WHY DO LIBRA'S GET SO COMFORTABLE IN RELATIONSHIPS

I AM A SAGITTARIUS FEMALE THAT HAVE BEEN ON AND OFF WITH A LIBRA MAN FOR TWO YEARS AND POSSIBLY THREE DEPENDING ON HOW I FEEL WHEN I MAKE UP MY MIND ABOUT HIM. WE HAVE BEEN IN A TOUGH RELATIONSHIP MAN BECAUSE OF COURSE I AM A SAG AND I GET SCARED AND VERY INSECURE WHEN IT COMES TO A RELATIONSHIP THAT I TURLY CARE FOR IF I FALL TO DEEP ARE MY FEELINGS BECOME TO INTENSE THEN I WILL RUN AWAY FROM THE RELATIONSHIP JUST LIKE THAT AND SEEK OUT SOME OTHER COMPAION'S.. BUT WHEN I MET HIM I LET HIM CHASE ME UP UNTIL THIS DAY BECAUSE LIBRA'S TEND TO GET WAY TO DAMN COMFORTABLE IN A RELATIONSHIP AND ME BEING A SAG I HAVE TO BRING THE FIRE BACK AN I DO BUT LIBRA DOES NOT UNDERSTAND ME AND MY INTETNTIONS ARE GOOD BUT OF COURSE PEOPLE MISUNDERSTAND THE SAG. I AM VERY STRONG AND LIBRA IS VERY WEAK. I HAVE MADE HIM STRONGER BY BEING HARD ON HIM BECAUSE FROM JUMP HE WAS TO SOFT NOW HE IS TO HARD AND HAS TURNED INTO A WEED SMOKING MONSTER AND SEEMS LIKE HE WONT TURN BACK? HE WANTS ME THE SAG TO CHASE HIM AND HE AINT EVEN PUTTIN IT ON ME AS GOOD ANYMORE FOR A WHOLE DAMN YEAR AND ME BEING AN HONEST AND FATIHFUL SAG I HAVE WAITED AND THE SEX IS WAY TO CASUAL? SO MY QUESTION IS WHY IS THIS LIBRA MAN STILL MAD AND WONT CHANGE BACK TO HE WAS? ALSO WHY ARE LIBRA'S SO CASUAL TOWARDS SEX I MEAN SAG'S LOVE SEX WE TAKE THAT SEROIOULSY AND IF THE SEX GETS BAD ENOUGH WE WILL GET BORED AND START SEARCHING FOR MORE? IM SO CONFUSED I AM BEING STINGY WITH SEX NOW AND HAVE BEEN FOR ALMOST A MONTH AND I TOLD HIMN YESTERDAY I JUST WANNA BE COOL WIT HIM AND NOW I AM LOOKING AT OTHER GUYS MORE THAN EVER BEFORE? WHAT SHOULD I DO ABOUT THIS LIBRA MAN?? WHY HAS THIS LIBRA MAN BECOME SO COMFORTABLE AND WHAT WILL IT TAKE FOR HIM TO SEE THAT?

Libras just do better with companionship, not so much casual but the real deal. if the sex is boring to libra, you betcha.... the search begins for something else..BORING SEX ....YUCK!!!

Next to my former Taurean, Sags have been the most boring lay I have ever had. Very selfish lovers IME.
But I digress, Maybe its the way you approach him about it or maybe you gave off some bad vibes. Libras do quite well at feeling people out. And your post just kinda comes off as your an abrassive person. That can make a libra shut down. And witholding sex from a Libra NEVER works. We are kings and queens at manipulation games so thats a battle you wont win.

What do you mean by casual?

Libras are detached about sex, which can come off as being "casual." We LOOOVE sex, but to us, it isn't the element of a relationship that is difficult...

Sex to a libra is an art form. A relationship is a neccesity. You can't have one without the other, and if the sex is bad and can't be improved upon, we will abadon ship. However, if the sex is great and the relationship worthless you might see us sticking around a bit longer...

It sounds to me like you are holding back, the libra probably senses that. We don't fall in love easily and though we may seem "soft" we are quite strong inside. Don't underestimate this man and like Virgo_Libra said: don't ever try to change a man.

