Delia
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What should I do and say next ?
I feel hurt and not after took with him . But I let him add me in messenger again to have the opportunity to tell him directly that I would not marry a man who does not loves me , who does not deserving me . He was hurt in his Ego hearing this from me, maybe he never expected it happen, but I told him this not from my Ego or ambition , but because it is true. Every time he added me in messenger, he said " I don't want to marry" , so I have to give him a reply to this all.
He ended up the conversation with " good night , kiss you " after I told him he would do better to change his bad behaviours ... He dislike I remind him what he did wrong.
I said simple, good night.
He ended up the conversation with " good night , kiss you " after I told him he would do better to change his bad behaviours ... He dislike I remind him what he did wrong.
I said simple, good night.
Yes, in person...I know him. And not since now, since 3 years..... 😢 we met few times , everything was great and chemistry and everything , then the last time he introduced me to his friends . But never show me who he really is , where is living and working. I only know he is working in police . I don't know is this is reason of security to now show to someone where he is living and working , it may be, but also is not a good thing. When he met me first time, he opened the subject about getting married with me, but later he disappeared and when come back, he started stories and stories which I don't know what is true or what is lie.
He was divorced. have 2 kids ( he say the kids are both made with his ex wife) , his wife divorced and leaved to her country . Then , from last year, things was changed, even in his comportment toward me. He invested some stories , told me to wait him for a while and other things and reasons. In this time, I saw some pictures of him from Europe and he said he was in an European country for work that time , but my guess is he was to take back his wife and convince her maybe not to finalize the divorcing. Later on, he told me she back to his country, here ( where I am too actually) and she is working at BMW in a city near him. Since then I felt he is not still in his natal city, from a conversation , but did not told him anything I feel about this. Then now, I asked him if he is living in the city where I knew his ex-wife is. He said yes, after a pause of some minutes... Probably he was wonder how I know, but for me was a simple intuition. Then I asked him if he is with her together now, he said no, but without adding too many arguments ... just said she is not working there now , she is working here where I am actually. ( me and him not in the same city). I don't believe this. If she is working here, why he moved in that city ? no reason . He said just for work and living there maybe always.... And he said if I don't trust him, do not talk with him . But what to trust when you don't show anything real about you ever ? ? ? Last time when I wanted meet him ( we said to meet to say good bye that time ) , he did not came to meet me in his natal city, because he was probably blocked in the city where he is now, maybe by his ex-wife and things there..... He cannot say this , he really said nothing about this, not a simple sorry at least , for what he did.
Oh, and because I was not interested to talk with him about sex ( b
He was divorced. have 2 kids ( he say the kids are both made with his ex wife) , his wife divorced and leaved to her country . Then , from last year, things was changed, even in his comportment toward me. He invested some stories , told me to wait him for a while and other things and reasons. In this time, I saw some pictures of him from Europe and he said he was in an European country for work that time , but my guess is he was to take back his wife and convince her maybe not to finalize the divorcing. Later on, he told me she back to his country, here ( where I am too actually) and she is working at BMW in a city near him. Since then I felt he is not still in his natal city, from a conversation , but did not told him anything I feel about this. Then now, I asked him if he is living in the city where I knew his ex-wife is. He said yes, after a pause of some minutes... Probably he was wonder how I know, but for me was a simple intuition. Then I asked him if he is with her together now, he said no, but without adding too many arguments ... just said she is not working there now , she is working here where I am actually. ( me and him not in the same city). I don't believe this. If she is working here, why he moved in that city ? no reason . He said just for work and living there maybe always.... And he said if I don't trust him, do not talk with him . But what to trust when you don't show anything real about you ever ? ? ? Last time when I wanted meet him ( we said to meet to say good bye that time ) , he did not came to meet me in his natal city, because he was probably blocked in the city where he is now, maybe by his ex-wife and things there..... He cannot say this , he really said nothing about this, not a simple sorry at least , for what he did.
Oh, and because I was not interested to talk with him about sex ( b
Oh, and because I was not interested to talk with him about sex ( because he only this talk) , today again he no talk anything. I really don't care, I am not his sex toy and do not want to be . I told him also yesterday to buy a sex toy if he need it, but I am not a sex toy .
