Virgo Loving a Libra: My UPDATE!! Libra Men - Help

Thanks for your help the first time.

okay, if you read my last post i was agonizing over a libra i had met that is so, so fabulous. but he hadn't called me and i was wondering what was up.

well, he finally called. well, actually he emailed me.

after 2 - PLUS (!) weeks of waiting, i finally got a long, very sweet email from him.

he has been really busy, and he had gotten the chance to listen to my album. he said that he liked my work - and was going to put some of his on the interchange for me. and he closes with "I am feeling your music so much. It almost made me cry. Keep in touch. Send me your phone number again".

so, my question is, now that he has made contact - how should i respond? Wait 2 weeks to email him? send him a very quick note with my -phone number?

from all of your posts i know i need to be 1. interesting and 2. aloof.


please explain what this means??

thanks.

Just be normal.

Say Glad you liked my music. Sure you can do put it on your interchange. I would love that! my number is XXX-XXX-XXXX!

Keep in touch you rock!

or whatever.

keep the door open without actively pursuing him.

And be prepared for many of the "long waits" between communication...that's the most frustrating thing about you LIbrans!!! LOL and even more frustrating is that when you do talk/email, etc you can put that person who is totally hooked on you onto cloud 9 with a few words just to let them wait 2-3 days if not a week before the next contact.....not sure if this is intentional but sheesh!! I've learnt not to do the contacting though and just hang in there....it works well 🙂

Jeez...does this mean I'll have to wait 2 weeks for my email to be responded to...?

possibly LOL....perhaps not though.

patience will be your best friend 🙂

...try to forget him now, while its early, curb your feelings, be casual to him and to your feelings about him, until something profound has been established. I've just read something on MSN that says - LEARN TO SAY NEXT! There are so many men out there, really, they're just all alike if we try to understand them. Someone who has to wait weeks to contact me is a looser, I don't normally wait, if i like them, i try to focus my attention on someone else...but that guy didn't even keep your number! and if he really likes you he will pursue you. LET HIM. But if you could only divert your attention and make him wonder why you didn't reply....lol..after all he made you wait..
sorry i am very forward.

and oh, libra are charmers, sometimes they lie just so not to hurt others feelings..when it is just the same. In my opinion one is never busy when it comes to love...or someone they like.

Oneluv

I don't see this as negative at all. Wait a good two days so that he realises you are not drewling all over him and then respond. And remember that he will try to read between the lines in whatever you send him...

Aloof because we like you more if we have to wonder first whether you like us or not. Be interesting...Well, I don't know who said that. If he likes you then you are interesting to him so just be you.

Luv, that's great he got in contact with you. Just play it cool now. Be yourself. You asked if you should wait 2 weeks to contact him. Only if that's how you are. Don't change your habits to mirror him. I would suggest to not immediately contact him; maybe wait a day or two as you don't want him to think you have been waiting for his email. He obviously has a sincere and genuine interest in you or he wouldn't have emailed you about your music or tell you to keep in touch. Make sure to email him with complimentary and appreciative words - Libras like that! But also keep the emails light and casual since you have just met the guy and quite a distance from you.

He's in a different city as you, so you will definitely have to accept the fact that he won't contact as often, especially since he's a busy guy. Be understanding of that and just continue to live your life and not worry about whether he's going to call or email.

It's amazing how pulling back and letting the Libra men wonder what makes us tick will make the Libra men more intrigued by us. I did that with the Libra in my life and he calls me almost every morning. Our talks are brief, but the point is that he's obviously thinking about me that he has almost made it a habit to call me each morning for a wake up call. That shows I've become part of his pattern. I truly think it's because I haven't or didn't confront or rush him to label us.

Tank, I think we're both commita-phobes, so I don't want to label us, but from the point he began pursuing me until now, it's been 10 weeks.