What's up with Libra?!

I had you know what with a Libra friend that was after me for a long time. I didn't like the idea of him going on vacation with his ex gf, now "friend" (she is still in love with him). and told him to F-off after he did tell me he was doing that vacation with her! he kept it from me so he could get laid before he went off with her. Blew me off and told me it was my problem if I didn't believe he was not doing any sexy times with this girl. When I got mad, I never spoke to him after that. But we see each other at work a lot, when he is not traveling (which is most of the time.) he left for a long time after this fight. I didn't see him for a while. but when he came back he thought it was going to be all good with me. I didn't accept even any eye contact with him. I think this took him for a jolt, but now he comes by my desk to talk to other ppl around me. I think he is testing the waters to see if he could talk to me. I don't know what he is thinking.

Can anyone help with what they think he is trying to accomplish here?

I'm not sure if I want even a friendship with him...... He made me think at one point that he wanted to be truly serious with me. I'm talking marriage, kids, and all that implies? But i think he was just sweet talking me. I thought he was really a nice guy but turned out to be a big d=head.

PS. I'm not really the marrying type but the idea is growing on me. I just don't see it for my future sometimes.

He probably regrets how he treated you but he sounds like a total jerk. If you don't want him in your life, don't give him any room. He probably doesn't like that he was a jerk and the fact that you won't forgive him ruins the fantasy every guy has that he is a nice guy. He KNOWS he wasn't a nice guy. Good on you for making him face that reality.

My roomie, who is also a Libra, went through a very similar thing with a guy we work with. (He was a pisces and one hell of a peice of work!) She has ignored the hell out of him. It really bothers him. He is still trying to be the nice guy and she isn't having any of it. I wish I could be more like her but I have the need to like and approve of everyone. She has a lot of virgo in her chart. lol!

Anyway, I think you are doing the right thing. A jackass is a jackass. He will just go on to do this to someone else as the Pisces (who messed with another libra friend at work and tortured her for a year with his bull) proved.

hugs

US libras are so indecisive!! we like our cake and want to eat it too...also when it comes to relationships we are easily bored and hang on to past relationships for the simple fact that they offer us more excitement (esp when we are with someone new)...I think he is playing with your head, and doesnt trust you yet, if you ignore him he will think you dont care and if you give him the attention he wants he WILL pursue u 🙂

Ok something funny happened on Weds. He came up to me and started a convo. I was polite, and I guess he was really trying all day, but I shot him down when I was talking to one of my bosses and he came up to us and started jive talking and such. Well my boss said something along the lines of -let me hold your coffee will you smack him. So I said "don't give me that opportunity" hahaha! Then he got all embarrassed and walked away.

hehehe

He is just thinking that all is well or something, just because I let him talk to me. Like I said before, I would not even look at him directly in the eye.

Now I guess because of time.... I have just let it go, and truly am strong. That he is trying makes me feel a lot better, I love torturing him. Let me just say I am not mean—?I just like that he is trying. HaHaHa?..