If I told him I don't marry him anyway even he beg me now, because he does not loves me , he started crazy he wants to meet me. I told him, I don't want to meet him if he still hide everything about his life .
I don't see other reason why he always since then say he don't want to marry , he likes alone. I don't think so this is the real reason, because he make I too strong . He make strong the idea that he don't want to marry, so no other reason , he may be with his ex-wife again.
I did not slept all the night, is like a nightmare 😢
You go into all these threads, giving novels full of "advice" like you're some effing expert after fucking one Libra dude, and then you continue to come back about this guy, proving that you aren't as strong and mighty as you think you are.
This isn't the first time a Leo woman has come here doing this EXACT same thing- They have a freak Libra dude who they're trying to figure out. They pretend to listen to the advice and agree that the guy in question shouldn't be tolerated. Then they continue to fuck around, constantly updating us on everything as if it's some sort of lame, "juicy" gossip.
...Typical big cats playing around who are obsessed with drama. Playing with that dead mouse, hoping more excitement will come of it.
That said, you really need to shut it about this guy. It's getting old and nobody really wants to give you advice anymore since you're just using this lame bullshit as an attention whoring tactic.
That, and 50 paragraphs of shitty English is really, REALLY hard to read and understand. I know it's not your first language, but still. ...reeeally hard to read all of it. Keep it short.
This isn't the first time a Leo woman has come here doing this EXACT same thing- They have a freak Libra dude who they're trying to figure out. They pretend to listen to the advice and agree that the guy in question shouldn't be tolerated. Then they continue to fuck around, constantly updating us on everything as if it's some sort of lame, "juicy" gossip.
...Typical big cats playing around who are obsessed with drama. Playing with that dead mouse, hoping more excitement will come of it.
That said, you really need to shut it about this guy. It's getting old and nobody really wants to give you advice anymore since you're just using this lame bullshit as an attention whoring tactic.
That, and 50 paragraphs of shitty English is really, REALLY hard to read and understand. I know it's not your first language, but still. ...reeeally hard to read all of it. Keep it short.
Posted by virgoyum
I think you should tell him to fuck off. From the small parts I could understand he sounds like he is fucking with you. Why is he talking to you about another woman? Why are you asking him questions about another woman? Why can't you have a sensible conversation? It all sounds crazy if you ask me. What you should do is to tell him to fuck off. See a therapist. And block him from all areas of your life.
Yes, he need see a therapist ! A normal peoples will not bother someone like this . Believe me, every time I tried to have a sensible conversation with him as you say, he come again with the reply " I don't want to marry " is just like he say a poem every time ! I would not add him this time, but I wanted really to tell him and make it clear now that I would never marry a man who acting and speaking as him and who does not loves me and respect me .
You know, sometimes you need some answers , for your peace in your heart, then when you have them or deducting them from the conversation you have with him, you can relieve your heart and make yourself no suffer anymore and see more and more clear who he was . When you fall in love, is like a magic thing, you can't see who is he really, then when you arrive to see, you need to know that "why" what answer has. In this way there is no more sufferance and you can move on . This is why I did this .
If you cut off a person instantly, then questions will not give you peace anyway. I don't want to have any question again, I asked him in which city he is living now, after which he made a pause and replied later , because I already told the city I believed he is in. And he said only Yes, but little shocked how I know. It was not hard to deducting this, because I knew his ex-wife was there, so I was need a confirmation and I got it. Further , he did not added strong arguments like he is not with her or not love her still, only said a "no " when I told him I think they got together again and I did not show my anger in any way , I was neuter. I was thinking he has kids with that woman, the kids need her , not me. Only the kids now make me relax and think maybe is the best thing what happened. I was grew up without parents love, so I know what this means. 😢
Now I don't feel say any word to him. He is silent also. I could not trust him anymore after all what he did. Trust is total or nothing, you
Yes, he need see a therapist ! A normal peoples will not bother someone like this . Believe me, every time I tried to have a sensible conversation with him as you say, he come again with the reply " I don't want to marry " , but in our conversation I did not talk anything about marriage .... but he say this without any logic to what we took. No connection with that subject. Can't talk anything with him because he come back to the same reply or talking about sex only , saying he is alone , lonely and need sex , he is a man.. But what is my fault if he still want be alone ? why "cry" out this then ? he want me , but don't want me. is just like he say a poem every time ! I would not add him this time, but I wanted really to tell him and make it clear now that I would never marry a man who acting and speaking as him and who does not loves me and respect me . After this he added sad " I like you " . IF I reject him, then he say he likes me, he loves me .
