TWO Libra's in a long distance relationship?

What do you think? After a month and a half of talking we will be meeting in a week and a half. Were both Libras, both have kids around the same age. In our young 20's. Lol sorry if this is irrelevant crap haha! Were only 400 miles away. Just wondering what your opinions on this match would be? I know the long distance wouldn't be for more than a year.

Honey, what's wrong with being single?

It gets lonely Rocky, what's wrong with trying others on for size...she's young and it's good to try before you buy.

all i know is libra men are always looking at other women, whether for platonic or romantic reasons. i would just advice u to date someone closer to were u live, because this is just bound to be a rocky relationship..lies, cheating and arguments will be the theme of the relationship.

As a Libra who's last two relationships were with Libras, one the mother of my children and the other every fantasy come to life....the hard part about two libras is both need to be "on top", in control. Libra men will make a Libra woman more needy and clingy than usual and Libra women will make a Libra man more clear and aggressive. At first the masculine/femanine roles will be natural but they can start to blur over time. Which is not good for either party.

Long distance is hard because both know the other is charming, flirty and always has a few being told to stay on their side of the line. Both become a little more protective and jealous but also more decisive and passionate. I have been the most sexually aggressive with Libra women but also the most attentive and willing to listen to things that are hard to hear about myself.

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Posted by nicodemus
As a Libra who's last two relationships were with Libras, one the mother of my children and the other every fantasy come to life....the hard part about two libras is both need to be "on top", in control. Libra men will make a Libra woman more needy and clingy than usual and Libra women will make a Libra man more clear and aggressive. At first the masculine/femanine roles will be natural but they can start to blur over time. Which is not good for either party.

"the other every fantasy come to life"

This sounds beautiful. May I ask what happened, since u mentioned this in the past

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Um......yeah. She had two sides to her. The loving doting, strong but femanine side that I couldn't resist...but also another. I am the majority parent of my three kids and I started to notice that the perfect mom wasn't when I wasn't around to see it. I think she has an addiction of sorts, probably alcoholism and she was not acting appropriate around my kids when I was not around. When I found out I had to let her go.

I think that she was in love with me, I truely believe that she was and that she wants to be with me for the rest of her life still. But I also see that she resents my past, the fact that I have three kids...well two are mine biologically and the other is mine at heart, she was my exes biologically and I fought with everything I had to get her away from her deadbeat dad and step mome. I think she saws this as an inability to put her first and resented me for it. I think the ways she acted out towards the kids and around other men where a conflict of being in love with me but not knowing how to handle my situation which I, admittedly will not budge on. My ex uses the fact that I will step up and take care of everything to her advantage and it affected my girlfiend as well.

The problem is that if I file against my ex, it becomes a matter of public record that my oldest is not living with either biological parent and subjects her to legal action from her shitty father. So, I protect my ex essientially in the way she uses my need to protect her daughter.

But, it is what it is and I need someone that understands and can handle that. I think that she has a closet addiction and the two things combined made it impossible for her to have a healthy vie

view of the situation we were in.

It is really unfortunate because our mental and physical chemestry were out of this world. To the extent where it felt like to both of us we were with our first love, our first partners and as lucky Libra's that couldn't be further from reality.

It was so intense that I could not help but desire her with every inch of my body and every depth of my mind. The kind of passion that comes out in stopping her as we pass each other in the house, kissing her and ripping her clothes from her body and feverishly feeding on her and her I.

The kind that comes from having complete conversations without a word but only a gaze, or a touch.

But she had another side of her that I wasn't aware of, a side that was resentful of my past and unable to seperate that from my children. A side that I can't, as a father and a leader for my kids, have in my house.

I tried to broach the roots of this but she became defensive and acted as if she were a victim in the situation, she started using her friends by misleading or outright lying about our situation in order to build an army of people to tell her that she is better than this when all along she is the one that has a secret side that is toxic.

So...yeah...theres the jist.

both her and my childs mom are libras btw...that is what I was originally referring too.

The crazy thing is that the passion i described about my ex girlfiend is exactly what I would have said about my childs mom in our time. That is the power of Libra/Libra. And that statement towards either would be completely true regardless of how conflicted or contradictory it sounds.

I don't think any of you realize how much the OP has been hopping from one relationship to another. She was barely away from the Cap that she practically swore up and down was the one (at least acted as such). He strung her along, kept her in the dark about what was really going on, and eventually it ended. Shortly after, she's asking about this guy and wanting to jump in after A DAY of chatting with this guy.

So again, I ask, what the hell is wrong with being single? What is your inner issue that you have to jump from one penis to another just for the sake of boosting your confidence? Is your self esteem so poor that you cannot stand to be alone any longer than a week or two?

