Posted by lovely77My friend met him briefly and she agrees with me that his Libra Sun's charm shines through, but only to a certain extent. He's polite, but there's a sort of... Self-consciousness to him. As he was leaving last time, he clearly wasn't sure whether to say goodbye to her because they didn't really talk, so he didn't until she initiated it lol.
Interesting...how do you think he seems to you? Is he private and quiet does he express himself? He def has alot water that make him quiet private hard to crack I think ill let others chime in to see their thoughts
Posted by rockyroadicecreamI still can't see the image, but I'm going to assume it has something to do with all those emotions he has lmao
Cancer moon, Scorp venus—
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Posted by CruellaWhiteI'm just trying to befriend him at this point. We met via Tinder, but never hooked up because, tbh, I think we were both confused and insecure about what was happening even though there was the standard "we're both drinking, hanging out alone" setting. He's not looking to date however because his ex of 2 years cheated on him last year, which, I totally respect his feelings because that's a horrible thing to go through. I find his company pleasant however, and I've been looking for more close friendships.
Don't worry so much about a friendship. You are getting to know one another ...for water peeps it can take a long time.
hhm about him—Clever, charming, polite, concerned etc. Friendship for him might be quite deep with all those water placements.
You might not quite be his friend but I wouldn't worry about offending him Librans are affable. He will try and make you feel comfortable.
I would say it's politeness unless he wants to hang out.
Have you asked him to hang out with your friends or anything?
Do you like him more than friends— I don't know if befriending will help you know him more in another way.
Librans hate to offend people by the way. So they can confuse.
Posted by SternAmHimmelNo. It was Baymax holding Hiro, with a "there, there" motion.Posted by rockyroadicecreamI still can't see the image, but I'm going to assume it has something to do with all those emotions he has lmao
Cancer moon, Scorp venus—
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Posted by SternAmHimmelWhy are you trying to force this to work?Posted by CruellaWhiteI'm just trying to befriend him at this point. We met via Tinder, but never hooked up because, tbh, I think we were both confused and insecure about what was happening even though there was the standard "we're both drinking, hanging out alone" setting. He's not looking to date however because his ex of 2 years cheated on him last year, which, I totally respect his feelings because that's a horrible thing to go through. I find his company pleasant however, and I've been looking for more close friendships.
Don't worry so much about a friendship. You are getting to know one another ...for water peeps it can take a long time.
hhm about him—Clever, charming, polite, concerned etc. Friendship for him might be quite deep with all those water placements.
You might not quite be his friend but I wouldn't worry about offending him Librans are affable. He will try and make you feel comfortable.
I would say it's politeness unless he wants to hang out.
Have you asked him to hang out with your friends or anything?
Do you like him more than friends— I don't know if befriending will help you know him more in another way.
Librans hate to offend people by the way. So they can confuse.
He asked me over to his place on Valentine's Day actually, and even made pasta, but there were no ulterior motives and I made no moves either. We just had a nice chat and hung out, however, he had some whiskey and apologized because, "Valentine's Day is sort of hard for me, sorry," to which I replied with a smile and told him it's fine, which I think he appreciated.
From there, I initiated a few things, and he asked me to casually grab dinner on campus twice. But the last time we hung out was about two weeks ago, and now I'm not sure if I should initiate something. It's been a bit silent on his end, and from what I can gather he's a busy person, but him being bad at texting throws me for a loop, unfortunately. (Damn my Millennial conditioning! ...And my chatty Aquarius Mercury up against his more private Scorpio Mercury.)
Because of our odd beginning though, I'm just very conscientious of not making him uncomfortable in any way or thinking that I want to try and low key "seduce him."click to expand
Posted by rockyroadicecreamLmaooo I adore this gif because it's very true. One time on his snapchat story, he put up a photo of a bottle of Angry Orchard and used the Snapchat pen to change it to "I'm Angry," to which I thought he was joking, so I replied casually. And while he avoided answering why he was angry with some half-hearted jokes, it became clear that he wasn't joking about actually being upset. And then the next morning, it was taken down.Posted by SternAmHimmelNo. It was Baymax holding Hiro, with a "there, there" motion.Posted by rockyroadicecreamI still can't see the image, but I'm going to assume it has something to do with all those emotions he has lmao
Cancer moon, Scorp venus—
(pics aren't showing on dxp for some reason. Leaving link for when it stops hiccupping)
In other words, that's a shitty combo to deal with. Emotional rollercoaster ahoy.click to expand
Posted by SternAmHimmelI just realized this response existed.Posted by rockyroadicecreamForce? I don't feel like I'm forcing it. I'm just tiptoeing, I suppose. But I'm pursuing his friendship because, honestly, I've been a bit lacking in close friendships recently and I've realized as an introvert, I really haven't built those skills. I often let a lot of high energy extroverts approach me and do all the work, which, while they're lovely people, I'm trying to invite more types of energy in my life now.
Why are you trying to force this to work?
On a more tangible level, I do feel we get along. We've had great conversations and time passes very quickly when we're chatting, but I suppose I just want to have a better idea of what I'm working with because he's definitely hands down one of the most difficult people to read at times. Could I like him as something more? Easily, but that's not my place nor my intent.click to expand
Posted by SternAmHimmelHe's not into you at all. Back off. You're just going to embarrass yourself if you keep up this shit.
I'm just trying to befriend him at this point. We met via Tinder, but never hooked up because, tbh, I think we were both confused and insecure about what was happening even though there was the standard "we're both drinking, hanging out alone" setting. He's not looking to date however because his ex of 2 years cheated on him last year, which, I totally respect his feelings because that's a horrible thing to go through. I find his company pleasant however, and I've been looking for more close friendships.
He asked me over to his place on Valentine's Day actually, and even made pasta, but there were no ulterior motives and I made no moves either. We just had a nice chat and hung out, however, he had some whiskey and apologized because, "Valentine's Day is sort of hard for me, sorry," to which I replied with a smile and told him it's fine, which I think he appreciated.
From there, I initiated a few things, and he asked me to casually grab dinner on campus twice. But the last time we hung out was about two weeks ago, and now I'm not sure if I should initiate something. It's been a bit silent on his end, and from what I can gather he's a busy person, but him being bad at texting throws me for a loop, unfortunately. (Damn my Millennial conditioning! ...And my chatty Aquarius Mercury up against his more private Scorpio Mercury.)
Because of our odd beginning though, I'm just very conscientious of not making him uncomfortable in any way or thinking that I want to try and low key "seduce him."
Posted by rockyroadicecreamHe's not into you at all. Back off. You're just going to embarrass yourself if you keep up this shit.Hm. I appreciate your feedback, but after looking at the situation on my own for a few days, I politely disagree. I believe I was just overthinking it all, an admittedly bad habit of mine, but I suppose it's better than making brash decisions. He's a busy bee, and I've found out recently he works two jobs on top of being a Physics major. He brought up some travel plans I casually mentioned to him about a month ago, and how he'd be interested in tagging along, so, c'est la vie
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