Now I don't feel say any word to him. He is silent also. I could not trust him anymore after all what he did. Trust is total or nothing, you can't trust only 20% or 50% . 😢 If he back to his wife, the single thing that make me not to suffer much, is about his kids. I am thinking his kids need her, she is their mother, not me. But I just wanted to say the truth. How can a man be so low and weak to not say the truth ? I can't admit this in someone. I say the truth anything it is and I know is best way not to make others suffering or thinking or hoping something that is not possible.
Posted by virgoyum
Why are you trying to have a sensible convo again and again after he's proven he's incapable of having one? Leave him alone! There's nothing instant about cutting this loser off because it appears he's been doing it for awhile. An instant cut off is right after the first time... Anytime time after that isn't.
Tbh it doesn't seem like you will ever let go. The mere fact that you're bringing up other parties other than the man involved should tell you there are too many characters in this production that you should be worrying about. Please pray tonight and ask God to remove this man from your life and to bless you with some willpower cause this right here... No Bueno.
Thank you ... I also asked God few days , to let me know the truth and it seems this is the truth.... I prayed to let him open his mouth and say it because other way I had no peace in my heart why he was doing this for such long time. Maybe also culture is different here, not as Western culture, some things you may never understand them or with some things you will beat your head until you feel crazy and even then you will not understand them ....
I only can say to myself now, if he back to his ex-wife, maybe God wanted this , for their kids....
90% from my own instinct or feeling tell me this is the truth 😢
I can't believe how he talk to me , without care of what I felt for him, he only took about sex and said he only want make love, no want to marry...... It made me feel nausea about him .... I am wonder how can this creatures to do this . If you are not into a person, you should follow the way you choose , not to talk about sex if the other person's interest is not the same as yours. How much shameless....... I am without words ........
Posted by Delia
I feel hurt and not after took with him . But I let him add me in messenger again to have the opportunity to tell him directly that I would not marry a man who does not loves me , who does not deserving me . He was hurt in his Ego hearing this from me, maybe he never expected it happen, but I told him this not from my Ego or ambition , but because it is true. Every time he added me in messenger, he said " I don't want to marry" , so I have to give him a reply to this all.
He ended up the conversation with " good night , kiss you " after I told him he would do better to change his bad behaviours ... He dislike I remind him what he did wrong.
I said simple, good night.
PUHLEASE!!!!! Why are you giving this Libra dude so much of your energy??!!! I'm not on this site as much as I used to be, but I've had some downtime the last couple of day and every Libra thread I read, you're in it talking about this Libra clown. You're giving him too much power over your emotions, and he's probably already moved on emotionally. You need to do the same. If it's over, let it be over and keep it moving.
Posted by LIb4LifePosted by Delia
I feel hurt and not after took with him . But I let him add me in messenger again to have the opportunity to tell him directly that I would not marry a man who does not loves me , who does not deserving me . He was hurt in his Ego hearing this from me, maybe he never expected it happen, but I told him this not from my Ego or ambition , but because it is true. Every time he added me in messenger, he said " I don't want to marry" , so I have to give him a reply to this all.
He ended up the conversation with " good night , kiss you " after I told him he would do better to change his bad behaviours ... He dislike I remind him what he did wrong.
I said simple, good night.
PUHLEASE!!!!! Why are you giving this Libra dude so much of your energy??!!! I'm not on this site as much as I used to be, but I've had some downtime the last couple of day and every Libra thread I read, you're in it talking about this Libra clown. You're giving him too much power over your emotions, and he's probably already moved on emotionally. You need to do the same. If it's over, let it be over and keep it moving.click to expand
He asked me to move to his city ! But I told him , I will never be his secret woman ! I told him to go to a Therapist and leave me alone ! I told him I will leave from his country, then he asked as crazy " Where are you going —? Come here ! " Believe me , this man is crazy in the real sense of word ! Yes, you are right, he took all my energy since he appeared now , I was almost feel like I die this days , abdominal pains, no sleep, nausea... I the all this situation , I wish I never met him ever in my life !