Take some down time and get your shit together. The fact that you're willing to go chasing after some guy long distance so readily and quickly is pretty sad. It speaks volumes about what's really going on internally.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
I don't think any of you realize how much the OP has been hopping from one relationship to another. She was barely away from the Cap that she practically swore up and down was the one (at least acted as such). He strung her along, kept her in the dark about what was really going on, and eventually it ended. Shortly after, she's asking about this guy and wanting to jump in after A DAY of chatting with this guy.

So again, I ask, what the hell is wrong with being single? What is your inner issue that you have to jump from one penis to another just for the sake of boosting your confidence? Is your self esteem so poor that you cannot stand to be alone any longer than a week or two?

Take some down time and get your shit together. The fact that you're willing to go chasing after some guy long distance so readily and quickly is pretty sad. It speaks volumes about what's really going on internally.

Your getting awfully annoying. If you must know I've been single for TWO YEARS. And this is the second guy I've spoken two in this whole time. I wanted to be single and establish myself and my wants, and now I'm here ready to move forward. So who the hell are you to say that I need to jump from one penis to another? You know absolutely nothing about me. So I was really into the other guy and yes he strung me along while I really wanted things to work. I realized it wasn't going to and let go. I'm talking to another guy who I haven't even MET yet. I don't know how things will go and I'm keeping a stable medium about it. I'm patient to see where things go with this, and obviously its an elongated process to work out. Do I have a backup penis behind this guy? NO! So go torment someone else you actually have a damn clue about.


Sorry for the brutality everyone, but I'm sick of this person nitpicking every move I make and trying to tear me down about my decisions. I know what I've been through and I'm ready to move on and I know what I deserve. I really appreciate your insight everyone its very helpful. I see what you mean by how it can be a fragile situation since we indeed both are flirty people and like to be free spirited in our lives. So not knowing what's going on on the other side could be hard to deal woth especially when were physically expressive. But libras and libras are known to have great chemistry right? That's all my concern is, is that w

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That's all my concern is, is that when we meet our chemistry is the same if not better then our online chemistry. I know there's a massive difference. Ithink eeverything else will play ouy and work out on its own...with a lot of effort and work of course! 🙂

Posted by tiziani
beelibra, I think Libras are known to have great chemistry in words and friendship, but physical chemistry is indeed a different matter altogether. Best advice I ever heard was when you meet up, make it a place where the expectation is really about seeing the place together - not the other person. Somewhere you look forward to seeing with or without him. Almost like meeting is incidental and part of the process. At least that way the chemistry has a chance not to get eclipsed by total nerves.

That's definitely some really good advice! We were planning on probably going to the movies first. I'd like that over dinner because then I don't have to be on the spot too much with talking and we can just enioy the movie together and being close without being on the spot so much with nerves. Bad idea or good? 🙂

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
I don't think any of you realize how much the OP has been hopping from one relationship to another. She was barely away from the Cap that she practically swore up and down was the one (at least acted as such). He strung her along, kept her in the dark about what was really going on, and eventually it ended. Shortly after, she's asking about this guy and wanting to jump in after A DAY of chatting with this guy.

So again, I ask, what the hell is wrong with being single? What is your inner issue that you have to jump from one penis to another just for the sake of boosting your confidence? Is your self esteem so poor that you cannot stand to be alone any longer than a week or two?

Take some down time and get your shit together. The fact that you're willing to go chasing after some guy long distance so readily and quickly is pretty sad. It speaks volumes about what's really going on internally.

Your getting awfully annoying. If you must know I've been single for TWO YEARS. And this is the second guy I've spoken two in this whole time. I wanted to be single and establish myself and my wants, and now I'm here ready to move forward. So who the hell are you to say that I need to jump from one penis to another? You know absolutely nothing about me. So I was really into the other guy and yes he strung me along while I really wanted things to work. I realized it wasn't going to and let go. I'm talking to another guy who I haven't even MET yet. I don't know how things will go and I'm keeping a stable medium about it. I'm patient to see where things go with this, and obviously its an elongated process to work out. Do I have a backup penis behind this guy? NO! So go torment someone else you actually have a damn clue about.

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Calm down honey. Whatever you want to do. If you've had a 2 year break, fine. It's just unhealthy to bounce around from one guy to another without getting through the feelings and motions that happen from previous guy.

didn't work with my ex 😢 lol she was always seducing others men .
I was going to be real with her and everything , but looks like not her ! she said : I cant do it with someone not close to me , I need contact physic and much more ... and after she '' cheated '' on me ... anyways I saw that coming . you can't trust her lol

I am a Libra woman that has been in a bad marriage to. Libra man for 10 years. I stayed for his kids, yet he was never happy with what he had. Always wanting what he couldn't have. Other women!!! He cheated, lied and manipulated the whole relationship, plus.. They are lazy in bed!! Only out for their own self gratification, never wanting to "give" in return unless botched at. Libra woman, find a Leo or a Gemini.. And take your time. A Leo man will sweep you off your feet and treat you like a Queen!!