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Libras and attachment
Understanding Attachment in Libras
Libras tend to form deep, lasting attachments due to their desire for harmony and connection. Once bonded, Libras often find it difficult to let go, maintaining strong psychic and emotional ties. This attachment stems from a long history of shared experiences and sentimental value, making their connections profound and enduring.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Old stuff ?
new.. old? antonyms.
Posted by Volkswagen
yeah, im getting a certain libran connection here.. its old.
Whose?
Posted by oldskoolflavor
I have a psychic cord with scorpios ..
don't know if that's a good thing
your mercy is in Scorpio?
Posted by aquagirl24
all libran males like scorpion males as friends and viceversa... i also like scorpio males as friends, only lolz.
my libra guy has more Scorpio female friends.
Posted by aquagirl24
taurus libra aqua are eternal friends...Taurus makes a wonderful friend for Libras(I cannot speak for Aquarians), but dating is an entirely different story. The way a Libra-Taurus friendship is often rewarding for both--yet a Taurus-Libra couple tends to fail miserably, remains a mystery to me.
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I haven't found a lifelong Taurus friend, but I do see where u 2 are getting at. The misunderstandings btw libra n Taurus can make it a difficult frdship.
Posted by Pecheresse
Yeah libra + libra have a true soul connexion but the ego ruins it.
ego is one thing - other people is another. Don't EVER let an Aries female into your trust circle. They know too much about Libras and will wreck havoc.
Posted by QLIbraMale
I like taurus, sagittarius and scorpio. Don't give a Damn about "Gotta have Last I'm always Right! Attitude Aquarius."
Scorpio are always right even when they are wrong.
I think that being with another Libran would drive me insane. I'm indecisive enough by myself.
Is spica mentally ill ?she should have said scorpios are never right in their head. They always talk big even when they know little .
lol
can we have some haiku about all the signs lol
but, yeah, Scorpios are just mad lol
Posted by everevolvingepithet
or no, wait a sec, wait a sec...Virgo ?none of those
no dessert for youI was hoping you'd say 'Libra'.
No cake ? 😢
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gem?
pick me pick me pick me! darn it...
Well I tend to reminisce and sometimes remember think back about the memories with feelings..and get sentimental. But I won't go back to the ex love. When it's done, it's done.
EEE & aguagirl -> 😄
Posted by aquagirl24
u see what an aries studies in 3 years an aqua studies in 3 days... a gemini in 3 weeks and a libran in 3 hours...
You underestimate Aries again. It does you no good to underestimate Aries and think they're stupid 😛
I would think the Libra would take 2 days, while the Aries can take a day. The Aqua may take a few hours. 🙂
Gemini I'm not sure.
u see what an aries studies in 3 years an aqua studies in 3 days... a gemini in 3 weeks and a libran in 3 hours
lol, lmao
anyway,
in your opinion, how does an aries moon affect each of the air signs ?click to expand
Waiting for Aquagirl or resident Libras (?) to answer this.
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Why hide it? 😢
Posted by janettam
the libras i know love vintage clothing 🙂 ahahah so yes they like old stuff.
It's the Aquas who like vintage. Libras only like vintage if it's *new* created vintage, or their own old stuff 😛. I wouldn't like someone else's stuff, not even jewelry if it costs a bomb.
Oh my God you sound exactly like my Aqua Gu-ru. Now maybe I don't have to contact her anymore. I can just see you talk 😄
Yes I think it's the Sag moon you're talking about. The one Aqua I thought of who might like vintage has a Sag moon 😄
No you don't talk alot, you just have the quintessential Sag moon *female* writing style 😄
Does your chart point to Uranus or Aqua? You seem very Aquarian! More than Sag, actually .. I think.
Now I can imagine a Young LibraLuv with multicolored hair having the time of her life! You remind me of my Lib now. He used to do the same thing - I thought he had identity crises everytime he changed his hair color! LOL!
Now I want a young Sag moon girl next time, kay? I promise she can have any hair style she likes 😄
Yahyah, you're miss peacok and with little peahens following your coattails about 🙂
You must've been an immaculate dresser, as far as Venus in Virgo/ Sun Libra go.
Yes, you have an Aquarian mind, and the Aqua MC helps alot, too. You like being different, and that's how the world sees you at first glance. Your mind is inventive and quick though (Merc/Ura; Moon/Ura). And your love nature is very deep (Venus/Pluto/sextile Neptune).
Yes, you're a closet Aqua! Your Sag placement is just there for posterity 🙂
Now no wonder I feel my Aqua Guru channelled through you!
And you're the Golden Apple, with the kindest heart 🙂. I told my Aqua Guru that too.
Now, make use of your gifts for humanity, why don't ya?!
Posted by spica
And you're the Golden Apple, with the kindest heart 🙂. I told my Aqua Guru that too.
Now, make use of your gifts for humanity, why don't ya?!Yes Ma'am!!! Right AWAY.... Hahaha 😄
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It's up to you. You can be a lazy Libra curling up like a furball, no-one can fault you 😉
x0x0x0x0 😄😄
Wuv you too!
You're a big blessing 😄
Do take time out for yourself sweetie!
I'm horribly sentimental when it comes to things, like take for instance clothes...I actually love vintage clothing too...but for any item of clothing that's my fave, there's always a story associated with it. I like clothes with history, and I like putting my own memories with my clothes. they may not look the best, but they're well loved. My husband doesn't understand at all, and i get that he probably never will understand why there's some items of clothing that i never part with. To him there's just things, to me they're memories.
