Virgo/Libra

Currently seeing a male Libra who is 13 years my senior. A first for me. How are these pairings typically? How are Libra males and what should I be aware of?

Already sensing his clinginess asking why I don't text more. And he's delved a soft side to him saying he likes those 'good morning/goodnight texts,' which I don't do too often. He assumes i dont like texting because im not texting every hour. I just happen to be busy, but I do respond. However, I'm still assessing him, but already feels like he is rushing things which doesn't bode well with my Capricorn moon. It's been a little over a week, we've already had two dates, and it'll be a third one tomorrow. How is that not enough attention? Does this sign crave attention?? There is a connection and I enjoy being around him, hence, why I haven't jumped ship yet and interested to see where this goes. Meanwhile, trying to get past my judgemental Virgo self as he is divorced and has a son, another first for me so I'm not quick to dismiss this Libra.



Also his birthday is September 25th, does that make him a Virgo cusp?

You're probably doing fine. Libras love attention.. but if you give them too much, while not giving enough space, they'll get bored then move on. If you ignore them too often they will just find someone new. You need to literally find that balance, in which you seem to be bordering inbetween.

I dated a few virgos before and the worst thing was the lack of open communication. If you can solve this and he can be himself around you without objection, it will probably turn out fine.

I would be cautious. he might burn himself out quickly.

Posted by blackheart
I dated a few virgos before and the worst thing was the lack of open communication. If you can solve this and he can be himself around you without objection, it will probably turn out fine.

He has sensed this in me. But I at least expressed in the beginning that I like a lot of space to myself, especially, if I’m in certain moods I don’t want my feelings to be a burden. Then he goes on to say how I need to communicate those feelings, but I am not in that aspect where I wish to divulge, specifically with someone I am starting to know. It takes a lot of time for me to open up...Too much too soon, but he showed his understanding. Whereas, I already know more than enough about his past relationships without my having to pry. I guess that’s a sign of opening up?

Posted by jeane
I would be cautious. he might burn himself out quickly.

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Then is this common for Libras?

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Posted by Virgorean
Currently seeing a male Libra who is 13 years my senior. A first for me. How are these pairings typically? How are Libra males and what should I be aware of?

Already sensing his clinginess asking why I don't text more. And he's delved a soft side to him saying he likes those 'good morning/goodnight texts,' which I don't do too often. He assumes i dont like texting because im not texting every hour. I just happen to be busy, but I do respond. However, I'm still assessing him, but already feels like he is rushing things which doesn't bode well with my Capricorn moon. It's been a little over a week, we've already had two dates, and it'll be a third one tomorrow. How is that not enough attention? Does this sign crave attention?? There is a connection and I enjoy being around him, hence, why I haven't jumped ship yet and interested to see where this goes. Meanwhile, trying to get past my judgemental Virgo self as he is divorced and has a son, another first for me so I'm not quick to dismiss this Libra.



Also his birthday is September 25th, does that make him a Virgo cusp?

You poor naive thing. You're asking complete strangers to tell you how a complete stranger is. Use your own judgment, if you have any at all.

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Not necessarily. I'm inquiring on the common characteristics of a Libra male. Similar to how Taurus are the slow and patient types or Pisces are quite emotional. I know it's too early to tell, but I'm trying to decipher if he's talking a big game, factor in the age difference appealing to my naivety.

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Posted by jeane
I would be cautious. he might burn himself out quickly.

Then is this common for Libras?

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seems to be. they rush into things and then change their minds when the panic sets in and they realise they moved too quickly.

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Posted by tiziani
Sounds like he might turn into a puppy dog

OP don't rub his belly too much. Don't fall for it.

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My guard is up and every date has been initiated by him so far. I keep our texts to a minimum, but respond enough to keep his interest at bay. If anything, he's texting me on the regular. Although, he has a record for dating younger woman...His ex wife was 7 years younger.

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Posted by jeane
I would be cautious. he might burn himself out quickly.

Then is this common for Libras?

seems to be. they rush into things and then change their minds when the panic sets in and they realise they moved too quickly.

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That could explain why his relationships are short lived and his last one ended a couple months ago...