@DESTINY0809
14 Years
WHY ARE LIBRA MEN SO CONFUSING?
Understanding Libra Men’s Confusing Behavior
Libra men often display fluctuating behavior due to their desire for balance and harmony. They seek emotional connection but can be indecisive and avoid confrontation, leading to inconsistency. Their back-and-forth actions reflect their internal struggle to maintain peace and fairness in relationships.
Perhaps it's just because I am me, but I don't think I am confusing at all. If you want to know something, ask. It would probably be helpful to know that I will speak openly and honestly about my thoughts or stance on a situation before it is in its 'final' stage though. This could give a wishy washy appearance. It really depends on what you are talking about though.
The, "Why do they give you their all for consistently for a while, than get distant, than when..." makes me think you are talking about a fairly new relationship with a libra. He comes on strong, always wanting to be around, spending excessive amounts of time and/or energy, very loving and attentive, etc, etc. I hear that is just how we are. I know I don't hold back. As for the sudden stop... what happened right before he went distant? I frequently see people mentioning this, but it is usually triggered by something. Something made him think twice about where things were going and he backed off some looking to see what you'd do. Apparently, we like to know where you stand too. If he has gone back to chasing, it's a good sign. It means he is still wanting to move forward. If you are as well, don't run too fast or far. If you start getting distant and he is trying to pull you back it is because you mean something to him. We are good at letting people go if we don't care. Some people (regardless of sign or gender) are just playing games, obviously you have to keep your eyes open for these types, but assuming that is not the case don't worry too much. Be your strong independant Aqua self, but let him know he is important to you.
im a female but have been told this as well by many iv dated and it is mostly do to having second thoughts sitting on the fence per say just did this with a Gemini male. had to sort just disappear on him had too many second thoughts.
Posted by brokenbutfixableLibragirl
im a female but have been told this as well by many iv dated and it is mostly do to having second thoughts sitting on the fence per say just did this with a Gemini male. had to sort just disappear on him had too many second thoughts.
Yeah but he gets distant for a few days or maybe a week, than finds a way to reach out to me again...We have been in eachothers lives for along time..
Posted by Sutekh
Because Libra is an air sign.
I'm an air sign as well and I am not like that..
Posted by oldskoolflavor
wishy washy behavior..
it's like a compromise btwn his need for freedom and a longing for commitment/being trapped 🙂
So in other words he's confused don't really know what he wants..
Posted by oldskoolflavor
more like ..
his mind wants to experience both worlds the same timeone minute he's in single mode .. the next one he's in rlsthip mode
God really hates libras 😢
SMH..LOL..
Posted by oldskoolflavor
more like ..
his mind wants to experience both worlds the same timeone minute he's in single mode .. the next one he's in rlsthip mode
God really hates libras 😢
SMH..LOL..
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It makes me feel like he just wants to keep me there hanging on a string..So if he sees I start to get distant, than he gets nervous to loose me, so he comes on hard again..
Were not in a relationship, just close friends and been dealing with eachother for quite some times. Known eachtoher for along time.
some time* eachother*
Posted by oldskoolflavor
bottom line:
you'll have to pressure him into picking one situation, if it's been going on for too long (from your pov)
Yeah but Libras don't like to be pressured or to put on the spot and at the same time I don't know if I am ready to put myself out there and express myself yet?
Posted by Sutekh
Because Libra is an air sign.I'm an air sign as well and I am not like that..
what house is it in and how much earth water or leo do you have.
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Ummm I don't know all that.. I am an Aquarius Sun sign Gemeni moon sign..
Posted by oldskoolflavor
bottom line:
you'll have to pressure him into picking one situation, if it's been going on for too long (from your pov)Yeah but Libras don't like to be pressured or to put on the spot and at the same time I don't know if I am ready to put myself out there and express myself yet?
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What is it you want from him then? You don't sound like you are sure, no wonder he comes close then backs off. If he starts chasing and senses your doubt, he will back off. I ain't gonna chase after someone who isn't interested.
Posted by oldskoolflavor
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you'll have to pressure him into picking one situation, if it's been going on for too long (from your pov)Yeah but Libras don't like to be pressured or to put on the spot and at the same time I don't know if I am ready to put myself out there and express myself yet?
truth is:
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Hmmmm...true so without me even saying it all may be obvious...
Posted by oldskoolflavor
bottom line:
you'll have to pressure him into picking one situation, if it's been going on for too long (from your pov)Yeah but Libras don't like to be pressured or to put on the spot and at the same time I don't know if I am ready to put myself out there and express myself yet?
truth is:
he won't like being pressured if your intention is obviousAre you Libra sun sign? And what's your moon sign?
