@CrabPrincess
13 Years
Sometimes I take a break from my Aries friend for months! Then re-connect but lately I'm just not feeling it and haven't been in touch for over 2 months...
I did the same to a Libra friend - just needed a break from the constant play the victim vibe I got from her.
I did quite well on the no contact plan hmm maybe a year until I bumped into her kept it brief n moved on - I stopped asking about her issues...!
@crab princess
You are anytime welcome to knock on my shell :p
How you doing—
3 months from distant relatives and best friends .After a year abroad, I feel like something has changed in me so I have to figure that out. Can't stop thinking about last year.
Depends on the circumstances really, but as little as a day and long as a year for me just depends on the circumstances.
Years.
I tend to get down during the holidays and this is no exception. I have a couple of real tight girl friends that I've been blowing off the past couple weeks and it's getting old. Gotta pick up that phone & reconnect. But yeah, I do need down time. The cave isn't just for men.
Posted by Karka
Years.
You from Sweden !? =D Hej ! hur ?_r l?_get?
Posted by mamamia
Posted by Karka
Years.
You from Sweden !? =D Hej ! hur ?_r l?_get?
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L?_?_?_?_?_skigt.. o.O
I'm feeling that recently too. Have the urge to rid myself of any negativity or problematic issues even my nearest and dearest may have. Mind you, have a couple of serious issues with my kids going on so that may be why Im clamming up to all else. Definately lasting longer than usual. Normally a couple of days but Im quite enjoying my shell time and the clear thinking that comes with it...showing no sign of stopping soon. Maybe an astrological reason I'm not aware of—
Wow! !! I find it odd but freeing by the same token. I'm usually so empathetic and I feel like maybe it's a bit of me and mine time for once— Gotta be a good thing surely. Like I said before, unusual but I'm flowing with it :-)
Posted by Karka
Posted by mamamia
Posted by Karka
Years.
You from Sweden !? =D Hej ! hur ?_r l?_get?
L?_?_?_?_?_skigt.. o.O
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Naah just asking because I was there last year and although I did not grasp all the intricacies of the scandinavian culture I found it very interesting =)
its odd the op just posts and leaves....leaving me to adore those hot legs! :/ :p
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