Virgo Female with Libra Male

hello all, the last time I posted here was a few months ago, I was dating a Capricorn, that ended and I have been dating a Libra (Oct 1st 1973) for a little over 2 months now. I'm a Virgo (Sept 7, 1967). Things have been going very well as far as I can tell. He was sick a good while ago and called kinda late and said he really just needed to hear my voice, its so soothing. That made me feel really good. He has 2 boys, that are 12 and 15, I havent met them yet. I hope to soon. I am really hoping this guy is THE ONE, after so many losers. I love our conversations, and there is rarely a day that goes by that we dont talk-usually at bedtime. He will even call on the nights he has his boys. He tells me quite often that I am a huge distraction, so he kicks me on home to my place when he needs to get some work done. he is a real touchy feely type of guy which I love and our sex life is the best I've ever had-I am easily insecure type of person, I think because I have been dumped on so many times and misled. Anybody have any insights to offer me here. I am doing my best to be patient and let things go as they will. I currently live an hour away from him and will be moving the end of next month-but only 30 min closer, I dont want to be "too close" for fear we split, then I have to run into him all the time. When we first started dating, he said the distance was a good thing-would force us to go slow, since he is not very good at the whole going slow thing and always ends up jumping in with both feet pretty quickly. but, we see each on average 3 times a week. so, i dont know what his definition of slow is really. so many things i would like to ask him, but i do not want to make it sound like i am pushing him to spill his feelings as i understand Libras are not too fond of that. but i dont want to be wasting my time either. i really really like this guy and want to do anything i can to make this work.

hahaha, i assure you, Im not your mom LOL

Thanks, GAPeach-I know we Virgos can get anxious. He is under a lot of stress right now. he even said the other day he is not used to having things so topsy turvy. he thanked me for helping him in his store and admits he doesnt take help very easily. He too has been hurt. he is one of the sweetest guys I have ever dated, thus the reason I do not want to do anything to mess things up. I do want to ask him if he gets all my text msgs-as he rarely responds, but I know-he is not a good multi-tasker and if I happen to send him a non urgent message and he is in the middle of something to do with work, he is probably going to ignore me-but on the other hand, if my mesages are annoying him-i wish he'd tell me as I dont want them to become a thorn in his side. I like to please whomever I am with, so if I am doing something, or not doing something, I like to be informed. he has been having to deal with his psycho ex gf lately as she still has most of her belongings in his garage and that is driving him nuts! he just wants her out of his life totally never to see or hear from her again. plus.. work has really been taking up a lot of his time. so i am doing my best to give him all the support i can, but it is hard. but, in another month or so, i will be 30 min away instead of an hour, so maybe it will be easier to at least meet half way a little more often if even for dessert somewhere. one thing he has said more than once is.. i dont know what kind of guys you have dated in the past, but i already put that in my memory bank.. he would say that when i would say something about something i like or dont like, as if i was reminding him and he was politely telling me he doesnt need a reminder-that he remembers everything i say.
i do find it to be true that he is the most romantic/sensual type of guy, we never go without having sex before going to sleep.. ever-no matter how tired. and sometimes, if i am just standing there doing nothing, he will come up behind me and do a little bumping and grinding as if to tell me.. ya, im thinking you are pretty hot and i wanna wanna.. brings a smile to my face.