Hmmmm...true so without me even saying it all may be obvious...
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Posted by oldskoolflavor
bottom line:
you'll have to pressure him into picking one situation, if it's been going on for too long (from your pov)Yeah but Libras don't like to be pressured or to put on the spot and at the same time I don't know if I am ready to put myself out there and express myself yet?
What is it you want from him then? You don't sound like you are sure, no wonder he comes close then backs off. If he starts chasing and senses your doubt, he will back off. I ain't gonna chase after someone who isn't interested.
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Librasid I sent you a message to your inbox..
My brother, my dad and myself are all Libras, we all are wishy washy.. Especially if you are trying to get us to make a decision... I need my space. If someone is bothering me with all their attention I have a way that it really bothers the other person and they think I no longer want them anymore. Which is not the case, I just want my personal space. And whoever said one minute they are in single mode and the other in relationship mode is so true. I know my brother and I are like that, and I suspect my dad is as well (I will never know) .. Libras are awesome when we are balanced. I mean that literally... Dont force anything. It takes time for us to decide who and what we want. Once they do the are decent people..The pain is worth the effort.
Posted by haightash
My brother, my dad and myself are all Libras, we all are wishy washy.. Especially if you are trying to get us to make a decision... I need my space. If someone is bothering me with all their attention I have a way that it really bothers the other person and they think I no longer want them anymore. Which is not the case, I just want my personal space. And whoever said one minute they are in single mode and the other in relationship mode is so true. I know my brother and I are like that, and I suspect my dad is as well (I will never know) .. Libras are awesome when we are balanced. I mean that literally... Dont force anything. It takes time for us to decide who and what we want. Once they do the are decent people..The pain is worth the effort.
I know Libras are great loving, caring, people. I have not put any pressure on him or tried to have him make a decision. I haven't even really expressed my feelings. When he acts distant and comes back I don't ask any questions I just go with the flow and play it cool. I am Aquarius and I am very independent. I like my space as well, but I don't feel I act distant or start acting funny. LOL
Posted by DESTINY0809
Why are Libra men so wishy washy? Why do they give you their all for consistently for a while, than get distant, than when you start being distant they come back on strong? And it goes on like this back and forth back and forth..What is this all about— Why do they do this?? I'm a Sun Sign Aquarius Moon sign Gemini!
So that's why they're always clinging to me :o
Posted by DESTINY0809
Why are Libra men so wishy washy? Why do they give you their all for consistently for a while, than get distant, than when you start being distant they come back on strong? And it goes on like this back and forth back and forth..What is this all about— Why do they do this?? I'm a Sun Sign Aquarius Moon sign Gemini!So that's why they're always clinging to me :o
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LOL...WHAT SIGN ARE YOU?
Sagittarius.
Male libras aren't all bad. I found one recently who is absolutely hilarious. Nothing like the libras I know. But yeah they tend to not leave me along. As a sag I get turned off very fast by someone who goes all in and won't leave me alone :/
alone*
Posted by happykitsune
Sagittarius.Male libras aren't all bad. I found one recently who is absolutely hilarious. Nothing like the libras I know. But yeah they tend to not leave me along. As a sag I get turned off very fast by someone who goes all in and won't leave me alone :/
Oh ok I see...lol, so they cause you to run..
Posted by happykitsune
Sagittarius.Male libras aren't all bad. I found one recently who is absolutely hilarious. Nothing like the libras I know. But yeah they tend to not leave me along. As a sag I get turned off very fast by someone who goes all in and won't leave me alone :/
Oh ok I see...lol, so they cause you to run..
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Like the plague!
But you know I think that's what they like...you running away. Cus I had two who wanted to marry me and one who just wouldn't leave me alone.
Lol sags are def ego centered. BUT I LOVE THEM.. .My best piece of advice would be the ones who ignores you is the one who misses you the most.. For some reason idk why, but I like it when they get sarcastic with me.. It kinda turns me on... Like if he says I miss you, say I miss me too... Or i love you I love me too thx... I wish I knew you better.. Another thing you have to watch out for in one minute we are a joy, then the next it like we are planning a funeral.Like in the bat of an eyelash how fast it changes. I dont think it cause it is hard to control without meds... 😉..
Posted by haightash
Lol sags are def ego centered. BUT I LOVE THEM.. .My best piece of advice would be the ones who ignores you is the one who misses you the most.. For some reason idk why, but I like it when they get sarcastic with me.. It kinda turns me on... Like if he says I miss you, say I miss me too... Or i love you I love me too thx... I wish I knew you better.. Another thing you have to watch out for in one minute we are a joy, then the next it like we are planning a funeral.Like in the bat of an eyelash how fast it changes. I dont think it cause it is hard to control without meds... 😉..
