when the scales tips . .

the best way to get over it is say

We just do...we detach, reassess..if we're good, we'll process it, live thru it and then lay it to rest..maybe it's because we're wistful..maybe becasue we never fully go all in with our feelings..but you can take the most depressed, bitter libra and you'll always see a glimmer of hope for something better.

Isn't that right KOL?

@kol yep you're right i had to hit rock bottom before i wake up that i was in a pile of shit. I don't attach easily to someone but when i do i turn into a snail sucking everything until there's no blood left.

@oldskulflavor heartbroken = love for a person smashed to bits with hurt,disappointment and sprinkling of reality that there's nothing more to hold on to.

...and on another note to get over Libra, one must do this:

😉

teasing.. :p

no, kiddin' 😛

but it's true...

and the word is out, I got Pisces and 2 Sags hounding me and aScorp poking me on fbook...like wtf? people I need a breather... lol

Pisces is a love/hate thing...we lready tried it last year, he's overbearing and can't handle me. The Scorp is my ex bff ex bf - so no, one Sag I know since I was 17 so he's like an older brother, so again no, but the one Sag...well, he's a friend too, so...meh...none of them are what I want...😢

I had2 other Libras before, and nothing compares to this one, we are freakishly compatible on all points...scary... lol

Aww, kol, you're one of my favorite people to read on here. You make me laugh! I think you just make the gems shy 😄.

I agree with you too roam. Libras make me feel like I'm on a drug. Super happy/high when they're around, but the next day is always a crash/low 😢.

Posted by LibraLuv
^ haha... Thats why we strive for balance.

Lol well then I need some advice because they keep this poor gem spinning.

Posted by Sickleesweet

I agree with you too roam. Libras make me feel like I'm on a drug. Super happy/high when they're around, but the next day is always a crash/low 😢.

you can say that again 🙂

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Posted by LibraLuv
^ haha... Thats why we strive for balance.

Lol well then I need some advice because they keep this poor gem spinning.

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well, here is good advice: stand in the middle, the constancy seemed to work well for me before...and the Gem something-something will do the rest 😉...unless the Libra is a total putz, which can be as well, too... in that case, nothing you can do - they are way off, lol

Posted by QLIbraMale
@libra08 that pic looks sexy, those scales can balance on my ..................

😆 hahahah

Posted by QLIbraMale
@libra08 that pic looks sexy, those scales can balance on my ..................

as long as you can balance it well im sure the scales wouldnt mind haha

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Posted by QLIbraMale
@libra08 that pic looks sexy, those scales can balance on my ..................

as long as you can balance it well im sure the scales wouldnt mind haha

sure np I promise both cheeks will get plenty of attention, jealously won't exist with my right amount of pampering LMA😛

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whats up with us libras and obsession with asses haha.

Posted by QLIbraMale
@libra08 All guys have motives, so just be yourself upfront and honest, tell him how you feel, and how your not that type of girl, if he decides to leave you over something so trivial than he wasn't worth your time. ~~~~"What's Important are your feelings, not His." ~~~~~

yeah but you see i have this problem with cutting someone off yeah i can be like i-hate-the-sight-of-you-right-now-get-out-of-my-way-or-ill-run-you-over but i'm leaving you a little peep hole for you so in case your wondering what i am up to yould know kind of thing. They say we're hot and cold but we're not sometimes its a reaction to the signals they're giving us.

but yeah fuck them it's ME time now.

Posted by THEKingofLibra
Ass is Libra's achiles heel. I pretty much purr if a chick grabs mine 😛

yeah my first libra was my first backdoor experience haha

Posted by QLIbraMale
aye cutting people off is what I hate to do but sometimes its necessary lol.

yep i only cut off one crazy pisces. I mean it would take a lot to make me cut someone off but this one was really off the top.

I think it's a Pisces thing. They are suffocating.
I know one for 2 years, we used to went out on a couple dates, but nothing ever happened, we ended up talking very sporadically, I think once last year and once in a fall, and he texts me two days ago again to say "hi" and I'm like: "hi", what's up" and he's like going all out about seeing me and all, and I tell him: "I'm in a process of balancing after a relationship with Libra and I don't want anything right now aside for friends" he's like: "I know, friends." and now, he's giving me shit for not answering his text immediately from this morning - I didn't answer till about 6 pm while I was sitting with my accountant, and so I text him at 9 asking: "what's up" and I get this whole guilt trip waaa waaa waaa how I'm disrespectful and not caring and that he's not going to be around for ever and I'm thinking to myself: "omfriggingaawd, dude, are you serious? wtf? did I not say I don't want anything but friends not even a coffee, nothing"...gawwd they are overbearing and he's suffocating me and it's only a couple days of just talking, not even really friends...damn...
High time for the ignore button for ever...another Pisces I know before was like that too.
They are too much...