' We spoke in riddles for about an hour because neither us would say 'I like you'. I was nervous because that night he never told me he was coming and i havent seen him for days, he just used to turn up always catching me by suprise but as soon as i knew he was near me I was happy. Just knowing he was around made me feel so safe and at ease. I could have been in the worst mood wanting to leave and as soon as ide hear 'hes here' I'de relax and my mood would completely change.

As the weeks went on, after the night we spoke and we kissed for the first time..I didnt see him for 10 days. Untill one night where he turned up out of the blue and we went for a drive. I was so excited to see him and I asked him why he didnt reply to my text..He laughed and said 'this one?' showing me. -_- He then showed me his text messages without me even asking or hinting saying look, your the only girl i'm speaking to. The two following nights were intense and pleasing as we got very very close..perhaps to close to the point where I was an idiot and regected sex. I suddenly went cold and couldnt explain myself and he got frustrated because he was leaving for a week and I was going back to the UK..and he wanted it badly at that point. This was partly my fault, one bad day and bad timing. I wrote him a long message attempting to explain myself and just saying it was the moment for him but for me it wasnt. He said dont worry about it im not angry, I wanted to say bye to you when you were leaving the car but i didnt think you wanted to. (So basically as usual I came across cold even though inside all I wanted was his goodbye)

Months after Im back in Italy to stay with my nan a bit and to figure out what I want to do in 2013..As soon as I went to the bar we spend our summers in it hit me..although I think about him all the time, I really didnt think I liked him as much as i did because I looked around and my eyes welled up..I felt ridiculous but It brought back such strong feelings of when he'd walk and smile at me with his dimples and the way we looked at eachother and the chemistry between us which is so hard to describe in words without sounding so vague and pointless. The most annoying thing is that he doesnt have facebook anymore and I have no idea why..I think he knew I was coming because a lot of my friends made posts of it online and he must have seen..shortly after he deleted his account but perhaps thats due to exams. I also saw his sister who im a mutual friend of and we said hi to eachother etc so she must have told him. I also saw two of his close friends im friends with...so afer nearly 3 weeks the other day I sent him a text....but no reply. Which i completely expected I have a feeling he's completely over it and me..because hed put a lot of time and interest in me and we waited a long time for a so called moment and when we got it I froze..

In General..is there anyway Libras forget? Ive noticed once they set their minds to stop any feelings or interests for a person..thats it they dont go back. I offended him clearly and Ide never seen this side to him, and I do know him well enough. I can tell when hes sad happpy thoughful or angry just by looking at his eyes and i dont know what to do anymore 😢 Ive been a lot better not having to wait for him to turn up or anticipating and wanting him however last week another guy told me he liked me and what not and I thought ide try because im attracted to him and hes older and more mature however the whole time i was kissing him..i was thinking of HIM...!! WILL THIS EVER GO AWAY
WILL I EVER SEE HIM AGAIN??

Posted by LibranNick1986
I'm still perplexed on a Scorpio rejecting sex. lol. Actually the Libran - Scorpion dynamic is an interesting one. Scorpio to me is just the outgrowth and the more evolved Libra. Or I should say, the slightly darker, more aggressive Libran. I've seen many a Libra/Scorpio connection be quite successful. I have several friends who are that combination and for whatever reason it tends to work.

It sounds to me like you're not over this guy.. Go ahead, give in. No harm in partaking in some good ole sweaty, bedroom gymnastics. Give it a go!

I know with Libras, no matter how much they like someone if they think they wont be able to have sex with this person they'll get over it however It was just bad timing and a stupid day but I dont know how to get his attention back since he hasnt replied to my text haha..oh Gosh, I just dont know :p

This aint no Libra thing. If a man is gonna turn cold towards you because of one lil rejection..he isn't worth your time. However, maybe he felt rejected overall, so not wanting to get too close to you if he perceives that you don't feel the same for him. Ahh...who knows?