HMMMMMM..SMH...SO CONFRONTING HIM AND ASKING HIM WHY HE'S IGNORING ME OR WHY HE GETS DISTANCT AND ACTS DIFFERENT WOULDN'T BE A SMART THINGS TO DO?
Posted by happykitsune
But you know I think that's what they like...you running away. Cus I had two who wanted to marry me and one who just wouldn't leave me alone.
lol...i guess they like to chase, but at the same time they like attention. They are complex...lol
Posted by oldskoolflavor
bottom line:
you'll have to pressure him into picking one situation, if it's been going on for too long (from your pov)Yeah but Libras don't like to be pressured or to put on the spot and at the same time I don't know if I am ready to put myself out there and express myself yet?
What is it you want from him then? You don't sound like you are sure, no wonder he comes close then backs off. If he starts chasing and senses your doubt, he will back off. I ain't gonna chase after someone who isn't interested.
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I think Sid has a good point.
When I read your posts I am having trouble getting a handle you. You sound you are just waiting on him and not expressing yourself. He probably doesn't know what you are about either so doesn't know how to react. That's why he comes across as wishy washy. You're afraid to express your needs because you think it will scare him off. Why not try taking the reigns and gently guiding him. He might like it.
Posted by oldskoolflavor
bottom line:
you'll have to pressure him into picking one situation, if it's been going on for too long (from your pov)Yeah but Libras don't like to be pressured or to put on the spot and at the same time I don't know if I am ready to put myself out there and express myself yet?
What is it you want from him then? You don't sound like you are sure, no wonder he comes close then backs off. If he starts chasing and senses your doubt, he will back off. I ain't gonna chase after someone who isn't interested.
I think Sid has a good point.
When I read your posts I am having trouble getting a handle you. You sound you are just waiting on him and not expressing yourself. He probably doesn't know what you are about either so doesn't know how to react. That's why he comes across as wishy washy. You're afraid to express your needs because you think it will scare him off. Why not try taking the reigns and gently guiding him. He might like it.
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Hi Librarose,
How are you? Well there is alot more to it....I just didn't want to put everything out here on a message board. I will inbox you!
Girl it is hard to say... I would continue to be you... if he isnt responding then either he dont think you like him ohr you might come off too easy...dont take that the wrong way.. Power is really in your hands.. he may feel intimated or he thinks you are not able to commit oh look a butterfly... Bottom line if your getting his attention and someone else it as well let him decide. it will take a minute but either way he will go with his pee pee no his guy.. I have nothing but love for a sag
Posted by haightash
Girl it is hard to say... I would continue to be you... if he isnt responding then either he dont think you like him ohr you might come off too easy...dont take that the wrong way.. Power is really in your hands.. he may feel intimated or he thinks you are not able to commit oh look a butterfly... Bottom line if your getting his attention and someone else it as well let him decide. it will take a minute but either way he will go with his pee pee no his guy.. I have nothing but love for a sag
LOL...Thank you! I hear you! I appreciate all of the feed back!! Time will tell!
Maybe hes seeing someone else? how old are you both?
try leaving him alone
Thanks Destiny - I got your message
I can't tell if he just wants to be friends or if he wants more than that. Maybe he doesn't know either. Sorry I'm not more help.
I just saw in your other post that he is a Scorp moon. So am I. We like total commitment from our lovers. He can probably sense that you are less than committed. He is subconsciously testing you when he pulls away. Might be a little bit too much air between you. Google Scorpio Moon - it's an interesting read.
Posted by LibraRose
Thanks Destiny - I got your messageI can't tell if he just wants to be friends or if he wants more than that. Maybe he doesn't know either. Sorry I'm not more help.
Hi Sweety it's ok thanks for your feedback!!
Posted by LibraRose
I just saw in your other post that he is a Scorp moon. So am I. We like total commitment from our lovers. He can probably sense that you are less than committed. He is subconsciously testing you when he pulls away. Might be a little bit too much air between you. Google Scorpio Moon - it's an interesting read.
He is Libra moon!!
Posted by LibraRose
I just saw in your other post that he is a Scorp moon. So am I. We like total commitment from our lovers. He can probably sense that you are less than committed. He is subconsciously testing you when he pulls away. Might be a little bit too much air between you. Google Scorpio Moon - it's an interesting read.He is Libra moon!!
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Oppps - it was late when I was here last!! Libra moon - no idea! Probably easier to deal with than a Scorp moon anyway.
