Strange thing happened to me

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@scorpbynature
13 Years

So my cancer ex girlfriend recently called me at 2 in the morning to ask me if I had sex with a girl who has been driving me to school for the past 4 months. I told her no but she firmly believes that we did claiming that she had a dream that we did. Funny thing is I did about 2 months ago and I never told a soul. The only thing I'm wondering is, is it jealousy or is she some sort of psychic?

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@scorpbynature
13 Years

Posted by geminicandIe
She is a psychic and possibly a psycho who not only will break up with you, but will also cut your dick off!! 😈

I've been trying to break up with her since April but she keeps trying to get me back... Yeah I should probably move and change my phone number.

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@Andalusia
12 Years5,000+ Posts

She could genuinely have some psychic abilities. Or she could have found out some other way and be using the dream explanation as a cover or excuse.

The sooner boys realize that some girls have an unofficial "Harriet Tubman"-like network of communication and information, the better off they'd be. It works somewhat along the same lines as the Underground Railroad.

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@scorpbynature
13 Years

Posted by Andalusia

The sooner boys realize that some girls have an unofficial "Harriet Tubman"-like network of communication and information, the better off they'd be. It works somewhat along the same lines as the Underground Railroad.

Interesting, I noticed this with my pisces ex. Guess I should probably watch where my scorp tail goes.

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Posted by Andalusia
She could genuinely have some psychic abilities. Or she could have found out some other way and be using the dream explanation as a cover or excuse.

The sooner boys realize that some girls have an unofficial "Harriet Tubman"-like network of communication and information, the better off they'd be. It works somewhat along the same lines as the Underground Railroad.

bwahaha +1

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@Andalusia
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You'd be surprised the amount of information one can gather by simply pretending you already know about it, or that you don't care about it.

She might have already had a hunch about it, then had the dream which validated the hunch, and then asked around to authenticate it.

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@Andalusia
12 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Andalusia
You'd be surprised the amount of information one can gather by simply pretending they already know about it, or that they don't care about it.

She might have already had a hunch about it, then had the dream which validated the hunch, and then asked around to authenticate it.

Oops.. *fixed. In case my meaning was a little confusing before.

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@scorpbynature
13 Years

@GeminiCandle I didn't cheat on her actually, me and her had broken up for some time and stopped talking for two months and during that time it happened.

@Andalusia The problem is there was no one to ask about it, but I guess its because the girl was known to be very sexually promiscuous except me. No one ever tells me these things lol

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I know this isn't really what your original question was about, but I'm gonna say it anyways.. If you know you don't want to be with her, and genuinely have been trying to get rid of her since April, I'd say explain to her that a clean break is best and then block her number.

Taking her calls at 2 a.m. and trying to pacify her emotions is something a boyfriend would do, IMO. It might be sending her mixed signals.. And at the very least, acknowledging her inappropriate behavior is only reinforcing her belief that it is acceptable.

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@scorpbynature
13 Years

Posted by Andalusia
I know this isn't really what your original question was about, but I'm gonna say it anyways.. If you know you don't want to be with her, and genuinely have been trying to get rid of her since April, I'd say explain to her that a clean break is best and then block her number.

Taking her calls at 2 a.m. and trying to pacify her emotions is something a boyfriend would do, IMO. It might be sending her mixed signals.. And at the very least, acknowledging her inappropriate behavior is only reinforcing her belief that it is acceptable.

I know but making the right decisions is hard, plus I don't like hurting people's feelings but at this point I might as well

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@scorpbynature
13 Years

Posted by LunarMaiden
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So you lied to her?

Yeah I did but she doesn't believe me

How about you tell her the truth of how you feel?
Stop taking her calls.

Maybe then she can move.
But I think you like the attention and drama.

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You don't know how many times I've told her to leave me alone and left her crying. I told her multiple times to stop talking to me and ignored her calls for months. Only problem is we have the same circle of friends so either way we always end up in the same place at the same time.

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Well, hmm...

Typically Cancers (well most signs, really) will not go where they do not feel welcome or wanted - of course it's dependent on the individual, their age, upbringing, other placements, etc.. BUT they actually have to believe they are not welcome or wanted.

Depending on how you tried to end things with her and your interactions and conversations since then, she probably doesn't yet feel unwelcome or unwanted. That Libra Merc can be a bit of a diplomat. You don't have to "be mean" but you DO need to make sure you get your point across. In terms she can understand. And don't make it about you (any self-deprecating remarks will probably just kick in her nurturing qualities) or about her as individuals.. Make it about the two of you together - that you love/care for her, ultimately the two of you just aren't compatible. That's something

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13 Years

Posted by geminicandIe
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Anyway, you just wait young scorpio.

