Cancer Shell Time

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by CrabPrincess on Saturday, December 14, 2013 and has 14 replies.

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@CrabPrincess
13 Years

What's the longest time you've been in "shell time" ? Lately I've been needing a break from a few people, but I never took longer then 2-3 days but I'm thinking going longer. Just exhausted with a few things/people...

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@SamCancerGirl
14 Years500+ Posts

I did the same to a Libra friend - just needed a break from the constant play the victim vibe I got from her.

I did quite well on the no contact plan hmm maybe a year until I bumped into her kept it brief n moved on - I stopped asking about her issues...!

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@mamamia
13 Years

3 months from distant relatives and best friends .After a year abroad, I feel like something has changed in me so I have to figure that out. Can't stop thinking about last year.

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@Este8
13 Years1,000+ Posts

I tend to get down during the holidays and this is no exception. I have a couple of real tight girl friends that I've been blowing off the past couple weeks and it's getting old. Gotta pick up that phone & reconnect. But yeah, I do need down time. The cave isn't just for men.

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@CancerQB
12 Years

I'm feeling that recently too. Have the urge to rid myself of any negativity or problematic issues even my nearest and dearest may have. Mind you, have a couple of serious issues with my kids going on so that may be why Im clamming up to all else. Definately lasting longer than usual. Normally a couple of days but Im quite enjoying my shell time and the clear thinking that comes with it...showing no sign of stopping soon. Maybe an astrological reason I'm not aware of—

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@CancerQB
12 Years

Wow! !! I find it odd but freeing by the same token. I'm usually so empathetic and I feel like maybe it's a bit of me and mine time for once— Gotta be a good thing surely. Like I said before, unusual but I'm flowing with it :-)