Perhaps it will sound a bit clich? but give her some flowers. It's a good start. Women in general wants to be "special" and by giving her some flowers that smells good and that looks beautiful she will feel "special". It's a fact.
at first you get to know her ... then u start to ask about her via her frens ... what she like what she dont like ... any info you can gather
thanks to today technology ... you start to message her without facing her ... that clear yr awkwardness that might happen when u face her
u pay extra attention to her ... if she sick cough, get her some coughing mint candy ... if its rain ... u prepare umbrella to her ... once in a while get her fav food if u know ... if she likes something ... have some knowledge it ... or be a good listener when she speaks ... if she;s quiet ... make sure you are good at story telling ...
u crack jokes to her from time to time making her laugh ... dirty jokes are great if she ok with it i do find that jokes goes well with cancer ...
u get her hang out together ... but preferably with her frens along ... just to make sure she's comfortable ... if she is having alcohol then u better dont drink as you say u wanna drive her back ... do something impressive to the society like visiting orphanage, help those needed etc
as men ... you must look healthy, not depress, not struggling ... and not desperate be positive ...
ok ... thats all for now ... gotta go out ... this thing suddenly pops into my mind ... must be the weed
I would say...make her feel like the Goddess she is. Make her feel like a woman, make her feel the love you have for her, make her feel like a priority. I don't know if this is or isnt a cancer thing, but I never become completely emotionally available for a guy until he verbally tells (not subtle or blatant gestures or actions) me that he has made a conscious decision to make me his lady and once I therefore been given the green light, I will reciprocate your words/actions and MUCH more. Also, pay attention to the little things about her or the little things she does; showing that you appreciate her, she will blossom and her love will probably be more intense and lasting than any other.
Posted by cancerlady33 I would say...make her feel like the Goddess she is. Make her feel like a woman, make her feel the love you have for her
What the treetrunk is wrong with women? First off, advising a guy to treat her like a goddess only makes him create an image where she is on a pedastool. And men who do that quickly get to a point where they turn into doormats. And then make threads "I'm such a nice guy, what went wrong?".
What love for her? He is having a crush, he isn't in a relationship with her yet. I swear the fantasy never ends for some.
OP - Be a gentleman (harder to get by those types nowadays), initiate, be proactive and if she's into you it will go along swimmingly fine.
Women should be on a pedestal. And REAL women who are being treated like Goddesses know how to turn around and treat their man like a God. And a man doesnt have to show expansive romantic gestures to treat a woman as a Goddess. He can start off by doing things like being open and honest with her, complimenting her, etc etc.
I know where you're going with this, once they are actually dating.
If they aren't and the guy is over the top with the gestures it means either:
1. He's desperate and is behaving like that to get ANY kind of female attention. 2. He's ACTING in this way, because he heard women dig this butter.
Courting is great, treating someone like they're the love of your life off the bat, without being in a relationship with them is delusional. That would mean that the person you're into doesn't matter at all, you'd still play the same script for anyone.