OMG, guess what? Yeah. Libra Girl came over. Around dinner time. With a meringue pie she baked from scratch for me. She chatted about everything EXPECT us. So I, being the primal Aries I am, just said, "Do you want to be together or not? Do you want to do things together or not?" She said, "Of course." And started apologizing for being "weird" and claiming a lot of times she felt out of her comfort zone but still wanted to be together and do things together. I could tell I totally tipped the scales. And after we talked, we held hands for a while. On her way out I gave her a hug and, the weirdest thing, she gently touched my lower back without saying anything.
I'm not sure WHAT all that means. I'm still a little *grrrrrrr* not having all my doubts / questions answered. We shall see.
Chatz, I'm cooling it again. Right now. No communication for at least two days. Right? THAT seems to lure THEM back in!
I have a question for you, and the rest, about Body Language. I asked Libra Girl some specific questions and she grabbed her nose, hooking her index finger over the bridge of her nose and covering her mouth while answering me. YOUR interpretation?
ummmm it does seem that way....playing hard to get makes you more attractive....sad, but it seems that way...works every freaking time....stupid, stupid, stupid!!!
My interpretation— well I think maybe she's got something to hide. Im no expert at body language coz Id hate to pick people to pieces with that - too much hard work but if she did it every time you asked a specific question? Im thinking there's something not quite right...my opinion anyway
Atom, you really should have tipped those scales more and given her the hug and made sure you kissed her as passionately as you could.....then she would have been lost for words too!!!!
"she grabbed her nose, hooking her index finger over the bridge of her nose and covering her mouth while answering me."
I do that sometimes when I am thinking completely inside my head, or when I am thinking out loud. But, you can generally tell with me because I will also be staring into space (even if I am looking right at you), like I am zoned out...
"And after we talked, we held hands for a while. On her way out I gave her a hug and, the weirdest thing, she gently touched my lower back without saying anything."
Hmmmm, she still didn't let you kiss her (not that you necessarily tried, though, but neither did she). She may say that she wants a relationship with you, but are you certain this is the type of relationship that you want to continue? Would it be satisfying and fulfilling enough for you if it continues on at this pace?
al, believe me, I have my feelers out to see who else is available. And, no, I didn't try to kiss her and she didn't try to kiss me. 'Still not in a kissing mood right now, more of a digesting mood, looking at EVERYTHING that's been going on with her. It will either end up be a VERY deep relationship or NADA; but I thought her gesture with the pie was nice and it was TIME to confront her with emotional things. Libras: complex creatures.
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I'm not sure WHAT all that means. I'm still a little *grrrrrrr* not having all my doubts / questions answered. We shall see.