Soon you'll get a taste of your own medicine...

Too late already had my heart broken this yea
r, might as well die too

Ohhhh really?
What happened?

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Fell in love with a pisces girl, she had a lot of baggage, and no matter how much I tried she only pushed me away. Its like she'd say she love me one day and the next day she'd broke up with me. Now she lives far away, never told her how I really felt though

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13 Years

Posted by Andalusia
Well, hmm...

Typically Cancers (well most signs, really) will not go where they do not feel welcome or wanted - of course it's dependent on the individual, their age, upbringing, other placements, etc.. BUT they actually have to believe they are not welcome or wanted.

Depending on how you tried to end things with her and your interactions and conversations since then, she probably doesn't yet feel unwelcome or unwanted. That Libra Merc can be a bit of a diplomat. You don't have to "be mean" but you DO need to make sure you get your point across. In terms she can understand. And don't make it about you (any self-deprecating remarks will probably just kick in her nurturing qualities) or about her as individuals.. Make it about the two of you together - that you love/care for her, ultimately the two of you just aren't compatible. That's something

I did try something like that but I guess I wasn't firm enough with it

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Posted by scorpbynature
Posted by LunarMaiden
Posted by scorpbynature
Posted by Rabbit
So you lied to her?

Yeah I did but she doesn't believe me

How about you tell her the truth of how you feel?
Stop taking her calls.

Maybe then she can move.
But I think you like the attention and drama.

You don't know how many times I've told her to leave me alone and left her crying. I told her multiple times to stop talking to me and ignored her calls for months. Only problem is we have the same circle of friends so either way we always end up in the same place at the same time.

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Are you still having sex with her?

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@Andalusia
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Posted by scorpbynature
Posted by Andalusia
Well, hmm...

Typically Cancers (well most signs, really) will not go where they do not feel welcome or wanted - of course it's dependent on the individual, their age, upbringing, other placements, etc.. BUT they actually have to believe they are not welcome or wanted.

Depending on how you tried to end things with her and your interactions and conversations since then, she probably doesn't yet feel unwelcome or unwanted. That Libra Merc can be a bit of a diplomat. You don't have to "be mean" but you DO need to make sure you get your point across. In terms she can understand. And don't make it about you (any self-deprecating remarks will probably just kick in her nurturing qualities) or about her as individuals.. Make it about the two of you together - that you love/care for her, ultimately the two of you just aren't compatible. That's something

I did try something like that but I guess I wasn't firm enough with it

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Or she could be dense and/or crazy..

Or I could be talking out of my ass..

There could be lots of explanations..

So many variables..

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@scorpbynature
13 Years

Posted by LunarMaiden
Posted by scorpbynature
Posted by LunarMaiden
Posted by scorpbynature
Posted by Rabbit
So you lied to her?

Yeah I did but she doesn't believe me

How about you tell her the truth of how you feel?
Stop taking her calls.

Maybe then she can move.
But I think you like the attention and drama.

You don't know how many times I've told her to leave me alone and left her crying. I told her multiple times to stop talking to me and ignored her calls for months. Only problem is we have the same circle of friends so either way we always end up in the same place at the same time.

Are you still having sex with her?

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Wise man once said when you whip it out you gotta use it. But she came onto me pretty forcefully as though

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13 Years

Posted by geminicandIe
Posted by scorpbynature
Posted by geminicandIe
Posted by scorpbynature
Posted by geminicandIe
Anyway, you just wait young scorpio.

Soon you'll get a taste of your own medicine...

Too late already had my heart broken this yea
r, might as well die too

Ohhhh really?
What happened?

Fell in love with a pisces girl, she had a lot of baggage, and no matter how much I tried she only pushed me away. Its like she'd say she love me one day and the next day she'd broke up with me. Now she lives far away, never told her how I really felt though

Damn, that's terrible!
You need a hug or ride or something? Lol...jeez.

Also, how old are you?

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19

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13 Years

Thing is I wasn't asking for advice on what to do, I was only asking if she was psychic or being jealous. I don't need anyone to tell me how much of an asshole or a psychopath I am because I know this already lol

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Posted by scorpbynature
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Posted by scorpbynature
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Posted by scorpbynature
Posted by Rabbit
So you lied to her?

Yeah I did but she doesn't believe me

How about you tell her the truth of how you feel?
Stop taking her calls.

Maybe then she can move.
But I think you like the attention and drama.

You don't know how many times I've told her to leave me alone and left her crying. I told her multiple times to stop talking to me and ignored her calls for months. Only problem is we have the same circle of friends so either way we always end up in the same place at the same time.

Are you still having sex with her?