OKAY NO ONE ON HERE WAS HELP BUT " A MUSE A LIBRA" SO THIS MESSAGE IS ONLY FOR HER BECAUSE OF COURSE U OTHER LIBRA'S AS ALWAYS DO NOT UNDERSTAND SAG'S AND THIS LIBRA IS MORE OPENED MINDED THEN THE REST OF YALL SO " A MUSE A LIBRA" PLEASE MESSAGE ME BACK AND OTHER LIBRAS WHO ARENT TRYING TO TALK DOWN ON A SAG . LISTEN.... WHAT I AM SAYING IS THAT HE IS WAY TO CASUAL TOWARDS SEX I KEEP IT SPONTANEOUS AND EXCITING IM NOT GONE LIE I AM STILL SHY WITH MY SEXUALITY WITH HIM BECAUSE MY CONFIDENCE IS A LITTLE DOWN I MEAN THERE IS SO MUCH THAT I WOULD LOVE TO TRY WITH HIM BUT FOR THOSE WHO DON'T KNOW WEED WHICH MY LIBRA HAS DONE FOR 3 YEARS FUCKS WITH YA GUYS DICKS U CANT KEEP IT UP LONG AND U GET TIRED AND BECOME VERY LAZY. AT THIS MOMENT HE IS ON MARAJUANA AND THAT KILLS ME TO BECAUSE HE WAS NOT LIK THIS WHEN WE FIRST MET AND LIKE I SAID ME BEING A SAG I GOT SCARED OF MY INTENSE EMOTIONS FOR MY LIBRA KEEP IN MIND SCORPIO IS MY RISING SIGN AND WHEN US SAGS GET IN LOVE TO DEEP WE RUN BECAUSE IT SCARES US AND WE BECOME AFRAID TO COMMIT. i HAVE BEEN SCARED TO COMMIT TO THIS LIBRA MAN FOR 2 AND A HALF YEARS BECAUSE WHEN I FALL INLOVE I WANT IT TO LAST AND I GET SCARED TO GET REAL MEAN TOWARDS HIM ARE PUSH HIM OFF. ITS LIKE WHEN I AM AWAY FROM THIS LIBRA MAN i MISS HIM BUT WHEN I AM AROUND HIM I DONT WANT TO BE WITH HIM I JUST WANT TO BE HIS FREIND BECAUSE I THINK AND SAY MAN I AINT READY TO COMMIT BUT DEEP DOWN I LOVE HIM. BUT NOW ARE SEX LIFE HAS CHANGED AND I AM BLUNT WITH HIM WHEN HE IS NOT PUTTIN IT ON ME RIGHT AND THAT IS HURTING US OF COURSE HE THINGS HE IS PLEASING ME AND THAT HIS DICK IS THE BEST I HAVE HAD IT USE TO BGE BUT NOW ITS NOT SO THAT'S WHY I HAVE HELD BACK MY SEX FROM THIS LIBRA MAN. I NOTICED THAT ONE LIBRA ON HERE SAID THAT U CANT HO9LD SEX BACK FROM A LIBRA BECAUSE THEY ARE VERY MANUPULATIVE... TRUST ME AND REMEMBER SAG'S FEED OFF ON INTUITION AND INSTINCT OKAY AND IT IS HARD TO GET ANYTHING PASSED US ESPECIALLY A SAG LIKE ME WITH ALOT OF SCORPIO IN ME. I JUST NEED SOME HONEST AND UP FRONT BLUNT ANSWERS ABOUT ALL THIS. WHAT SHOULD I DO WITH MY LIBRA.... LET HIM BE ARE BE THERE FOR HIM AND BRING OUT THE REAL ME SEXUALLY, PHYSICALLY. MENTALLY, AND EMOTIONLALLY? SHOULD I LET ALL GAURDS DOWN WITH A LIBRA? WHY DO LIBRA'S SCARE SAG WOMEN? WHY AM I SO AFRAID TO LOVE THIS LIBRA MAN AND COMMIT TO HIM? WHAT AM I DOING WRONG?

Sag here! Was with a libra for 4 years.....

but first JJ, your posts sound very anxious. you are not going to fix this problem over night. i know you have had a few years of frustration. But just coming out like that, your problem will not have quick solutions.

