Why??

do all libras expect full disclosure?

my bf found out about me being on dxp and wants to read everything . i feel this is personal. my own private space besides my chem lab. he's all in my stuff now. saying he trust me 100% but he wants to know what i do/say on here.

i know that he can easily google my username and read everything. he will catch on to that detail soon i know, he's not dumb.


but why do i have to disclose everything when he wont tell me his MW3 stats. mmm..mmm how is that fair?

he told me that my objection to full disclosure is suspicious.

i wanted to tell him stick your suspicious scorpio moon where the sun dont shine.

It doesn't mean he doesn't trust you. I want to know everything about the person I am with as well. It's about wanting a connection and truly understanding the person you are with. Just tell him that this place is like a dairy that talks back. You write out very personal stuff, things that confuse you, whatever. Tell him you love him and that you tell him most of this stuff anyway. Everyone is entitled to some privacy and he will understand that, just be nice when you say it. Don't make it sound like you won't let HIM read it, keep it about your privacy. He can't argue that.

Posted by LibraSid
It doesn't mean he doesn't trust you. I want to know everything about the person I am with as well. It's about wanting a connection and truly understanding the person you are with. Just tell him that this place is like a dairy that talks back. You write out very personal stuff, things that confuse you, whatever. Tell him you love him and that you tell him most of this stuff anyway. Everyone is entitled to some privacy and he will understand that, just be nice when you say it. Don't make it sound like you won't let HIM read it, keep it about your privacy. He can't argue that.

🙂 ok i can do that, thanks.

Posted by chemengin
do all libras expect full disclosure?

my bf found out about me being on dxp and wants to read everything . i feel this is personal. my own private space besides my chem lab. he's all in my stuff now. saying he trust me 100% but he wants to know what i do/say on here.

i know that he can easily google my username and read everything. he will catch on to that detail soon i know, he's not dumb.


but why do i have to disclose everything when he wont tell me his MW3 stats. mmm..mmm how is that fair?

he told me that my objection to full disclosure is suspicious.

i wanted to tell him stick your suspicious scorpio moon where the sun dont shine.

Libras are just like that, they want to know everything about you without you knowing everything about them.

true it is like a two way thing. i explained to him that this place is like a diary that talks back. using LibraSid words verbatim. he said oh ok. i told him he knows most of the stuff already. so he is cool with it. because if he reads what i wrote he is gonna know i know about the engagement ring. because you cant delete post on here. yea they put a line through it but thats not erasing it.

so im in a bit of a pickle and it sucks. i want it to be a surprise, his surprises are GREAT,he is really good at making people feel special.

so hopefully thats the end of it and he wont get curious and google my username. *sigh*

Yes, I meant to say that in my first post. It is a two way street. If he expects full disclosure from you he should give it as well. My personal hesitation with full disclosure is because I don't think the other person would be interested in most of my day. I like to hear every small detail of my partners day. My experience with this come from a marriage with kids though so it is different than a dating situation. I liked the detail because I was at work all the time missing the family experience, when my wife told me all the little details I felt more connected. I knew what was happening in my home. Why would she care what was happening in my office?

Glad my reasoning worked. I know I would not snoop if you said that to me. Don't worry about it.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Not really, it's like a two way thing tbh. Where's the fun in telling someone everything all at once ?

that is no fun. im fine with not knowing everything. i know some things he doesnt know, i know. but i keep it to myself. he knows all the important things about me. you know the stuff he feels is essential to know. the other stuff, he gets little bits at a time. and this was one of those times.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
You can, you made that thread right ?
Go to the bottom right and click 'select if necessary' . highlight 'suggest topic removal' and flag. it will delete the thread if you are the creator of it. 🙂

oh thank you! thank you! i thought i was for sure screwed.

Posted by LibraSid
Yes, I meant to say that in my first post. It is a two way street. If he expects full disclosure from you he should give it as well. My personal hesitation with full disclosure is because I don't think the other person would be interested in most of my day. I like to hear every small detail of my partners day. My experience with this come from a marriage with kids though so it is different than a dating situation. I liked the detail because I was at work all the time missing the family experience, when my wife told me all the little details I felt more connected. I knew what was happening in my home. Why would she care what was happening in my office?

you know he does that. we dont have kids but he likes to know what i do all day. i like that i have someone to talk to that listens. i listen to his day too, he works with some real characters.

Posted by LibraSid
Glad my reasoning worked. I know I would not snoop if you said that to me. Don't worry about it.

thank you! 🙂

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Posted by chemengin
do all libras expect full disclosure?

my bf found out about me being on dxp and wants to read everything . i feel this is personal. my own private space besides my chem lab. he's all in my stuff now. saying he trust me 100% but he wants to know what i do/say on here.

i know that he can easily google my username and read everything. he will catch on to that detail soon i know, he's not dumb.


but why do i have to disclose everything when he wont tell me his MW3 stats. mmm..mmm how is that fair?

he told me that my objection to full disclosure is suspicious.

i wanted to tell him stick your suspicious scorpio moon where the sun dont shine.

Libras are just like that, they want to know everything about you without you knowing everything about them.

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well i know a lot about him. more than he thinks i know, and its hilarious! in this instance i got guarded because he wanted to know something i didnt want him to know about. so basically i freaked out. its an aqua thing...we are guarded people. but i was able to handle it in a mature manner. using LibraSid's words LOL. 🙂

I like to know stuff about people I'm involved with too. I feel it helps me to understand them better. Last one I was keen on I googled. Found out some stuff I KNOW he would not want me to know. I'm very skilled at finding people on the internet. I found a string of failed businesses and a very old internet dating profile (at least it was either old or he is lying big time about his age and weight). LOL. Guy would DIE if he knew I know about him. Ha ha. I've googled myself and it's all good.

Posted by LibraRose
I like to know stuff about people I'm involved with too. I feel it helps me to understand them better. Last one I was keen on I googled. Found out some stuff I KNOW he would not want me to know. I'm very skilled at finding people on the internet. I found a string of failed businesses and a very old internet dating profile (at least it was either old or he is lying big time about his age and weight). LOL. Guy would DIE if he knew I know about him. Ha ha. I've googled myself and it's all good.

aaww google..whom ever created that browser is a genius 😄

Posted by chemengin


my bf found out about me being on dxp

How did he find out?

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Posted by chemengin


my bf found out about me being on dxp

How did he find out?

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my laptop was on the table and the dxp window was still up. the kettle was whistling and i forgot. he sat down and saw it.