why a cancer woman?

why a cancer woman?

For whatever reason I find myself swarmed by the Libras and the Aries. What's that about? The more I resist the more they won't let it die.
What's the attraction? for those of you who know what I'm talking about.

*gasps*
Do you mean to say us cancerian ladies aren't gentle and likeable underneath?

So Libra Man and Cancer Woman is a bad idea?

Libra man and cancer woman is a good match. I know this match in real life going on their 5th year together this month. Here is the weird partner, which really makes me wonder why I said it's a GOOD match.

Both the parties are partner oriented, as in don't know how to be single or don't really function well when single.

Both parties are non-confrontational and peace loving. Just to avoid rocking the boat, a lot of important issues are swept umder the rug. For example, the cancer chick introduced the libra to her family and close friends within couple months of them dating because she became attached/in love instantaneously. On the same note, in my experience, cancers fall in love easily! Give it a week and they are in love with you. I've had a lot of cancer men like me I the past. I was only their friend. They claimed that they "loved" me. Yeah whatever! Confusing crush/infatuation with love! Anyway, the libra stil hasn't introduced the poor girl to his family even though the friends have been introduced. It's really agitating for the cancer girl that the libra is not introducing her to his family, but she doesn't do much about that because she doesn't like rocking the boat and having the libra disappear.

The libra loves her or say he says but cheats on her secretly. She doesn't know. She may have an idea because she gets suspicious. I bet she hasan idea because a woman's intuition is pretty strong. But she prefers to be an ostrich with her head in the sand because she doesn't want to lose him.

I'm the libra dude's friend and I know all this because I see them together and he tells me his issues with her and what not. I'm really against my friend cheating on her and always tell him not to, but he doesn't listen to me. I feel for the cancer chick but there is really nothing I can do.

The only reason I find this union good is because something (not addressing the crucial issues) keeps them together and they are very much alike (non confrontational, sticking around in an unhappy relationship because they fear being single, needy, clingy). I'm friends with the libra and I find him pretty clingy.

There you have my input on this match.

Posted by aquarius09
Libra man and cancer woman is a good match. I know this match in real life going on their 5th year together this month. Here is the weird partner, which really makes me wonder why I said it's a GOOD match.

Both the parties are partner oriented, as in don't know how to be single or don't really function well when single.

Both parties are non-confrontational and peace loving. Just to avoid rocking the boat, a lot of important issues are swept umder the rug. For example, the cancer chick introduced the libra to her family and close friends within couple months of them dating because she became attached/in love instantaneously. On the same note, in my experience, cancers fall in love easily! Give it a week and they are in love with you. I've had a lot of cancer men like me I the past. I was only their friend. They claimed that they "loved" me. Yeah whatever! Confusing crush/infatuation with love! Anyway, the libra stil hasn't introduced the poor girl to his family even though the friends have been introduced. It's really agitating for the cancer girl that the libra is not introducing her to his family, but she doesn't do much about that because she doesn't like rocking the boat and having the libra disappear.

The libra loves her or say he says but cheats on her secretly. She doesn't know. She may have an idea because she gets suspicious. I bet she hasan idea because a woman's intuition is pretty strong. But she prefers to be an ostrich with her head in the sand because she doesn't want to lose him.

I'm the libra dude's friend and I know all this because I see them together and he tells me his issues with her and what not. I'm really against my friend cheating on her and always tell him not to, but he doesn't listen to me. I feel for the cancer chick but there is really nothing I can do.

The only reason I find this union good is because something (not addressing the crucial issues) keeps them together and they are very much alike (non confrontational, sticking around in an unhappy relationship because they fear being single, needy, clingy). I'm friends with the libra and I find him pretty clingy.

There you have my input on this match.

They sound dysfunctional as fuck, how could you call that a good pairing haha. Neither of them want to be there but afraid to be alone.

Posted by LibraSid

Posted by aquarius09
Libra man and cancer woman is a good match. I know this match in real life going on their 5th year together this month.

The libra loves her or say he says but cheats on her secretly. She doesn't know.

They sound dysfunctional as fuck, how could you call that a good pairing haha. Neither of them want to be there but afraid to be alone.

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WTF—?

Libra cheats on Cancer regularly, and they are a "good match?"

Aquarius, get off the drugs, dude.

I attract a lot of Libras as well. I think it's due to my femininity and softness and grace. But I also have 3 prominent planets in Leo that may have a lot to do with it.