I understand the scared to commit part. That is always a thing for me as well. Libra does tend to slow down on the sex after a while but that could be a lot of ppl in general. Relationships tend to get boring after a while. My ex libra would be so proud of himself that he was a magical lover or something and trust me he was not that great, good but not great plus I dated a libra at the beginning of this year and there is a lot of sexual chemistry for this match. but he sort of fizzled in the bedroom if you know what I mean. Both of them had deemed me a worthy lover.

Most ppl have to work at it after a while. The only man that could keep up with my appetite was a Taurus. And he even got worn out sometimes. They have staying pwr. 😉

Any way, Libras can be just as good as any other sign. It depends on the two individuals in the act. I could be off on occasion as well?.. i think a lot of ppl think they are great lovers and truly are not. but what are they gonna say, "i suck in bed". lol.

oh and it really is the connection (mind as well as body) with them. if you think about how you are feeling isn't it possible that he is have some of the same frustrations.

"I KEEP IT SPONTANEOUS AND EXCITING IM NOT GONE LIE I AM STILL SHY WITH MY SEXUALITY WITH HIM BECAUSE MY CONFIDENCE IS A LITTLE DOWN"

JJyella, you have to understand something about libras...it is very important that we feel wanted and we love to be "chased." I understand these things go two ways, but if a Libra feels like they have to do all the work to keep a relationship exciting, they will back off. Also, and I can really only speak for myself, but I do believe it's true for a lot of us, if it's more exciting sex you want, he will take his cues from you. I very rarely initiate crazy spontaneous wild sex, but am ALWAYS a willing participant.

Libra loves sex, but deep down, in the back of their minds, they find it kind of sordid and dirty. At least the women do, I'm not sure exactly how that translates into the male mindframe. However, a solid relationship which isn't so focused on the sexual aspect will loosen the Libra up some.

As for him smoking too much pot...I know exactly what you're talking about. It does seriously and truly affect performance. You need to tell him up front that it bothers you. You need to be ready for the fact that he may not like that it bothers you and this could all end.

But first, I say go ahead and spice it up with him...let your guard down and he will let his down. We are really good at mirroring the behavior of the person we're with.

WEL SAGTREE AND VIRGO-LIBRA I AM SO GLAD THAT YOU UNDERSTAND BECAUSE U ARE A SAG AND U KNOW WHERE I AM COMING FROM ON THIS SO ALL I CAN SAY IS THANK YOU ON THAT. NOW VIRGO-LIBRA U ARE SO RIGHT TO....BUT LIKE I SAID MOST LIKELY I AM GOING TO HAVE TO BACK OFF THIS LIBRA SIMPLY BECAUSE I REFUSE TO CHASE HIM IT IS HIS TURN NOW AND IN MY HEART I KNOW THAT I AM WORTH THE CHASE FROM THIS LIBRA BECAUSE I AM AT GOOD GIRL AT HEART ALL SAG'S FEEL ME WE ARE NOT MEAN WE ARE JUST HARD ON THE OUTSIDE TO PROTECT OUR HEART BECAUSE WE GET EASILY WOUNDED AND HE WOUNDED ME IT WAS SMALL TO HIM BUT BIG TO ME AND UNTIL I BECOME CONFIDENT AGAIN AND LOVE MYSELF AND ACCEPT MYSELF WELL THEN I WILL BE GREAT FOR ANY SIGN. THIS LIBRA WILL ALWAYS HAVE MY HEART NO MATTER WHAT BUT I HAVE PLAYED ALL THE GAMES WITH THIS LIBRA IT IS NOW TIME FOR THIS VERY LAST GAME THAT I HAVE NEVER PLAYED WITH HIM. IT WILL BE FOR ME TO IGNORE HIM COMPLETLY I MEAN TO COME TO HIM AT ALL FOR A LONG ASS TIME BECAUSE THIS LIBRA KNOWS THAT I PLAY MY GAMES BUT THIS ONE I HAVE NEVER PLAYED WITH THIS LIBRA AND HE WILL BREAK BEFORE ME THIS TIME I GUARANTEE U THAT... THAT IS WHY LIBRA'S CAN'T HANDLE SAG'S WE ARE WAY TO STRONG FOR THEM AND I PROMISE U I WILL BREAK HIM ALL THE WAY DOWN THAT IS A PROMISE AND A PLAN. BUT THANK YOU ALL FOR GIVING ME SOME INSIGHT AND ADVICE BECAUSE JUST BY LISTENING AND THINKING AND LOOKING AT HOW LIBRA'S LIKE A CHASE WELL SAG'S CAN BE BROKEN THAT WAY BUT I AM STRONGER THAN THAT AND I GUARANTEE U THIS LIBRA WILL BE ON HIS KNEE'S WHEN I AM FINISHED WITH HIM. I LOVE HIM BUT LET THE GAMES BEGIN! HEY I KINDA LIKE THIS IT WILL BE INTRESTING AND EXCITING.