Wise man once said when you whip it out you gotta use it. But she came onto me pretty forcefully as though

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I had a feeling you were still fucking this girl. She's not the problem, YOU ARE! YOU are the one who can't let HER go! Stop being a dick head and wrap that dick up in plaster cast!

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@scorpbynature
13 Years

Posted by LunarMaiden
Posted by scorpbynature
Posted by LunarMaiden
Posted by scorpbynature
Posted by LunarMaiden
Posted by scorpbynature
Posted by Rabbit
So you lied to her?

Yeah I did but she doesn't believe me

How about you tell her the truth of how you feel?
Stop taking her calls.

Maybe then she can move.
But I think you like the attention and drama.

You don't know how many times I've told her to leave me alone and left her crying. I told her multiple times to stop talking to me and ignored her calls for months. Only problem is we have the same circle of friends so either way we always end up in the same place at the same time.

Are you still having sex with her?

Wise man once said when you whip it out you gotta use it. But she came onto me pretty forcefully as though

I had a feeling you were still fucking this girl. She's not the problem, YOU ARE! YOU are the one who can't let HER go! Stop being a dick head and wrap that dick up in plaster cast!

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I probably need to be neutered πŸ™‚

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Posted by scorpbynature
Thing is I wasn't asking for advice on what to do, I was only asking if she was psychic or being jealous. I don't need anyone to tell me how much of an asshole or a psychopath I am because I know this already lol

Of course not, because you actually enjoy it.
I don't think you need to be a psychic to figure out that you are sleeping with this other woman.
If she saw you riding with this girl and she has a rep for sleeping around and you are the type to whip your dick out quick it's a no brainier.

She could be making her way to coming to terms with the end of this relationship. Curiosity maybe. Or maybe she knows this girl as an STD.

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Posted by scorpbynature
Posted by LunarMaiden
Posted by scorpbynature
Posted by LunarMaiden
Posted by scorpbynature
Posted by LunarMaiden
Posted by scorpbynature
Posted by Rabbit
So you lied to her?

Yeah I did but she doesn't believe me

How about you tell her the truth of how you feel?
Stop taking her calls.

Maybe then she can move.
But I think you like the attention and drama.

You don't know how many times I've told her to leave me alone and left her crying. I told her multiple times to stop talking to me and ignored her calls for months. Only problem is we have the same circle of friends so either way we always end up in the same place at the same time.

Are you still having sex with her?

Wise man once said when you whip it out you gotta use it. But she came onto me pretty forcefully as though

I had a feeling you were still fucking this girl. She's not the problem, YOU ARE! YOU are the one who can't let HER go! Stop being a dick head and wrap that dick up in plaster cast!

I probably need to be neutered πŸ™‚

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You love this shit!

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Posted by Rabbit
Posted by LunarMaiden
Posted by scorpbynature
Posted by LunarMaiden
Posted by scorpbynature
Posted by LunarMaiden
Posted by scorpbynature
Posted by Rabbit
So you lied to her?

Yeah I did but she doesn't believe me

How about you tell her the truth of how you feel?
Stop taking her calls.

Maybe then she can move.
But I think you like the attention and drama.

You don't know how many times I've told her to leave me alone and left her crying. I told her multiple times to stop talking to me and ignored her calls for months. Only problem is we have the same circle of friends so either way we always end up in the same place at the same time.

Are you still having sex with her?

Wise man once said when you whip it out you gotta use it. But she came onto me pretty forcefully as though

I had a feeling you were still fucking this girl. She's not the problem, YOU ARE! YOU are the one who can't let HER go! Stop being a dick head and wrap that dick up in plaster cast!

Plasterβ€”

That's a BIT harsh don't you think? πŸ˜›

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He get's two in one. Protection from drama and STD's and there is friction inside the cast so......

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13 Years

Posted by LunarMaiden
Posted by scorpbynature
Posted by LunarMaiden
Posted by scorpbynature
Posted by LunarMaiden
Posted by scorpbynature
Posted by LunarMaiden
Posted by scorpbynature
Posted by Rabbit
So you lied to her?

Yeah I did but she doesn't believe me

How about you tell her the truth of how you feel?
Stop taking her calls.

Maybe then she can move.
But I think you like the attention and drama.

You don't know how many times I've told her to leave me alone and left her crying. I told her multiple times to stop talking to me and ignored her calls for months. Only problem is we have the same circle of friends so either way we always end up in the same place at the same time.

Are you still having sex with her?

Wise man once said when you whip it out you gotta use it. But she came onto me pretty forcefully as though

I had a feeling you were still fucking this girl. She's not the problem, YOU ARE! YOU are the one who can't let HER go! Stop being a dick head and wrap that dick up in plaster cast!

I probably need to be neutered πŸ™‚

You love this shit!

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Not really, just trying to lighten up a pretty shitty day

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