LibranNick....glad to hear your insight on the Libra/Scorpio relationship. I'm in one right now. :-)

Scorpchi....I hope you get to talk to him soon. I can relate totally to how you feel about him. I am ALWAYS thinking of my Libra guy when my mind has nothing else to think about. It is frustrating because I seem to be a bit obsessed lately with where we are going and have not yet had a chance to ask him where he sees things are.

Scorpchi there is always a chance that he has'nt forgotten you, unless he has allredy found another girl, that will change his thinking quick. I agree with some of the others Libra male/Scorp female is an excellent match, I have a few couples who are friends of mine with this combonation , they are VERY happy together and you can just see the happiness dripping off oif them.. good luck !

Posted by Aramei
LibranNick....glad to hear your insight on the Libra/Scorpio relationship. I'm in one right now. :-)

Scorpchi....I hope you get to talk to him soon. I can relate totally to how you feel about him. I am ALWAYS thinking of my Libra guy when my mind has nothing else to think about. It is frustrating because I seem to be a bit obsessed lately with where we are going and have not yet had a chance to ask him where he sees things are.

I hope so too. Just for a sense of closure, I dont make it obvious at all how much I really think about him, but I need to see him for myself just to know if there is still something there. And as for you, enjoy it as it is, if there hasnt been an opportunity to ask where its leading yet its probably because its not time. Be grateful you have him and just enjoy it day by day, soon you'll know where its going without needing to talk about it

Posted by Sashimoon
This aint no Libra thing. If a man is gonna turn cold towards you because of one lil rejection..he isn't worth your time. However, maybe he felt rejected overall, so not wanting to get too close to you if he perceives that you don't feel the same for him. Ahh...who knows?

I know right, because personally I think if he wanted sex and only sex he wouldnt have sat me down to try explain how he felt about me because for months before after ide seen him the year before we spoke for hours about everything life, music etc etc and there was always conversation and we got on so well. So much sparks between us, after he kissed me i heard from him the next day then didnt see him for 10 days..after he knew ide felt the same he would have come early to try it. Im just frustrated with my actions too..how one bad day had liturally f'ed everything up. since then ive already learnt to be more open and honest and I should have just lived in the moment. Now i'll never know. hahaha WHO KNOWS EHHHHH

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Posted by Aramei
LibranNick....glad to hear your insight on the Libra/Scorpio relationship. I'm in one right now. :-)

Scorpchi....I hope you get to talk to him soon. I can relate totally to how you feel about him. I am ALWAYS thinking of my Libra guy when my mind has nothing else to think about. It is frustrating because I seem to be a bit obsessed lately with where we are going and have not yet had a chance to ask him where he sees things are.

I hope so too. Just for a sense of closure, I dont make it obvious at all how much I really think about him, but I need to see him for myself just to know if there is still something there. And as for you, enjoy it as it is, if there hasnt been an opportunity to ask where its leading yet its probably because its not time. Be grateful you have him and just enjoy it day by day, soon you'll know where its going without needing to talk about it

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Because it wasnt as if we saw eachother everyday we awaited each other year after year and there was something between us but neither of us wanted to say ' I like you ' I think we were scared to do so because were both similar in the sense that although like is just like..to us liking someone is serious because it doesnt happen often. For me it defiantly doesnt. He's the type of person that would rather show you how he feels rather than saying it. And besides if it's difficult usually its worth it. But thankyou, I like Libras too i think their quite misunderstood, I have no idea why but i always end of being attracted or liking Libras over any sign..the ones I know look like thinkers, as well as pretending they dont care about anything when deep down you can see they do. I think their pretty deep

I may be entirely mistaken over everything, part of me also knows he acted like an idiot and is one for not even replying but its the frustrating feeling of not being able to have a second chance or to even see or contact him.. If i dont know for sure i'll never be able to move on.. at the end of the day its an experience i'm 19 and I need to make mistakes but i also need to be able to correct them 😢