hmmmm I've been in a relationship with a libra guy and we have yet to have sex. It's been a few months. Explain that one!

pr_princess...how long have u and ur libra been together? and at the end of the day u are a women and u should not give it up fast at all my libra had to wait 7 months i mean he was horny all the time because he said that i was sexy so he stayed hard but besides that u dont need to give it up fast anyway to any guy i mean gosh come on be for real mean will leave u in a hot minute if u give it up fast see but with libra and sag they have a strong connection and a strong attraction that sag as a female has to be strong and keep her dress down because sag's are highly sexual like myself and the way that libra's charm is i would put it on him in a second but i have will power so i stay strong so u might think that this is bs but really dont ever have sex early and hell if he hasn't asked yet that's good keep a guy like that around because he is obviously waiting for u to make the move and remember libra's dont like to intiate anything so sometimes u have to be the agressor most of the time because libra's nature is very calm they are not agressive at all that has to be taught to them really and hell that might not even work

jjyella: you will make a mistake. He won't chase you because you ignore him. Libras don't work that way. He will shrug his shoulders and say..."it wasn't meant to be." and move on...

but it sounds like it might be time for you both to do just that.

Most of the time when sex is bad or not good because the relationship has other problems. Maybe you should sit back and analyze what the REAL problem is. If the communication is not there then all this playing games and what not is really not gonna do anything. You dont want a temporary way to solve this problem n playing games is all thats going to do. Look to urself and see what you want out of the relationship besides some good dick. Seriously... because you dont want to waste ur eneRgy playing games with ur Libra (which is REAlly a bad IdeA, seein as they wrote the book) to find out it was aLL a waste of time.

Goodluck.

I AGREE WITH ALL OF U ON THIS I MEAN I DONT WANT TO PLAY THAT GAME I JUST WANT TO FINALLY LOVE MYSELF ENOUGH TO LOVE THIS LIBRA MAN AND LET MY GUARD DOWN AND JUST GO ALL THE WAY....BUT I AM SO AFRAID THAT THIS LIBRA MAN MAY HURT ME SO HONESTLY MY LAST QUESTION/.....SHOULD I STOP BEING SCARED AND HAVE A HEART TO HEART WITH THIS LIBRA AND SHOW HIM HOW I REALLY FEEL? SHOULD I JUST LET 2 AND HALF YEARS GO WHEN I REALLY LOVE HIM AND I DONT WANT ANYONE ELSE I MEAN TO ME HE IS ONE OF A KIND HE WAS MY BEST FREIND BUT I NEVER GOT A CHANCE TO SHOW HIM NOW I AM RUNNING AGAIN AWAY FROM HIM...THE LAST WORDS I TOLD HIM AND THAT HE TOLD ME WAS THAT WE MISSED EACHOTHER AND WE HUGGED AND IT FELT SO GOOD BUT I GET SO JEALOUS AND SUPICIOUS FOR NO REASON AND I MAKE UP AN ARGUEMENT AND RUNAWAY FROM HIM WHEN I AM SO SAD AT THIS MOMENT AND I MISS HIM SO MUCH......I'M SO SCARED TO GET HURT THAT I WILL RUIN SOMETHING THAT FEELS SO RIGHT? MAN MAN MAN HOW MUCH I TRULY LOVE THIS LIBRA MAN!

HAVE A HEART TO HEART WITH THIS LIBRA AND SHOW HIM HOW I REALLY FEEL?

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yes

how will you know if you don't find out..?

You are young, you need to learn to do this. You're lack of trust and your fear can be replaced with a trust that has to be earned and respected. Cultivate the emotional side of yourself now, while it is still pliable and easy so that in the future, and now, when it matters, you'll have the ability and the guts to do what needs to be done.

