Good Men finish Last

Thoughts? Opinions? Perspectives?

(Despise the term "nice", hence replaced the term as above.)

Nope. Nope, nope nope!!! 🙂

Don't they save the best for last?

If the premise is indeed true, the reason for it simple...they're value is not accepted or responded to often. Simply put, "good" implies healthy and unhealthy relationships are the norm nowadays.

That was awesome, Grey.

Holy cow.. My mind was elsewhere.. I thought you meant finish last.. As in bed. Hahaha
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"Good" men finish last with women who aren't "Good."

So technically the women who reject them, play them or take them for granted are doing the "good" men a favor by doing so

Just b/c a man is considered "good" doesn't mean that his choice in the women he picks is "good."

You can be a great person all you want, but if you use bad judgment when picking partners, the end result will always be pain, so of course "Good men finish last" in these kinds of situations. But not b/c them being "good" was the problem. No the problem was them picking people that weren't so "good."

If good men started attracting & chasing after good women, the "good" guys wouldn't finish last or at all b/c they'd stay together lol

There's this false stigma that men are the only gender who have some immature, doggish, cheating & narcissistic ways.

Women can and will do all the things men can and will do too.

It's not like every woman on earth is "good."

I don't see why men aren't more grateful that bad women left them or hurt them! The 1st thing a woman tells another woman when she's been dumped, duped or hurt is "Oh honey, he wasn't that good for you anyways!" So why can't the same sentence apply to men

Have better judgment good guys! Same goes for women!

NEVER get rid of the GOOD traits in you!!!

Make life easier by getting rid of the people who don't appreciate those "good" traits in you lol

For all you know, if you'd just use better judgment in the partners you pick, the person that ends up truly being right for you will most likely pick that trait about you as their favorite & the very reason they choose you & fell in love with you!!!

Unless it's bad, never change or get rid of the trait! Get rid of the people who respond negatively to something so positive!!!

Simple =)

I think it is harder for a decent guy to be successful these days because moral standards have gone down a lot over the last 50 years, so that a lot of people these days just believe that the end justifies the means, and so if you are trying to be a decent guy but trying to compete with those kinds of people it can put you at a practical disadvantage. I would say that my father and I are both decent guys at heart but he has been more successful partly because in his heyday (50 years ago) people in general (that you had to compete with) were not so ruthless and amoral.