Vulnerable in love?

Do you guys ever feel like you get toyed with in love? Some days I swear I could charm the pants off of a Russian mob queen. Others its as if I dont exist to those I care about. Im always afraid of overcommunication and looking clingy but often in love I feel taken for granted as well. I know others have posted about feeling like a deer in the headlights when they are falling for someone. What do you do when someone your into just doesnt care back, not enough to be honest with you, or give you the time of day? Obviously move on, it just seems like it takes me an inordinate amount of time to bounce back... anyone else?

Posted by QLIbraMale
I Sooooooooooo can relate, in your scenario, I feel like an "Octopus in the Desert Desperately trying to find an Oasis". 😉K i'll explain "😛ctopus has 8 arms, I basically have 8 different path of showing my Love, in the "Desert" means at times I feel outta place, even when I shouldn't. An "Oasis" means my vision of Love is often clouded by "Sand Storms" an what I sometimes see are Mirages, and I need a "😉asis" to help me see the truth and put me back in my "Comfort Zone!"

LOL..that's cute.

O yes many times. Head games usually root from some form of insecurity

THERE IS NO MOB

Posted by QLIbraMale
I Sooooooooooo can relate, in your scenario, I feel like an "Octopus in the Desert Desperately trying to find an Oasis". OK i'll explain "Octopus has 8 arms, I basically have 8 different path of showing my Love, in the "Desert" means at times I feel outta place, even when I shouldn't. An "Oasis" means my vision of Love is often clouded by "Sand Storms" an what I sometimes see are Mirages, and I need a "Oasis" to help me see the truth and put me back in my "Comfort Zone!"

Ok lemme try to decode his metaphor. lol

He's an octopus with 8 arms meaning he has either a roving eye or tons of girls around and he's torn over who he should pick. He feels displaced (desert) because he enjoys himself (fun to be surrounded by variety of girls) but not entirely, therefore there's a sense of being lost. The oasis being "the one" that libra seeks out. He wants the one but he can't decipher who that is since false glimmer/temporary fun/in the moment derails what he genuinely wants. The other girls are mirages who contribute to derailing him from getting to the oasis. He wants "the one"(oasis) so she can bring him happiness, which is obviously found for people in their comfort zone.

Am I right? :S

Posted by QLIbraMale
I Sooooooooooo can relate, in your scenario, I feel like an "Octopus in the Desert Desperately trying to find an Oasis". 😉K i'll explain "😛ctopus has 8 arms, I basically have 8 different path of showing my Love, in the "Desert" means at times I feel outta place, even when I shouldn't. An "Oasis" means my vision of Love is often clouded by "Sand Storms" an what I sometimes see are Mirages, and I need a "😉asis" to help me see the truth and put me back in my "Comfort Zone!"

haha all you guys lack imagination...i understand ya tho libramale

Posted by oldskoolflavor
IF it weren't for the mirages,
would the journey to the OASIS be bearable ?

(lol)

I don't know about bearable, but finding the Oasis would definitely not be worth it w/o going through the mirages first.