Like I have this one tie-dyed dress I call 'the void'..I was given to it when I was walking thru the french quarter admiring this guy's impeccable tye-dying skills..now I know what you're thinking tye dye is ick...but you can tell when someone is just spattering chaos all over a shirt and think it looks cool and when someone who actually knows what he's doing...Tye-dye is actually a sort of divination and this old guy was explaining to me his work..so, as we're talking, a rain storm hits, and he's freaking out, so I offer to help him load all of his product in his vehicle....I help him get all of his stuff, and in payment he offers to give me a dress...so I take this blue purpleish one that looks like I'm staring at a black hole..I get teased for it constantly but hell, I think it's awesome.
I have a bunch of clothes like that, a hawaiian shirt my father had since his twenties...some of my mother's fave clothes that i had saved sinc eshe died(i had gotten rid of a fave shirt, and i immediately regret it.) I even had a shirt that had a design of a fave artist of mine, but it was too small so I gave the shirt to my sister in law, but i regret it as well..man it gives me heart pangs just thinking about it.
I literally have things that I've had since I was 8 yrs old..like cards from elementary school, a really embarassing drawing i drew for fun..that people made me, letters written to me of encouragement after my mother died, postcards from this girl I used ot know when she went on summer trip cross europe.
The thing is that I'm sentimental about them, but some of the things I don't even have a clear connection to anymore..like the girl with the postcards..we were cool.but not THAT cool..it wasn't like she was my best friend or anything..I'd love to keep them but it's like, to do what with them? I dunno. same with birthday cards etc...it's like I like the memories they invoke, but i feel the need to purge but i feel guilty at the same time.
I hope i didn't throw the drawing away, maybe i should frame it and put it in my children's room..just for them to dig. tryin to think of what crafts i could do with the birthday cards.
one of fears is to have my life be a whole bunch of potential but nothing substantial coming from it...I'll have all the materials but nothing comes together. This is why i'm always the "idea" girl....can't get past the "dream stage"
Like a blank page terrifies, depresses and incite me all at the same time...anyone ever feel that way? How does that relate to attachment or sentimentality..well because I grow attach to the potential...feel sentimental about 'the possibility' but when it comes down to actually doing it..i freak out..i feel defeated, or i burn myself out before I even make a step.
Does that make sense to anyone? I'm sure this is a Virgo moon thing(perfectionism) combination with a venus/mars thing(square..desires and motivations are not matching) in conjunction with my lazy libra sun. Or could this just be a libra thing?
Posted by janettam
the libras i know love vintage clothing 🙂 ahahah so yes they like old stuff.It's the Aquas who like vintage. Libras only like vintage if it's *new* created vintage, or their own old stuff 😛. I wouldn't like someone else's stuff, not even jewelry if it costs a bomb.
how about antiques— my dad loves them and he taught me a lot about that stuff... he is quite passionate, he and mom, both of them, xxx
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yup, antiques are cool, just not clothing or jewelry, for some reason. I have gem trees from flea shops. I figured they are evergreen anyway. 🙂
Posted by TheBeautifulStruggle
I literally have things that I've had since I was 8 yrs old..like cards from elementary school, a really embarassing drawing i drew for fun..that people made me, letters written to me of encouragement after my mother died, postcards from this girl I used ot know when she went on summer trip cross europe.The thing is that I'm sentimental about them, but some of the things I don't even have a clear connection to anymore..like the girl with the postcards..we were cool.but not THAT cool..it wasn't like she was my best friend or anything..I'd love to keep them but it's like, to do what with them? I dunno. same with birthday cards etc...it's like I like the memories they invoke, but i feel the need to purge but i feel guilty at the same time.
I hope i didn't throw the drawing away, maybe i should frame it and put it in my children's room..just for them to dig. tryin to think of what crafts i could do with the birthday cards.
man your collection sounds so much like mine I'm beginning to think this is what sentimentalism means. But I threw off 50% of it as it was beginning to clog up the place. I figured I didn't need those things anymore - they were getting junky.. Threw them off and that was that. I like minimalist spaces as much as possible now.
Posted by Batuk
@ Spica,
Did you mean to say "nostalgia" instead of " old stuff"?
I do like historical movies, and ancient Greek and Roman culture etc. Sometimes I like to watch classic Soviet Cartoons such as "Cheburashka". hehe. Also really like to think about the "past", and I always love my old friends more than those who are new to me, obviously.
Old stuff mean the same as nostalgia.
And yes, I have always preferred my old friends to new ones, but I reached a stage of my life where they outgrew me and threw the nostalgia out of the window. Trreefunk nostalgia.. it's wartime!!!!! Lmao. I kept a few old friends, but threw away the Aries. She was a Trrojan horse. I still keep all our old photos though 🙂
Perhaps this sounds like a male Libra. It doesn't describe a female one though. One more difference to the list.
Posted by aquagirl24
problem with libran is to start. when they start then they finish with high quality and with time quality too. xxx
yes..we are hard working 🙂 and we are devoted to what we do 🙂
The Libra in me..makes me sentimental and keep memories. I also collect certain clothes, jewelry and things that have special meaning.
The Aries in me wants to burn bridges and move on..while the Libra in me..is more attached 🙂
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I have come to the conclusion that I will always love my libra - no matter what happens - rain, shine, tsunami or hailstorm. It is a level of attachment based from a long history far back from pubescence. When 2 Libras have been attached for a long time, they can never let go, nor even want to.
There is a psychic cord - I can just think something and he gets the message - almost like an ET connection. No misunderstandings in communication - only ego, and detractors.
My Aries ex friend was so jealous of the connection she made it her goal to break us up - and from there I learnt everything about her and how she operated - right to the 0.001% dot.
Do you Libras like old stuff? It is part of something called sentimentalism - not everyone can understand that.