Sorry for your bad time, hope everything is fine for you now and thanks again for your replies !
Posted by virgoyum
I think you like this drama. You could have changed your number or shoot if you have an iphone, you can easily block his number. You could have blocked emails. You could have hid your profile. If a person wanted to be done and stay hidden it can easily be done but you refuse to do it. Anyone can benefit from therapy but you in particular need to learn how to establish boundaries as you seem incapable of it.
at this point i suspect she is a troll.
Posted by jeanePosted by virgoyum
I think you like this drama. You could have changed your number or shoot if you have an iphone, you can easily block his number. You could have blocked emails. You could have hid your profile. If a person wanted to be done and stay hidden it can easily be done but you refuse to do it. Anyone can benefit from therapy but you in particular need to learn how to establish boundaries as you seem incapable of it.
at this point i suspect she is a troll.click to expand
I suspect she's Aylin.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by jeanePosted by virgoyum
I think you like this drama. You could have changed your number or shoot if you have an iphone, you can easily block his number. You could have blocked emails. You could have hid your profile. If a person wanted to be done and stay hidden it can easily be done but you refuse to do it. Anyone can benefit from therapy but you in particular need to learn how to establish boundaries as you seem incapable of it.
at this point i suspect she is a troll.
I suspect she's Aylin.click to expand
before my time i'm afraid. similar mo?
Basically. Tons o broken English, came back incessantly about some Libra dude, large paragraphs of "advice" and huge posts about a problem that can't be fixed, etc. Even created a few new usernames to continue on with her ramblings.
I think Aylin may have been the same sign, too. Who knows.
I think Aylin may have been the same sign, too. Who knows.
I no like this drama, he also no like, but we can be separated. Is not from us, is something from universe maybe if I can say this. Maybe this is our Karma, I don't know. We are a possessed by each other and no one can't escape from this. Is not only him, or only me, we are both in this close circle. He hurt me with some words , I also hurt him with some words or actions, but he can't renounce to me, I also can't. I wish to see an astrology map or something, if I say well, not sure how is the right word for this. I wish to see what keep us like this . Believe me, is not me, is not him also, is something like a power , something strange which keep us like this and I am afraid this can't be end all our life. 😢 You know, there is a total separation when one of you can do it and nothing returning him or you back. But to me and him is like a force who make us back and hurt each other . I read about this and is seem to be a Karma relationship . HE may be someone from my other past life and until we will not elucidate the reason which made us connect in this life, we will not end. 😢
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I let him say this and then I told you " I don't want to marry you , don't worry. Why should I want to marry a man who does not loves me and does not respect me at all ? What ? You think you are a prince in this world ? I don't want to marry you , now even if you beg me , you know why ? Because you don't deserving me, that's way . So no worry, I don't want to marry you ! "
His answer " Really ? " and I said Yes . He started be little sad and feeling rejected maybe and he never tough I will say this ever ... I was waiting so much to come back to tell him this , it was like a big satisfaction for me ! regarding to all his bad actions from before . Now is looks like desperately to make me see him how I saw him before, with the eyes of a fall-in-love woman , with much love and care, but I am cool and keep it cool . He continue talk about sex and I was not interested in the subject and he is like crazy to meet me , but I ignored this sentence and I started other subject, to know something more about him . He told me he was moved to other city, a city near his natal city . In that city is working his ex-wife and all bad things between me and him , started since his ex-wife back to that city. He started be cold and ignored and disappeared and so on....
My feeling was also that between them is again something , since she back to his country ( she is foreigner ). I asked him now , if they are together. He told me they are not and he said she is working now in the city where I am . He said, if she would be there where he is now, he would not move to that city. But she is working now here where I am actually. I can't believe this is the truth ! I think he just don't want to lose me , but I think he is with his ex-wife together again.
He want to see me , but I feel so hurt and I can't go to see him , because I don't believe this story. I am afraid he is with his ex wife again . Why then he moved to the city where she was initially ? I strongly believe they are together. I even told him, I don't mind , if he is happy, let it be..... but I mind to tell me the truth. He said if I don't trust him to not talk with him still, ok ? I said fine... But in my heart I feel the truth is not what he says.