One of my best male friends is a Libra and I've never experienced this. But of course we are friends in the true sense of the word. We never dated, never had any physical contact outside of hugging to great each other. He always has some female in his life (typical Libra) and when he starts to get distant it's because he's questioning the relationship. I don't know how to interpret your situation because you say you are just friends. Overall, he's completely dedicated and when that stops or becomes sporadic its usually because he's on the verge of ending it. However, they are excellent verbal communicators so just talk to him. My friend has a Libra moon as well.
Posted by PiscesFebFish
One of my best male friends is a Libra and I've never experienced this. But of course we are friends in the true sense of the word. We never dated, never had any physical contact outside of hugging to great each other. He always has some female in his life (typical Libra) and when he starts to get distant it's because he's questioning the relationship. I don't know how to interpret your situation because you say you are just friends. Overall, he's completely dedicated and when that stops or becomes sporadic its usually because he's on the verge of ending it. However, they are excellent verbal communicators so just talk to him. My friend has a Libra moon as well.
So far he has always came back! We are ver very close good friends, but also more than that..He has his days the his hot and his days he's cold..He gets distant and I don't hear from him for a few days, but than he always ends up reaching out...
Hi
I am a Libra and we all differ although we are be Libra's. I was emotionally aloof when I was unhappy in my marriage, usually lack of sex, once every few months. I would get very grumpy and quite. I have recently read a lot of books and work real hard on myself and my Sagittarius wife says I have become a god! hehe nice. The fact is for me when I become emotionally distant it is because I need to be intimate, and not just a quickie, I want to be romanced! I love that shit! Now cause our sex life has improved all I want to do is cuddle and bring her the moon. We Libra's love to treat our lovers, and we are very good at it. I am not saying that if your Libra man is aloof that he needs some sexy time, but for me it changes my world. Oh and this may be a bit off topic, but I realized that making love with a condom skews up a relationship big time!!!
The exchange of hormones and vitamins in the fluids of each partner is what creates the chemical bond. I made love to my wife, then my girlfriend for 8 years with a condom and was never ever satisfied and started avoiding sex because I did not get the BOOST everyone was talking about. A few weeks ago my wife and I did it bare. OMG!!!! the next week I had eminence energy and one hell of a good mood! I am not saying have unprotected sex but rather use a cervical cap or membrane. Nature defiantly has a system when it comes to human sex time for the chemicals to exchange. What I am trying to say is that a Star sign is not always to blame for everything, sometimes it can be easy fixes. There are many star signs that have married so called incompatible partners, but because they work hard on finding solutions for there differences they flourish! I don't want this to be all about love making, but usually men not just Libra's get emotionally distant when they are unhappy in a relationship that is rocky for what ever reason. And many people say Libra's will bail or cheat once the relationship gets rocky. I have never ever bailed without talking it out and never cheated once in my 30 year life, I never even look at other women cause i am totally devoted to my sag wife! So much for that Libra BS!
I am a Libra and we all differ although we are be Libra's. I was emotionally aloof when I was unhappy in my marriage, usually lack of sex, once every few months. I would get very grumpy and quite. I have recently read a lot of books and work real hard on myself and my Sagittarius wife says I have become a god! hehe nice. The fact is for me when I become emotionally distant it is because I need to be intimate, and not just a quickie, I want to be romanced! I love that shit! Now cause our sex life has improved all I want to do is cuddle and bring her the moon. We Libra's love to treat our lovers, and we are very good at it. I am not saying that if your Libra man is aloof that he needs some sexy time, but for me it changes my world. Oh and this may be a bit off topic, but I realized that making love with a condom skews up a relationship big time!!!
The exchange of hormones and vitamins in the fluids of each partner is what creates the chemical bond. I made love to my wife, then my girlfriend for 8 years with a condom and was never ever satisfied and started avoiding sex because I did not get the BOOST everyone was talking about. A few weeks ago my wife and I did it bare. OMG!!!! the next week I had eminence energy and one hell of a good mood! I am not saying have unprotected sex but rather use a cervical cap or membrane. Nature defiantly has a system when it comes to human sex time for the chemicals to exchange. What I am trying to say is that a Star sign is not always to blame for everything, sometimes it can be easy fixes. There are many star signs that have married so called incompatible partners, but because they work hard on finding solutions for there differences they flourish! I don't want this to be all about love making, but usually men not just Libra's get emotionally distant when they are unhappy in a relationship that is rocky for what ever reason. And many people say Libra's will bail or cheat once the relationship gets rocky. I have never ever bailed without talking it out and never cheated once in my 30 year life, I never even look at other women cause i am totally devoted to my sag wife! So much for that Libra BS!