A lot of what I've read about cancer sounds like good partner stuff. Clingy is only clingy if it is unwanted or overboard. Willing to put in work and not give up at small bumps is a good thing people.

I had wanted to say more about aqua09's post yesterday. That could be a good pairing if the libra in the example wasn't the whore type. A good libra man would recognize a good loving woman and treat her right. You said you are the libra's fried, are you also the cancer's friend or only cause the bf? If you are her friend too you should tell him to come clean, end it, or you tell. If you ain't her friend and just his I'd tell him to either not let me know about the cheating or not to bring the gf around and want me to befriend but lie to them. I'll lie for a friend, but not to a friend. If we're all friends together I will not be involved in lies.

I had a female cancer friend in TX. I met her shortly after my divorce, she was in a bad marriage too. We texted and emailed, we worked near each other so we'd meet for lunch occasionally. Nothing more ever happened, I was always a gentleman... even though I'm sure there were a few times I could have changed that if I wanted. Had the situation been different I could see myself working very well with someone like her. We got along great, had fun, and could talk for hours... of course that's how I am with most people. Haha.

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Posted by aquarius09
Libra man and cancer woman is a good match. I know this match in real life going on their 5th year together this month.

The libra loves her or say he says but cheats on her secretly. She doesn't know.

They sound dysfunctional as fuck, how could you call that a good pairing haha. Neither of them want to be there but afraid to be alone.

WTF—?

Libra cheats on Cancer regularly, and they are a "good match?"

Aquarius, get off the drugs, dude.

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No, I don't do drgs, never have. LOL! To people who are not close to this couple, they would call their relationship good because the front/impression they give off is amazing!!!

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Posted by aquarius09
Libra man and cancer woman is a good match. I know this match in real life going on their 5th year together this month.

The libra loves her or say he says but cheats on her secretly. She doesn't know.

They sound dysfunctional as fuck, how could you call that a good pairing haha. Neither of them want to be there but afraid to be alone.

WTF—?

Libra cheats on Cancer regularly, and they are a "good match?"

Aquarius, get off the drugs, dude.

Lmfao!

That wasn't nothing but an astro diss disguised as advice.

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Oh sugarfoot, stop being so paranoid. Lol. I was merely describing their relationship. I wasn't dissing anyone. Personally, I think they are beyond dysfunctional like Librasid, but suppose an acquaintance of theirs wrote on here, they would call it a good pairing. How else do you go five yrs? Five years even in pretense isn't easy.

Posted by LibraSid
A lot of what I've read about cancer sounds like good partner stuff. Clingy is only clingy if it is unwanted or overboard. Willing to put in work and not give up at small bumps is a good thing people.

I had wanted to say more about aqua09's post yesterday. That could be a good pairing if the libra in the example wasn't the whore type. A good libra man would recognize a good loving woman and treat her right. You said you are the libra's fried, are you also the cancer's friend or only cause the bf? If you are her friend too you should tell him to come clean, end it, or you tell. If you ain't her friend and just his I'd tell him to either not let me know about the cheating or not to bring the gf around and want me to befriend but lie to them. I'll lie for a friend, but not to a friend. If we're all friends together I will not be involved in lies.

I had a female cancer friend in TX. I met her shortly after my divorce, she was in a bad marriage too. We texted and emailed, we worked near each other so we'd meet for lunch occasionally. Nothing more ever happened, I was always a gentleman... even though I'm sure there were a few times I could have changed that if I wanted. Had the situation been different I could see myself working very well with someone like her. We got along great, had fun, and could talk for hours... of course that's how I am with most people. Haha.

Yeah, libra and cancer is a good match if libra wasn't such a manwhore. I've asked him why he stays with her if he's so goddamn unhappy and it's because:

A) another gf worthy person hasn't shown up

B) cancer chick is super nurturing and lovely! Like she cooks for him and really just makes him feel loved to a point that she smothers. I personally feel bad because she can do so much better. My friend is an asshole who takes her lovely gestures for granted. I really like ths girl!! I feel like she's settling with my libra friend

I am ONLY friends with the libra. If I was friends with both, then I would do exactly what you said,Sid.

Cancer, Libra, Aries = Cardinal sign attraction

Libra and Cancer have a lot in common. Would be a great match if it weren't for the pesky emotions vs logic issue. Once those two collide it becomes a big elephant in the room.

Aries and Cancer is a masculine meets feminine attraction of the opposites and Knight in shinning armor meets his Damsel in distress. But these two have different relationship style s and expectations.