I PROMISE U I WILL BREAK HIM ALL THE WAY DOWN THAT IS A PROMISE AND A PLAN. [...] I GUARANTEE U THIS LIBRA WILL BE ON HIS KNEE'S WHEN I AM FINISHED WITH HIM. I LOVE HIM BUT LET THE GAMES BEGIN! HEY I KINDA LIKE THIS IT WILL BE INTRESTING AND EXCITING.


Im sorry if I offended you because that was not my intent. However I was just giving you my point of view. Playing games with a libra is NOT the way to go about straightening things out. You come off as very deffensive and abbrasive. None of the libras I know like that type of behavior in the long run. Its cute to see that "spunk" at first but honestly overtime its a turn off. IMO you should take a few deep breaths because you seem to be all over the place. The best thing you can do is to go calmly to your Libra and tell him how you feel.

From reading a few more of your post it seems like you havent really delved into the issue. For a libra emotions and feelings can greatly affect sexual desire when in a relationship (although we are quite capable of "casual sex" because we can detach it depending on who the other partner is). Tell me would you really want to screw the brains out of someone you knew was holding back with you? So if he feels that you have closed apart of yourself off from him then off course he's not gonna wanna have "hanging from the ceiling fan sex" That kind of sex is reserved to show off for our lovers.

I did not realize you are only 19. There is so much more that you have yet to experience in life. IMO and this is just mine i dont speak for all libras. But if you are as axious and all over the place as your post seems to be it would make me very uneasy and out of balance because I wouldnt know how to handle it you have to many emotions running off at one time.

When you voiced to him that he wasnt "fucking you right" how did you say it? Because if you just ran up on him and said "You arent fucking me right" or "If you dont fuck me right such and such is gonna happen" then I can understand why he hasnt changed. Most libras I know dont take to ultimatums (sp) and downtalk. SO how did you say it to him?

"LUST OF A LIBRA" U ARE SO RIGHT......I KNOW I AM 19 BUT I GET LITTLE SERIOUS FOR MY AGE ....MY RISING SIGN IS CAPRICORN I ACT OLDER THAN I LOOK AND IT IS JUST BECAUSE OF WHAT I HAVE BEEN THROUGH AND IS STILL GOING THROUGH AT THIS VERY MOMENT...BUT U ARE RIGHT ABOUT HOW MY ABBRASSIVENESS AND SOMETHING ELSE U SAID CAN BE A BIG TURN OFF FOR THE LIBRA AND U ARE RIGHT HE ALWAYS TELLS ME THAT I NEED TO RELAX AND JUST CHILL AND I TRY BUT I AM SO SCARED TO BE SO COOL U KNOW BUT I MUST SAY THAT U ARE RIGHT ABOUT EVERYTHING THAT U SAID AND I WILL TAKE THAT IN MIND AND KEEP IT IN MY MIND AND MY HEART AND U ARE RIGHT THE LIBRA MUST HAVE GOTTEN SCARED AND OUR SEX MUST BE MORE THAN JUST SEX TO HIM... I MEAN U EXPLAINED EVERYTHING SO WELL....AND U KNOW WHAT I WIL KEEP THAT IN MY MIND. BUT I KNOW THAT THEY TELL US THAT SAG'S SHOULD NOT CHANGE THEIR WAYS FOR ANYONE I HAVE A LITTLE THINGS THAT I NEED TO CHANGE BUT NOT ALOT AND THEN IT ALL BOILS DOWN TO THAT LIBRA'S ARE TO WEAK FOR SAG'S....SAG'S NEED A STRONG MAN AND LIBRA'S AREN'T STRONG AT ALL. BUT IT MIGHT BE THE END U KNOW AND I AM FINALLY ACCEPTING THAT I MIGHT NOT LOVE HIM LIKE I THOUGHT I MEAN I MIGHT BE READY TO SPREAD MY WINGS. WHENEVER I HERE ABOUT MARRIAGE ARE A REALTIONSHIP MY FACE SCRUNCHES UP AND I ASK MY SELF WHY DO PEOPLE WANT TO COMMIT TO ONE PERSON NOW AND THAT SEEMS BORING BUT HEY JUST LISTENING TO U LIBRA'S I GOT INSIGHT AND IT IS KINDA MAKING ME REALIZE I MIGHT NOT REALLY BE IN LOVE WITH THIS LIBRA MAN. THANKS FOR YOUR COMMENTS ON THIS TOPIC.