Hello, how are you? WEll him and I are not in a relationship.. We are friends with benefits, I guess you can say..But above all we are very good/close friends. WE can talk about everything and anything except for us or our
I am a Libra and we all differ although we are be Libra's. I was emotionally aloof when I was unhappy in my marriage, usually lack of sex, once every few months. I would get very grumpy and quite. I have recently read a lot of books and work real hard on myself and my Sagittarius wife says I have become a god! hehe nice. The fact is for me when I become emotionally distant it is because I need to be intimate, and not just a quickie, I want to be romanced! I love that shit! Now cause our sex life has improved all I want to do is cuddle and bring her the moon. We Libra's love to treat our lovers, and we are very good at it. I am not saying that if your Libra man is aloof that he needs some sexy time, but for me it changes my world. Oh and this may be a bit off topic, but I realized that making love with a condom skews up a relationship big time!!!
The exchange of hormones and vitamins in the fluids of each partner is what creates the chemical bond. I made love to my wife, then my girlfriend for 8 years with a condom and was never ever satisfied and started avoiding sex because I did not get the BOOST everyone was talking about. A few weeks ago my wife and I did it bare. OMG!!!! the next week I had eminence energy and one hell of a good mood! I am not saying have unprotected sex but rather use a cervical cap or membrane. Nature defiantly has a system when it comes to human sex time for the chemicals to exchange. What I am trying to say is that a Star sign is not always to blame for everything, sometimes it can be easy fixes. There are many star signs that have married so called incompatible partners, but because they work hard on finding solutions for there differences they flourish! I don't want this to be all about love making, but usually men not just Libra's get emotionally distant when they are unhappy in a relationship that is rocky for what ever reason. And many people say Libra's will bail or cheat once the relationship gets rocky. I have never ever bailed without talking it out and never cheated once in my 30 year life, I never even look at other women cause i am totally devoted to my sag wife! So much for that Libra BS!click to expandHello, how are you? WEll him and I are not in a relationship.. We are friends with benefits, I guess you can say..But above all we ar
DESTINY0809
Myself as a Libra, one of the traits that i hate about myself is that I will become distant without reason. I apologize for all Libras. But Libras want to talk it out!!! be straight and say what is bothering you. Just make sure your timing is right. Be sincere and don't attack him, he will retaliate. Myself as a Libra loves to talk intimately. unfortunately I have no idea what you mean "with benefits". Are you friends or do you have a sexual relationship? Libras are not the kind for half toned relationships, they want to be all in or nothing. Don't hold him on a string. I have been out of the dating thing for many years, I have a wonderful marriage that I am perfecting, we like to perfect everything. And a wishy washy relationship isn't perfect!
Yeah, I was a little confused about how to interpret their relationship. When someone says they are friends, I think friends-not sexual. I personally dont fuck my friends. Are you having sex with him in hopes of it turning into a "relationship"
i think all men do this regardless of sun sign
Posted by libnicole84
i think all men do this regardless of sun sign
Yes, I think you are right. Do you think sun, star, moon whatever sign makes that a big a difference?
Don't you think there are to many variables to take into account to only rely on the star signs? maybe we seek easy answers for our troubles. I guess our experience in his reality is way to rich to just categorize it so simply. Even if I do a full numerological & astrological analysis I will still get people with vast anomalies. Yes much of it is very true, but maybe for a person's sign to fully develop into what is is suppose to be that person should have minimum outside influence. I mean life itself, or that what we call reality has a major influence on our minds. Could it be possible that we are actually suppose to break the astrological or numerical bond we have in this world. I mean if we act everything like we are supposed to according to our sign, aren't we mere pre-programmed robots? Couldn't it be that the less we are like our supposed sign, the more we have a sense of self and that we are more in control of our own life's, and not that of some script? If I look at my own Libra life, I have shaken off many of the traits, cause of my work, love & life environment.
So yes the fact that men get distant has probably got nothing to with the sign, but cause hes a human.
They like the chase , I think they like how it feel to chase some one , then when they feel like they got u they ready for something more interesting to chase. So when u stop and become distant ,they want to see can they get u a gain . I really never got pass the back and forth fase, I had a guy I dated done this to me about three times then I seen him a year later and he done it again. He was fun and exciting but afterwhile I became bored and tired of the games. I would love to here someone who was actually in a relationship with these people and how it work out.
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Why are Libra men so wishy washy? Why do they give you their all for consistently for a while, than get distant, than when you start being distant they come back on strong? And it goes on like this back and forth back and forth..What is this all about— Why do they do this?? I'm a Sun Sign Aquarius Moon sign Gemini!