Updates......

Ok folks!!! I was under the pillow for a while... Didnt had the mood to write anything... I met an aqua from cyprus online. Purely an accident bcoz I scrapped her in orkut last Nov when I came across some psychology lines in her profile and she replied last month. And then it took off slowly... She straight away mentioned "if am not interested in her, then she is cool" and it dragged me in. We started chatting and discovered we are very much alike in thinking and emotions and it was quite creepy initially when every other thing matched btween us. Even subject of interest also happened to be same same - social psychology. btw. she got her moon and asc in Libra.

I tried to stay detached when I got confused if she was just playing around but she pulled me back into the game by confronting me once again. I consulted brat to clear my silly libran doubts and brat told me what exactly I had to do. Things are pretty smooth ever since and we are talking over skype every day and are planning to meet up soon to figure out how to jail break since her parents are orthodox and overprotective. I have my mirror reflection out there and I guess am in the game. 🙂

Glad to see that's out thelibran 🙂.....Im very happy for you and its about time you came back and said hello too I might add.

Might have your work cut out for you with overprotective parents...you'll have to wooooo them too...but being a Libran, I doubt that'll be overly difficult. You guys do it with such ease.

Mirror reflection is good I take it??

Thanks Chatz... and hello everyone.. where is LS??

She will have to handle her parents herself since they know only greek and russian. 😢

So its going good still huh?? that is awesome.. I know you read my lastest post. All is well here. Just trying to get back on track since being out of town for a few days.

So are you going there or is she coming to you? Have you all decided yet? Are you taking things slow this time?

Heard from "online Gem" lately??

Give updates...

Yea I read your post. Sad that nothing major happened other than a kiss.. But still am sure you did enjoyed it well...

Online gem disappeared altogether... I hardly remember her these days... Aqua girl is going fine... Most probably I will be going that side. She still has to cross confirm to me abt dates...

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thelibran..

Hey! Yup.. only a kiss but at least I got that and had tons of fun. We talked about it, a bit, later and he wants me to take more control. He said I should have just taken what I wanted...YES.. I did tell him I wanted to jump his bones before I die. He was laffin and said I was crazy. He is in a weird space now and I am trying to give him time to figure things out without my influence but this dude is killing me..

Then I went and met a Gem the other day. He is a teacher at my sons school. Saw me there at the school and called me at work the next day. Has been pursuing me ever since, hard. It is almost too much. I told my libra about it and he is now telling me he can't sleep at night and is having nightmares. Not sure it is related to me, but it seems everytime I start talking about dating others he starts having bad dreams.. weird.

Well anyway.. I am glad to hear you and your Aqua are doing well. I hope this lasts for some time. You deserve a good girl who will take good care of you!

Go with the Gemini!!!!! Dunno 100% but it seems he has his "bad dreams" everytime you talk about dating others to keep controlling you. You should go out and have fun...its not cheating, its keeping your options open 🙂

You don't have to be madly in love with the Gemini, you can save your real feelings for the Libra but he goes out, he has fun, why shouldn't you— he's not giving you what you want at this stage and going out with other men while he makes up his mind is NOT cheating.

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Brats,

Okay, I am confused. I thought he was in a good place and everything was progressing good (minus the other girls hanging around)...? You haven't jumped his bones yet?!? Go for it! That'll put him in a good place... 😉

Gemini? Hmmm... I don't like Gem males much, but you are an Aqua. Both air... Perhaps it could work out well...

I don't get it... What is up with all these broken Libras?!?


thelibran,

How are things going with your Aqua?

thnx gemfox...its getting better every other day...

and brat.. what u mean by "I hope this lasts for some time." hmmmmm i hope it lasts for ever... i dont see any dead end in this... may be am intentionally being blind.

I used to lose my sleep when i hear abt other guys entering my girls(dependin on whichever was current) life. used to wonder how i can overcome my current issues and get more close to her and push away others. used to wonder if she is gonna fall for them and dump me bcoz she dont know my current limitations.

and chatz.. i dont think brat is gonna jump on gemini. she wouldnt hv waited for 7 years if she ever wanted to do this.

and alcheme is right. You gotta do it to put him in a diff light.

Updates....

Hello all! Yes, I know you all thought I was dead but I am not I am still alive and still trying to figure out my libra. We still talk every day and all, but nothing more. He has straight gone into a state of hiding from himself right now and wants to do some self improving and won't even think about touchin, seeing or loving me right now. Confused is a mild word and tired is a nother mild word. Crazy tired of the mind games I have to play to get his attention. For him just to hide again. I mean I am scared all this won't be worth it. I know if it works out it will be, but dang.. patience is thin right now. 7 years now.. its been and YES!! ive been trying to get him in the sack.. trying hard, but if he won't even agree to see my in the name of "the master cleanse fast" than what is a girl suppose to do? He is freakin on day 23.. it feels like its been forever. Claims he is trying to cleanse his system and mind. Pretty much hates women, yet he still calls me and accepts calls from me every day, jokes, flirts etc.. but then when I get serious.. he cant handle it and has to cut off his phone (which he gets at least 100 calls/text per day from random people) and gets all reclusive and weird. Yes, he is getting stranger. We had a great 2 months, and bc his ex girl came back in the picture and says she was preg by him, which later we found out she was but by another dude.. now he is straight paranoid, or so he says. I really don't know bc he doesn't tell me everything like he use to.
Im lost and not sure what to do with him. I love him to death and am trying to get use to the thought that we are probably only going to be friends. But there is another side of me that says he is the one. And that is the sucky side...

Awww, Aqua... Sad to hear how things are going with your Libra, but happy you are back on the board. You have missed so much!!!

Anyway, I think you should let it go for now. 7 years, dammit man!!! Geez, you are a lot stronger than I. Anyway. I know Libras do go through those periods of self-involvements where they feel they need to refocus, rebalance themselves. Which and attribute I admire but, as hard as it may be. Let it go for now. He isn't ready and there is nothing you can do about it. Be his friend and who knows what will happen down the road.

You are a very attractive women and seem to be very strong. Try to find someone to fullfill your needs and desires for now. It is hard and may take awhile, but I have found my "perfect libra" right here on DXP - LibraPersonified... I will see him in 2 days too yay!!!

QS.. WHAT?? You are meeting a dude from here.. OMG! How great! You go! Im glad things are working out for you. So I gotta check your guy out. Does he have a pic up? You gotta let us know how it goes.

WOW! There is hope huh..

LOL!!! Aqua, he posted pictures from our Florida trip. His user name is LibraPersonified. So yeah you can check out his posts. I did meet him here and it has been close to three months and has been wonderful, just don't see him enough yet. We are in different states. He is wonderful, unlike any other Libran I have known in some ways, but he does have a Scorpio rising. Hehehe...