Don't know how this ended for you... but I'm assuming things didn't turn out the way you thought. I'm a Libra who just stopped seeing a Sagittarius and all that game playing is what ran me out the door for good. Don't know if his antics worked in the past with someone else... but it turned me off. NEway,,, back to you. I have a lot of history with Libra males and they do get too comfortable in relationships... hence the reason I will never date another Libra male again. The bottom line is this, if the Libra male is not trying to sleep with you, he has already moved on to the next one or is not as attached to you mentally as he may have been in the past. We Libras all very mental people. We can be extremely attracted... but if there are too many mind games and you are not stimulating us mentally, we lose that sexual desire. We may still be attracted... but not enough to continue with the sex. If all you are offering is casual sex, when he offered more... that was your biggest mistake. Libras are very picky when choosing mates... if turned down... we close you out mentally, because we felt you were 'special' enough in the 1st place to even be bothered. All of my Libra male friends are really attractive and very picky. Once they choose a girl tho, they will ride out with her... but they don't choose often.

You Libras are geniuses. Fascinating.....

I Libra and love for others to look after me and go to work for me. I think they want to, all i do is ask nicely and they do it. Why would I not be comfortable in such a relationship?

Thank you so very much for doing a service to all of us here in this community and making sure we can see/read what you're saying by typing in all caps. You are a very thoughtful as well as thought provoking person.


jk

I do my best, really, i do.

Hi-Libra man
I have been married to my Beautiful & wonderful Sag Wife for 2 years and we have been together for 9 years.
Here is my experience:
Personally people should not take this whole astrology thing to deeply. Yes many factors are very true, but mostly only on the surface. I am a 30 year old happily married Libra man. I am very romantic and extremely loving and emotional. So much so that when my my wife and I make love, she is the one that falls asleep afterwards and I end up being the one who wants to stay up and chat about my feelings. My wife inst bothered by feelings whatsoever, she does talk a lot! but only about work. She will not even attempt to try to connect with my emotionally. She is very selfish in that regard. Other than that she is unbelievable! She is very positive and tackles life full on. She really cares for me and compensates a lot for me. She works really hard and is very successful cause of that.We never have money though because we both love the nicer things. She only reads weird romance novels, 100+ a year and I am the practical one that will read books about relationships.And I must say, those relationship books are a must for any married couple! People should realize that good astrological traits only com alight when the person is in a good environment & relationship . If things are not well, then it may seem as if the person is acting out of astrological character. For the first two years I was very unhappy in my marriage because we only made love once every few months, and for a Libra man who defines sex as a bonding of love and affection, that devoured me from inside. My wife only wanted to have sex with me when she was on alcohol, and always kept screaming at me to "fuck harder". I absolutely hated that! She sees sex as this game to see how fast she can cum. I felt used and emotionally unsatisfied. Don't get me wrong I am one hell of a horny man and love a good tumble under the sheets, but I will only do sex if I feel that i am loved and vice verso. I know she loves me dearly but sometimes I'm not so sure of the Sex compatibility. That's when things started to chance for the better, Thank you relationship books! I will post the links below. Our relationship is incredible now. The books are from a christian view, and although I don't do the religious thing, these books were absolutely amazing!!!
http://shaunti.com/BooksStudies/ForMenOnly/tabid/138/Default.aspx<BR> http://shaunti.com/BooksStudies/ForWomenOnly/tabid/137/Def

'Fuck harder' made me lol.

Posted by WaterCup
'Fuck harder' made me lol.

hehe, That damn swear word blocker, forgot.LOL! Treetrunk is still close enough.

'treetrunk harder' sounds like something a lumberjack would say. Ha

Posted by WaterCup
'treetrunk harder' sounds like something a lumberjack would say. Ha

lol..yea thats not cute.

Any other dudes cringe at this post? That jjyellas a real catch huh... What a classy girl...

Posted by size zero superhero
*never felt sexually disappointed with a Taurus

I agree with you that people wouldn't be disappointed sexually with a Taurus. I had a girlfriend many many eons ago and she and I broke our virginities together.Taurens love to be romanced forever, and a Libra is the King of romance. So I had a very memorable experience with them.

Posted by JOJOJO
Libras just do better with companionship, not so much casual but the real deal. if the sex is boring to libra, you betcha.... the search begins for something else..BORING SEX ....YUCK!!!

I agree!